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The very fact that you have asked me this question as to whether he loved you at all simply suggests that you have the answer to that.
Certain actions of people can make us quite unsettled and I would like to point you to the fact of him proposing to you almost immediately after he was rejected by the other girl (teacher).
What does that tell you?
Doesn’t it seem that he is possibly incapable of taking rejections and also wants to feel the aura of woman around him all the time?
Aren’t these messages enough for you to be able to find someone more mature and someone who respects your presence in his life and wants to marry you for love and a life together rather than to make him feel secure, whole and complete?
Never try and fill an emotional void in a person which must be filled by them on their own accord. Once you fill it, another void will be waiting to be filled by someone else and before you know, you will be caught in a loop that can’t be untied.
Your presence offers him warmth, attention and care of woman that you have possibly been splurging on him.
When he finds another woman offering this, he might be ready to try that as well. Be your own person, guard your boundaries and let people in who nourish you and accept you for who you are.
Be well and happy!
Hang on! Let’s get all the facts right here…
1. He loves you and you love him
2. You supported him financially and emotionally
3. He also wants to be with other girls
4. He is currently in a relationship with another girl and also claims that he will travel abroad
5. You both plan to be together
Did I get all the facts right?
Take a step back and just figure out if he is just missing a ‘Mother Figure’ in his life and if he is actually thinking of you as one.
That’s what you will always be to him if that is the case. Watch how you are playing with your emotions here as whatever be the age, when a heart breaks, it really does break!
Ask yourself: What is it that I am getting from this relationship? Is it love, it is eliminating loneliness, is it validation OR is it you wanting to share love that you have?
These are not reasons enough to be with a person and lock your emotions with. The future is always unknown and uncertain but delve into your heart and simply ask: Do I really want to test the waters OR Do I create my life the way that I want on my own terms as a 40-year old who is complete charge of life? You will clearly get your answer.
All the best and create a beautiful life for yourself.
So brotherly feelings turned into love?
I guess when you tied the rakhi, you simply were trying to avoid facing up to the fact that there already might have been feelings for him, and it was convenient to seal the connection with a rakhi. Possible?
Now that both have discovered that it might be more than what you thought of initially, please sit down like mature individuals and talk about it.
No point trying to avoid the feelings for each other if they indeed exist. After which, both of you can decide the right course of action.
Also, dropping hints might be your reading of the situation based on what you wished or hoped for.
It could very well be one-sided from you, so it’s better to have that frank chat and put all these doubts and uncertainties to rest.
Makes sense? Wait no longer…
All the best!