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Autistic Son, Marital Issues, No Career: Mom Seeks Escape - How to Restart?

Kanchan Rai |623 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 09, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 03, 2024Hindi

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I have an autistic son of 4 year old. I feel depressed while taking his care. My married life is also not good. I dont have career. I want to run away from my son. I am unable to understand how to restart my career

Ans: If you're feeling like running away, it's a sign that you need support—emotionally, physically, and mentally. Do you have anyone you trust who can help, even for short periods, so you can take a break? Support groups for parents of autistic children (both online and offline) can also be a great place to find understanding, advice, and emotional relief.

As for restarting your career, it’s never too late. Since you have childcare responsibilities, looking into work-from-home or flexible jobs might be a good first step. What was your field of interest before marriage? Do you have any skills that can be refreshed? Even small steps, like taking online courses or freelancing, can help you regain confidence and financial independence.

You’re dealing with so much right now, and you don’t have to figure it all out at once. The most important thing is to take one step at a time—whether it's seeking emotional support, finding small ways to regain control of your career, or even just taking a moment for yourself. If the depression feels overwhelming, reaching out to a therapist or counselor might be really helpful. You deserve support, and your well-being matters just as much as your child's.

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Hi im asma i need your help to guide me ,first of all im a single mother who has got 2 kids i have gape of nearly 9 years of work trying to get respectable life back because of my partner is so well with this he left me alone with kids since i have no one to support want to start my career with good job .

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Hi, I am a 33 year old female. I am working in IT industry. I started my career with IT companies but in between I pursued my mtech and started teching. As the pay was very low in private colleges, after a 5 year gap I had resumed my IT job with substantial seniority cuts. Now I am a mother to a 3year old and there is immense work pressure at my job. I have got helping hand but some days I don't get to see my child. Plus I don't have enough time to upskill or search for career growth options. I never wanted to rejoin IT, which makes me sad everyday. How do I give my life a better direction.

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I am 38 year old homemaker . I had a special need kid and he just passed away recently. I have done MBA HR and have 1 year work experience. I want to restart my career as I will have to make myself busy to recover from my son loss

Ans: Check up different placement agency ore recruitment firms. Check if they are hiring or if they can look at openings in that area. Connect with your batch mates from college and check if you can get any project or any job even if it is entry level.

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I have not alloted any college in josaa till 6th round now csab registration is done along in Maharashtra state counselling in cap round 1 o have ece sakec chembur college through my jee mains score 80.85 percentile my rank in cap round 22263 and in jee mains crl 284161 and obc ncl 99633 so what college in csab I can get in nit iiit or gfti or should I go with cap

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Recommendation: Opt for SIT Tumkur’s CSE-AI&ML, leveraging its cutting-edge AI curriculum, superior placement network and industry collaborations for enhanced academic and career outcomes. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Hello sir iam from hyderabad .my son got CSe in jbiet engineering college hyderabad in tgeapcetit is good college please reply

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Dear sir, my son got 99670 rank in jee mains. What colleges and courses we can opt for admission through CSAB. Please suggest.

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Please target core branches, such as Mechanical and Civil, with newly formed NITs or IIITs.

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With crl 55k can i participate in csab counseling? Which branches can i prefer in tier1 and tier2 colleges?

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Sri my son confused with options VIT chennai CSE AI Robotics, and CSE in IIIT Sricity, IIIT kotaym Or we can take retake on JEE exams next year for top NIT ( Current JEE mains score 97.61) Plesse give your feedback

Ans: Hello dear.
Please reconsider the idea of taking a drop just to aim for NITs. Prefer CSE at IIIT Sricity or Kotaym, whichever is more convenient for you from a travel perspective. VIT is a bit more expensive among the options mentioned. The final choice will be yours.

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