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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 20, 2023Hindi

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I had a girlfriend. Who got married in 2016. In 2023 I met her cousin sister. I started to love her. What to do? Should I tell her that I love her?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your ex-partner is married and that gives you every right to move on. I understand that the situation is tricky here but the first thing is to make sure you tell your present crush about your ex and the fact that they are related. If all of that is already out in the open, it's time to assess if the girl also feels the same way about you. If that aligns, there's no reason why you can't express your feelings for her. But if she isn't comfortable dating her cousin's ex, you should leave it at that.

It's important to understand that life does not have to be so complicated. You can give it a try but if things don't work out, move on. There are surely many more women who are looking for someone exactly like you.

Best Wishes.

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Hi, Me and my cousin sister(same age) are best friends from younger age and have very good bonding with each other, when im around 20, I Kissed and Hugged my cousin mutliple times she allowed me to do it, now she is in love with me what to do? Im not sure whether i love on her or i feel i love her because of her caring. she wants us to move away from family and start new life somewhere together. but i dont want to leave my family. what to do please help

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