Should a 65 plus ( widower ) person go for a new relataionship

Ans: I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your wife. It's understandable that you're feeling lonely right now. It's important to take some time to grieve and process your emotions before making any major decisions.

If you're considering a live-in relationship or second marriage, it's important to take things slow and approach the situation with an open mind. Make sure that you communicate your intentions clearly with any potential partners and be honest about your feelings and expectations. You don't want to rush into anything and risk getting hurt.

It's also important to consider the impact that this decision may have on your relationships with your daughters. You may want to have an open and honest conversation with them about your plans and how they feel about it.

Remember, the decision to enter into a live-in relationship or second marriage is a personal one, and you should do what feels right for you. Take the time to explore your options and make sure that you're making a decision that will bring you happiness and fulfillment.

Ans: Dear V,
What can you do when she doesn't want to in a relationship with you anymore? Of course, it is good to have a heart-to-heart chat and figure out what is going on in her mind...what led her to want to break off from the relationship?
There are a few and more unanswered questions which can only come through that chat. So, do initiate it!
Also, you may want to ask her if she wants to have some 'space' from the relationship for a while...it's wise to respect what comes through your chat and not let it mess with your mind space.
Easier said than done...but when you place your happiness on something happening or not happening, you will invariably start to feel like a victim when things don't go your way.
So, before you broach the topic with her, be mentally prepared for whatever the outcome; that's the only way you will be able to think with a clear mind.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You seem to have a good set-up for yourself. The question is: Why would you want to stir things up, move away from what feels comfortable at your age?
Especially when you know that your expenses have been covered by your children, would you be willing to give up a roof over your head, leave your family and move in with her?
She does mention that she will take care of you; my suggestion is...go n experience it for a few weeks for yourself. At 77, there are a few things that you may find difficult to adjust to and you really don't need to mend backwards to adjust. At the same time, it maybe a welcome change for you to have a companion.
Talk to your children; they may resist this at first and reprimand you for having such thoughts but at the end of the day, it's your life...You can tell them that you will try the arrangement for a few weeks and then come to a decision...that will also give the lady an idea whether she is able to take on your responsibility as well. Talking about things and experiencing them are two different things. Just that, you must look ta your comfort and stability in this phase of your life before making any decisions.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Yes, nothing says that a person cannot or should not re-marry at 42!

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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