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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 09, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 08, 2024Hindi

I am 64 years. I have almost no libido. My wife is 60 and still wants sex. Erection is also not there. what should we do. In our religion it is said that after 60 we should abstain from sex.what should we do?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Erection not being there could be due to a physical ailment OR it could very well be the religious sentiment playing on your mind.
Find out which of the two.
Anyway, if you have decided that the religious belief must be upheld, there is little that is going to change. Either your wife accept your belief OR you need to overcome your belief.
Sit down and talk about it and then decide; it will a joint decision with no room for misunderstandings.

All the best!
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Communicate: Talk to your wife openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns. Let her know that it's not a reflection of your feelings for her, but rather a natural change that you're experiencing.
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Counseling or therapy: Consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual issues or relationships. They can provide guidance and strategies for improving your sexual relationship and communication.
Lifestyle changes: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, including regular exercise, a balanced diet, and managing stress, can positively impact your overall well-being, including your sexual health.
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