I came in contact with a lady staying nearby having husband and kids but says she loves me too. I also use to share everything with her and used to gift her and her kids whatever possible. But later on I came to know she is a sick lady and has physical relations with every tom, dick and Harry of the locality. Surprisingly all the residents of the locality are well aware of this dirty lady but she just gives a damn to backstair gossip. Rather I should say that she is a hysteria patient who has morbid desire to have sex with everybody she come across. Should I break up !

Ans: Dear Avinash,
Your situation is complex, involving both emotional and financial aspects. Reflect on your priorities and values. Consider the impact this relationship may have on your overall well-being, your marriage, and your personal life. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. If you are comfortable doing so, consider discussing your feelings and concerns with your spouse. Open communication is crucial in maintaining trust and understanding in a marriage.Consider the long-term prospects of this relationship. If it is causing more harm than good, it may be worth reevaluating whether continuing the relationship aligns with your personal goals and values. Evaluate the nature of the financial assistance you are providing. If you feel taken advantage of or if the person is not appreciative of your help, it's crucial to reassess whether continued financial support is appropriate. Establish clear boundaries regarding your relationship, especially given your marital status. If the relationship is causing strain on your marriage or personal well-being, consider whether those boundaries need to be adjusted or reinforced.
Remember, it's essential to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of those around you. If the relationship is causing distress or negatively impacting your life, it may be time to reassess and make decisions that are in your best interest. Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can provide valuable perspectives during challenging times.

Ans: Dear Avinash,
Your situation is complex, involving both emotional and financial aspects. Reflect on your priorities and values. Consider the impact this relationship may have on your overall well-being, your marriage, and your personal life. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and mental health. If you are comfortable doing so, consider discussing your feelings and concerns with your spouse. Open communication is crucial in maintaining trust and understanding in a marriage.Consider the long-term prospects of this relationship. If it is causing more harm than good, it may be worth reevaluating whether continuing the relationship aligns with your personal goals and values. Evaluate the nature of the financial assistance you are providing. If you feel taken advantage of or if the person is not appreciative of your help, it's crucial to reassess whether continued financial support is appropriate. Establish clear boundaries regarding your relationship, especially given your marital status. If the relationship is causing strain on your marriage or personal well-being, consider whether those boundaries need to be adjusted or reinforced.
Remember, it's essential to prioritize your own well-being and the well-being of those around you. If the relationship is causing distress or negatively impacting your life, it may be time to reassess and make decisions that are in your best interest. Seeking support from friends, family, or professionals can provide valuable perspectives during challenging times.

PS: I have replied this question earlier also

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Is lack of positive challenges making you run around this lady?
What kind of future do you see with her?
What kind of a present day moment do you see with someone who cannot fathom commitment?
Also do you think that by loading her with gifts, you can buy her attention and love?
If you crave attention, then you might want to try and do something in life that will make people turns their heads towards you...any attention from the external world is very short-lived till it satisfies their need after which you will be discarded without much of a sigh...
So, pull yourself up NOW and develop connections with people who value you and your presence in their lives!

All the best!

Ans: You need to get more girls. Realise she is not special. There are many hotter girls out there. Learn to attract them