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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 06, 2020

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
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Madam/Sir...I am finding it difficult while communicating in front of public gathering and while giving presentations in the meeting.

Went through several books and videos but not able to overcome on the issue.

Please suggest some simple techniques.

Ans: Dear R, I know this feeling. So many people feel like the crowd is going to swallow them. I have a few simple tricks for you.

1. First, watch videos of a person that you admire for their public speaking skills and one who is confident and sharp in front of an audience. Watch their every move, their rate of speech, their language, their body language.

2. Next, imagine yourself as a character on a stage/podium/meeting room in place of that person and as though you imitate his/her every move.

If you think, there is more that you want to add to feel more confident watching your character, like maybe pumping your fist in the air. Watch your character do that.

3. When you think that your character looks and feels confident, simply take a step forward and take on the character and face an imaginary crowd.

4. Now simply feel the elation as you have simply taken on the same role as the person that you admire and hence you feel the same air of confidence.

The key is to practice this many times over, till your mind supports you on this. Try this, it’s fun and it does work. Have a great confident self, be happy

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I am 35, MBA from a reputed college. I recently took over as senior project manager in a software company. Over the last few months, I’ve been asked to lead more high-stakes presentations, but every time I step in front of a group of senior professionals, my nerves take over. I can’t seem to communicate my ideas clearly, and I end up rambling or losing the audience. It’s frustrating because I know the content is strong, but I can’t deliver it with the confidence it needs. I’m starting to feel like this could affect my career growth if I don’t improve. I want to know how to seem more confident and present my ideas with clarity.
Ans: Hi!!

I can understand what you are going through.
I have helped many a people to become better communicators, presenters and public speakers. I agree with you when you say .. that these skills will augur well for your career growth.
What I can say is this .. that it is a learnable skill. Practice and more practice is the only way ahead. You said your content is strong, that is 50% of the job done, so build up on this confidence and practice your delivery in front of the mirror or in front of encouraging family/friends.
The only way to gain confidence is to "JUST DO IT"....to calm your nerves- deep breathing techniques and visualizations techniques will be useful.
I can help you on this journey of being a person who delivers with panache!

There are books by Dale Carnegie on public speaking which can help you out. Also read about Abe Lincoln and his journey of becoming a great orator, it can maybe help you.

Remember, PRACTICE AND PRACTICE is the key to unlock your confidence and become the person who delvers with panache.

All the best!!

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Hello Sir, I have secured a JEE Main rank of 28,203, and I'm currently considering Computer Science Engineering at two colleges: IIIT Kota and BIT Mesra (Mesra campus). The closing rank for IIIT Kota is around 31,000, while for BIT Mesra it is around 24,000. Although BIT Mesra is one of my preferred choices, the fees are significantly higher, so I would likely need to take an education loan. On the other hand, my parents can comfortably afford the fees and living expenses for IIIT Kota. Another factor is that IIIT Kota is much closer to my home, whereas BIT Mesra is quite far away. My parents are therefore encouraging me to choose IIIT Kota because it is financially more manageable and closer to home. I'm open to taking an education loan if BIT Mesra would provide a substantially better opportunity, but I want to make the most informed decision by considering academics, placements, return on investment, financial burden, and overall college experience. I would really appreciate your guidance on which option you think would be the better choice and how I should approach this decision. Thank you for your time and guidance.
Ans: Shruti, Choose IIIT Kota CSE over BIT Mesra. Academically and placement-wise, IIIT Kota’s specialized curriculum delivers tech outcomes fully competitive with BIT Mesra, while requiring a substantially lower financial commitment. Avoiding an education loan significantly improves your immediate return on investment and reduces post-graduation career pressure. Since IIIT Kota is also closer to your home, it offers a stronger, more practical overall value. Choose BIT Mesra only if external scholarships significantly bridge the cost gap or if you strictly prioritize a traditional, large-scale campus ecosystem over financial optimization. Regardless of the college you join, continuously upgrade your technical and soft skills, and maintain a robust, professional LinkedIn profile to stand out among your peers during campus placements. All The Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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thank you so much for your guidance
Ans: Welcome Shruti.

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One of my relatives from IIT said it's better to prefer govt over private institutions. They said go for nit or iiit if u get ciruital branches and don't prefer private.. what would u suggest sir ?
Ans: Your relative's advice is generally sound, but it isn't a universal rule. If you get a circuital branch (CSE, IT, ECE, EE) at a good NIT or IIIT, I'd usually recommend that over most private colleges because of the strong peer group, reputation, alumni network, and placement opportunities. That said, both the college and the branch matter. A top private institute like BITS Pilani or a few leading private universities can be a better choice than a lower-ranked NIT/IIIT in some situations, especially if you're getting a significantly better branch. Similarly, choosing a branch you're genuinely interested in is often better than taking a non-circuital branch at a government college just for the tag. So my suggestion would be: prioritize good NITs/IIITs if you can get a circuital branch. If your government options are much weaker, compare them carefully with the best private colleges rather than rejecting private institutions outright. The decision should be based on the specific college-branch combinations, not just "government vs private."

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Ramalingam

Ramalingam Kalirajan  |11345 Answers  |Ask -

Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jul 20, 2026

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Please give details about specialized investment funds details and which are better
Ans: Specialized Investment Funds (SIFs) are a new category introduced between mutual funds and Portfolio Management Services.
They are designed for investors who want more advanced strategies.
They offer greater flexibility than regular mutual funds.
At the same time, they come with higher risk and complexity.

» What Makes Specialized Investment Funds Different?

Fund managers get more flexibility.
They can take concentrated positions.
They can use advanced investment strategies.
They can manage portfolios more actively.
Some strategies may aim to benefit from both rising and falling markets.
This flexibility can create opportunities.
But it can also increase risk.

» Who Should Consider Specialized Investment Funds?

Investors with a reasonably large portfolio.
Investors who understand market volatility.
Investors willing to stay invested for several years.
Investors looking beyond traditional mutual fund strategies.
New investors should first build a strong core portfolio through regular mutual funds.

» Main Advantages

Wider investment universe.
Greater portfolio flexibility.
Ability to use specialised strategies.
Potential for better risk-adjusted returns.
Professional portfolio management.
Good fund managers may get more room to generate alpha.

» Main Risks

Performance may vary widely between fund managers.
Strategies can be difficult to understand.
Higher volatility possible.
Some portfolios may become concentrated.
Investor expectations may not match actual results.
Therefore proper suitability assessment is important.

» Which Types May Be Better?

Diversified equity-oriented strategies may suit long-term investors.
Flexibility-based strategies may suit investors seeking growth with risk management.
Multi-asset oriented strategies may suit investors wanting diversification.
Dynamic allocation approaches may suit investors nearing major financial goals.
These categories generally offer a better balance between risk and reward.

» Which Types Need Extra Caution?

Highly concentrated strategies.
Sector-focused strategies.
Theme-based approaches.
Aggressive tactical strategies.
These can deliver strong returns in some periods.
But can also face deep corrections.

» How Much Allocation Is Reasonable?

Specialized Investment Funds should usually be a satellite allocation.
They should not become the entire portfolio.
Core wealth creation should still come from diversified mutual funds.
Stability and diversification remain important.
Many investors may consider allocating only a portion of their investible assets to such strategies.

» For Most Investors

Retirement goals.
Children's education goals.
Long-term wealth creation goals.
These can often be achieved through well-managed diversified mutual funds.
Specialized Investment Funds can be considered as an additional layer, not a replacement.

» Final Insights

Specialized Investment Funds are an interesting development in the investment space.
They offer more flexibility than traditional mutual funds.
The potential rewards may be higher.
The risks can also be higher.
There is no single "best" Specialized Investment Fund.
The right choice depends on your goals, risk appetite, investment horizon and existing portfolio.
For most investors, a strong mutual fund portfolio should come first.
Specialized Investment Funds can then be used selectively to enhance portfolio diversification and return potential.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

AMFI-Registered MFD – ARN 4188

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

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Ramalingam

Ramalingam Kalirajan  |11345 Answers  |Ask -

Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Jul 20, 2026

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Sir My daughter investing 1.5 lakhs in ppf and mutual fund sip 30 thousands per month since 3 years. Her age is 33 years now. In additional to this avarage one lakh rupess she is investing every year in mutual fund . Could you please advise how many years approximately will take place to become her investment 5 crores rupees.
Ans: Your daughter has started investing at a young age.
Age 33 is a wonderful time for wealth creation.
Regular PPF contributions.
Monthly SIP of Rs.30,000.
Additional lump sum investment of around Rs.1 lakh every year.
This combination can create substantial wealth over time.

» Time Is More Important Than Amount

Many investors focus only on returns.
But wealth creation is largely driven by discipline and time.
Your daughter already has both.
Starting early gives compounding enough room to work.

» How Long May It Take To Reach Rs.5 Crore?

Based on the investments mentioned and assuming she continues investing consistently,
Reaching Rs.5 crore may typically take around 15 to 18 years from now.
It could happen earlier if investments are increased periodically.
It could take longer if markets go through extended weak phases.
Since market returns are never guaranteed, it is better to think in ranges rather than exact years.

» What Can Help Reach The Goal Faster?

Increasing SIP whenever salary increases.
Investing annual bonuses.
Continuing yearly lump sum investments.
Staying invested during market corrections.
Avoiding frequent switching between funds.
Even a small annual increase in SIP can make a huge difference over 15 to 20 years.

» One Important Observation

At age 33, retirement is still far away.
Therefore she can continue keeping a meaningful allocation towards equity-oriented mutual funds.
Long-term goals generally benefit from staying invested through market cycles.
Many investors stop investing when markets fall.
Those periods often create the best long-term opportunities.

» Other Areas To Review

Adequate health insurance.
Adequate term insurance if she has dependents.
Emergency fund covering several months of expenses.
Separate planning for children's education, if applicable.
Wealth creation works best when these foundations are already in place.

» Final Insights

Your daughter is already on a very good path.
Regular SIPs, yearly PPF investment and annual lump sums create a strong wealth-building engine.
Based on the current investment pattern, reaching Rs.5 crore is quite achievable.
A reasonable expectation may be around 15 to 18 years, subject to market performance.
If she increases investments regularly, the journey could become shorter.
The biggest advantage she has today is not the amount invested. It is her age and consistency.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

AMFI-Registered MFD – ARN 4188

www.holisticinvestment.in

https://www.linkedin.com/in/ramalingamcfp/

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