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Relationships Expert - Answered on Jun 10, 2023

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2023Hindi

Hello M'aam, I am a 43 year old woman happily married and we hv a 15 year old son. Recently I became friends with a man in my building and we r now good chat friends. I hvnt met him ever though. Hes married too and has two kids. By now we hv developed a good friendship and we sometimes chat till late night too. The talks are all about my family, his family, movies, series, work. Initially i felt extremely guilty to talk to him as I felt i was betraying my husband by talking to another married man. but now i hv begun to love these chats. He too dsnt mind talking and we hv becum very good friends. I want to know if this is wrong. I am getting so used to sharing all updates about my family to him. And he shares updates about his family. I hv been so lost in his words that i hv not let my hubby touch me for intimacy and I just sleep with thoughts of this friend. What should i do??

Ans: Only friends? Doesn’t sound like it! Yes, men and women can have healthy platonic relationships, but in this case…? Why would you avoid intimacy with your husband and go to sleep every night dreaming of some other man? You’re going down a slippery slope, my dear. Don’t do something you will come to regret, it may cost you both your families. Strictly friends, no need to feel guilty. But you are feeling guilty, and that’s because you have a thing for this friend of yours. Don’t pursue it! Leave it at friendly chatter or then pull away if you’re getting in too deep.
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