Hello Mam, I have been relationship in past 2 1/2 years. I saw her in my first matches and she didn’t show interest in me.
Later she got in touch with me and we got into a relationship.
Due to lockdown we couldn’t meet. Whenever I ask her to meet up she used to tell me NO.
We met only 4 times in 2 years.
And I’m only looking her all daily needs and expenses.
She is ready to meet her friends but for me she will tell it’s not possible because of parents and other circumstances.
Sometimes I feel she is using me. I’m confused. What decision should I make? I told her many times 'let’s move on.'
After a couple of days I will only call her to talk but she never says let’s move on.
Please suggest what I should do.

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Ans: Swarupa Madam, With an EWS rank of 8,180 and a 96.45 percentile, your son has a good chance of admission to several NIT, IIIT, and GFTI programs. However, securing top CSE seats at premier NITs and IIITs remains challenging. Recent JoSAA data shows that IIITM Gwalior's CSE closes around rank 8,044 in the general/all-India category, while ECE and related branches at newer IIITs often close at higher ranks, making them more attainable options. For NITs, CSE admission at top campuses is highly competitive, but ECE or other lower-demand branches at newer NITs and GFTIs could be realistic.

For VIT Vellore or Chennai, CSE admission depends on a strong VITEEE rank, as JEE Main ranks are not considered there.

It is advisable to keep backup options such as IIITM Gwalior, IIIT Nagpur, IIITDM Jabalpur, NITs for lower-demand branches, and reputable private colleges like VIT, LNCT, SGSITS, and LNMIIT, depending on the entrance exam route.

I also recommend reviewing JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the last 2-3 years to gain deeper insights and better understand admission trends. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: She has a chance at a lower-ranked NITs or several IIITs, especially in less competitive branches or via home-state quota.

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Ans: Rajesh Sir, With your son's rank, securing a CSE seat in NITs or IIITs is highly unlikely, as recent JoSAA data shows that closing ranks for top and mid-tier CSE programs are much lower. Even many ECE seats at IIITM Gwalior close well before this rank. Realistically, government college options would be limited to lower branches in newer NITs or GFTIs, or ECE/IT-type branches in select newer IIITs, rather than CSE at better institutes. For Madhya Pradesh, IIITM Gwalior remains an option for non-CSE branches, but CSE is out of reach at this rank. Additionally, please review the JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the last 2-3 years to gain further insights and better understand admission trends.


As backup, strongly consider private colleges such as VIT Bhopal, LNCT Bhopal, SGSITS Indore, and other private CSE programs in MP, which offer broader admission ranges and better practical chances. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Sreenivas Sir, Your son might get NIT Warangal ECE Branch, but CSE is extremely unlikely at AIR 23,568. NIT Warangal’s 2024 open-category closing ranks were about 1,899 for CSE and around 4,979–5,099 for ECE, while 2023 last-round cutoffs still stayed well within the low thousands for these branches. So, for a Telangana home-state candidate, ECE at NIT Warangal is possible only if the final round stretches, but CSE is not realistic. For top IIITs, CSE is generally too competitive, but ECE may be possible in newer or mid-tier IIITs such as IIITs in Guwahati, Sri City, Kota, Sonepat, Una, or similar depending on round and category trends. Additionally, please review the JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the last 2-3 years to gain further insights and better understand admission trends. If possible and desired, consider selecting 2-3 reputable engineering colleges as backup options through State Engineering Counselling, especially if your son is primarily targeting the CSE or ECE branches. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Moderate Chances with lower NITs and newly formed IIITs with lower branches. Keep other options as a backup.

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Ans: Choose IIIT CSE/ECE over NIT Hamirpur Mechanical unless you’re genuinely interested in core engineering

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Ans: You have not mentioned your home state. Anyway, please note, with EWS rank 49,360 and CRL 3,25,000, CSE in NITs, IIITs, and GFTIs is very unlikely because recent JoSAA and CSAB cutoff trends show CSE closing ranks are usually much better than this, and even many IIIT CSE seats close below your range. Your better chances are in lower-demand branches at newer NITs or GFTIs or in non-CSE branches such as Mechanical, Civil, Production, or Metallurgy if you want a government seat. The sensible backup plan is to apply in all JoSAA and CSAB rounds, keep newer NITs and lower-demand branches open, and also prepare strong state counselling and private-college options. If your goal is specifically CSE, a good private university may be a more realistic path than waiting for a highly competitive government seat. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Kartikeya, With an EWS rank of 47,919 and Uttar Pradesh domicile, securing a CSE seat at HBTU Kanpur or IET Lucknow through UPTAC or CSAB is highly unlikely, as recent cutoffs for these colleges have been significantly better than this rank. Similarly, CSE admission to NITs, IIITs, and GFTIs is not realistic at this rank, even considering home-state or reserved-category seats, since CSAB closing ranks for CSE in many such institutions are much lower.

Better backup options include pursuing other branches such as Electrical Engineering, ECE, Mechanical, or Chemical at HBTU, IET, or other UP government colleges. Alternatively, you may consider private colleges in Uttar Pradesh through UPTAC for CSE, AI, or IT programs. If securing a government seat is a priority, it is advisable to focus primarily on non-CSE branches and treat a branch change as a secondary option. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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