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51 Year Old Partner Contemplates Starting Own Firm: How to Overcome Risk Aversion and Performance Decline?

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 23, 2024Hindi
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I am 51 year professional now partner in a partnership firm. Every day i am thinking about starting own firm individually but I am unable to do it. I am having some financial commitment so I am afraid of taking risk. due to this thought I am losing interest in my job and not enthusiastic. I am in this dilemma for the last few years. I know that i will get better opportunities. But fear of failure is holding me behind and every day my performance is coming down. Please advice what to do.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Failure and Success are two sides of the same coin.
If you changed the way you looked at Failures, maybe then taking a step forward would be a possibility.
- Failure is a teacher
- Failure helps me to re-evaluate my plans
- Failure helps me grow

Now, this may seem easier said than done. But, a small tweak in that direction will definitely help you break free from the fears that are holding you back. Also, take a leaf out of the books of successful entrepreneur and read/listen to their failure stories and how they bounced back from it. Work on this yourself and even after that if you still feel stuck, work with a professional who can guide you into breaking any self-limiting beliefs so that you can pursue your dream.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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