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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 19, 2022
Dear T,
The very fact that you have approached me, a total stranger on the topic of whether you can trust your spouse or not, simply means that somewhere you have lost trust in her.
The timelines are a little confusing to me and hence what I would say to you is that: Past is the past and what happens there and what people do is what they can in the best possible manner. So, do not bring the past into a present decision.
But if there are any parallel relationships brewing now that are threatening your mind and the marriage, kindly confront her calmly and with ample evidence in your kitty to produce in case she denies them. But make sure that the evidence that you have is all real with time stamps on it.
Do make sure that the confrontation is not for you to prove a point and score high but it comes from a place where you want to know where this marriage is headed.
This helps avoid unnecessary arguments and will help you both be in a solution space.
If she says sorry, you need to ask yourself, if you can move ahead placing trust on her again.
What must she do to gain your trust? State this clearly to her. Move on this quickly before it eats your peace of mind.
All the best!
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