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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2023Hindi
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Hello M'aam, I am a 43 year old woman happily married and we hv a 15 year old son. Recently I became friends with a man in my building and we r now good chat friends. I hvnt met him ever though. Hes married too and has two kids. By now we hv developed a good friendship and we sometimes chat till late night too. The talks are all about my family, his family, movies, series, work. Initially i felt extremely guilty to talk to him as I felt i was betraying my husband by talking to another married man. but now i hv begun to love these chats. He too dsnt mind talking and we hv becum very good friends. I want to know if this is wrong. I am getting so used to sharing all updates about my family to him. And he shares updates about his family. I hv been so lost in his words that i hv not let my hubby touch me for intimacy and I just sleep with thoughts of this friend. What should i do??

Ans: Only friends? Doesn’t sound like it! Yes, men and women can have healthy platonic relationships, but in this case…? Why would you avoid intimacy with your husband and go to sleep every night dreaming of some other man? You’re going down a slippery slope, my dear. Don’t do something you will come to regret, it may cost you both your families. Strictly friends, no need to feel guilty. But you are feeling guilty, and that’s because you have a thing for this friend of yours. Don’t pursue it! Leave it at friendly chatter or then pull away if you’re getting in too deep.

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Hello sir, I am a 11th grade student. Now iam very confused amd depressed that what should i study now. Let me tell my goals. 1st thing is i want to get top 3 rank in my school examination and 2nd is to prepare for JEE MAIN examination and 3rd is to complete 12th std portions before May month 2025 to score a very good mark in my 12th board examination at 2026. And i also need to complete my JEE MAINS portions before november month for my Jee mains examination which is at Jan month and i need to crack it with 99 percentile at my first attempt and get into any one of the prestigious colleges. But iam very confused that what engineering should i choose. According to me I love all the engineering fields but i need to choose a field which will give the highest salary.These are the things that are revolving in my mind. Can you please give me perfect solution for my 5 confusions..
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Without taking an examination, without any score in hand, without any college in hand, without any course in hand, you are thinking and thinking and thinking for no reason. The goals/targets set by you are appreciable. But to convert them into reality, you have to work hard and excel in all the examinations. The highest salary is not only based on your degree or only on the college name. There are a lot of other parameters. Your journey is very long. Please keep your eyes only on your studies. Crack JEE (Mains + Adv) with a high score, get admission to a top IIT college, and choose the best course of your liking. Excel in the engineering then test the flavour of success. Best of luck for your upcoming bright future.

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