Anu Krishna |1391 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jul 22, 2022
Dear KS,
It’s still unfortunate largely in our country and in few other places outside of India, sexual preferences and orientation is still considered a taboo or something to shoved under the carpet.
It’s treated as an illness that will go away like a cold and fever.
Your marriage possibly comes under this confusion and hence both you and your husband are struggling.
He never got a chance to figure out which gender he leans into more maybe due to societal pressure or from family; and it has surfaced after marriage.
For you, it feels like you have been cheated and though you love him, do know that it might not be a marriage that might work especially if he chooses to root himself to his current sexual orientation.
I suggest you weigh out the pros and cons of being in this marriage and have a frank discussion with your husband.
If he has nothing to offer to you and in this marriage, you know what is to be done.
Whatever it be, do know that this has happened at the right time; just imagine the confusions if there were children in the picture.
If after the discussion, it was just something that he experimented with, I guess there might be scope to grow into the marriage.
Have that discussion and do that NOW; a lot will ease.
Yes, it perhaps might be a heartbreak, but better to MOVE either way.
Be strong and all the best!
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