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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Apr 27, 2022
Dear VM,
He is reluctant to have a physical relationship because deep down he has issues that he does not want to confront.
It could be emotional or physical issues that he is embarrassed to share as it might challenge his ‘manhood’.
Most people like to life in that false pride rather than solve the issue at hand.
So, he absolutely needs to go to a doctor or a therapist who can help him out of this issue and hence the two of you can begin to bond. Else today he accuses of cheating, tomorrow it will something else and then something else.
This issue is being beautifully masked by your in-laws who also possibly don’t know that their son needs HELP. So, it’s easy to blame it on you.
Staying with him or not is a personal decision that you must make. Ask yourself:
What is it that I am getting from being in this marriage?
What will I lose by walking out?
How will walking out impact the baby?
Do I have a support system that will stand by me as I choose to leave the marriage?
Evaluate your state of mind and focus on getting better by being happy and cheerful and reaching to those who can keep you in that state.
Whatever you choose to do, do not waste another moment here on wasteful situations and do what’s best for you and your baby which I am suer you can.
Best wishes!
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