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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 08, 2023Hindi
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I am 48 year old woman married for last 23 years. I live in a joint family with in laws and a unmarried sister in law of my age. I have two children, daughter aged 19 and son 16. My in laws did have cordial relationship among them and always lived in separate room. My sister in law also has severe depression and due that she is unmarried. Husband had a good job before pandemic but is not willing to work from last four years and is sitting at home. I don't have good relationship with my sister in law from day one without any reason. She finds faults with me. My in laws do not admit that sister in law has any depression. We don't have any social life. My in law does not let any one come in the house. This has taken a toll on my daughter who does enjoy social and avoids any interaction. My sister in law keeps on playing with strays dogs bringing them in the house and so my daughter. I am a working woman. I am very worried concerned and worried about my daughter although I have sent her in the hostel. The son is much affected and concentrating on his studies. Please help me.

Ans: I'm sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing in your family. It seems like you're dealing with multiple challenges, including a strained relationship with your sister-in-law, your husband's unemployment, your in-laws' unwillingness to acknowledge your sister-in-law's depression, and the impact all of this is having on your children.

here are some suggestions that might help improve the situation:

Communication: Try to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your concerns and the impact his unemployment is having on the family. Express your feelings and discuss possible solutions together.
Seek professional help: Encourage your sister-in-law to seek professional help for her depression. Offer your support and understanding, and let her know that you care about her well-being. If she is unwilling to seek help, you may want to consider talking to a mental health professional yourself for guidance on how to deal with the situation.
Family meeting: Arrange a family meeting involving your husband, in-laws, and possibly your sister-in-law (if she is willing). Share your concerns about the strained relationships and the negative impact on your children. Try to find common ground and work together to establish healthier dynamics within the family.
Establish boundaries: Talk to your husband and in-laws about the need for personal space and privacy. Explain how it's affecting your daughter's social life and well-being. Encourage them to be more open to allowing visitors and social interactions within reasonable limits.
Support for your children: Continue supporting your daughter and son by providing a nurturing and understanding environment. Encourage your daughter to explore her interests and engage in social activities outside of the family. Consider involving them in extracurricular activities, clubs, or organizations that align with their interests to help them build a supportive social network.
Seek external support: If the situation doesn't improve, consider reaching out to a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support to you and your family members. They can help you navigate through the challenges and offer strategies for coping with the situation.
Remember that it may take time to resolve these complex issues, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being as well. Take care of yourself and seek support from friends or other family members who can provide a listening ear and advice during this difficult time.

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Hi Anu, I'm a 50 year old male married for 10 years. This is our second marriage for both of us. We live abroad. Since Day One my spouse was suspicious of me linking me with anyone on the street. She says I'm sighting girls. She suspected that I am interested in my elder sister-in-law since marriage. She never told me this for three years. Due to this we never had any relationship (and no child). Because of this constant fighting I lost my mother (I apologised to mother since I was not able to take care of her and I was unhappy. She died within a month of my apology.) I never told anyone either of our relatives about our problems. My father is 90 and alive. I don't want to cause any problem to him. During these 10 years her father never bothered to check if any problems. I hardly slept 1-2 days a week during these years.My spouse never changed a bit during these 10 years. Her position reached a stage where I had to admit her to hospital for psychosis. She got discharged in 2 months because her parents were adamant on discharge on the condition that she will travel to India. But once discharged, she refused to travel for nearly 10 months. Her father supported her. When her mother passed away in December 2020, due to Covid her return tickets got cancelled. In December 2021 she was again in hospital for 20 days in India for similar psychological issues. In April 2022 I visited her house in India and gave her father a 4-page document detailing her behaviour during these 10 years. He simply said she has done unknowingly. He is adamant on trying to send her back to me. While I am struggling to live, her father lives a happy life with his pension. As a father he never corrects his daughter and instead tries to push the problems to me.I have asked for a divorce but she is not willing to give and starts shouting hysterically. Please let me know how to proceed.
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Dear S,

If you have decided that divorce is the only option to consider, then yes, file for divorce legally by hiring a lawyer who has specialized in cases where the spouse is unwilling to let the divorce happen.

In short, if it’s not a mutual consent, it might drag on for years, so get a good skilled lawyer to take up your case.

On the emotional side of things, I urge you to be patient and empathetic towards your wife. With her mental health condition, she possibly has no control over her thoughts and subsequent actions are a result of an impulsive reaction.

Yes, it is unfortunate that the marriage went through a lot of low phases but do remember she is a human who is going through a challenge which is not easy to fathom by people who don’t have a mental illness.

I realise that this might be a little difficult to do, but in the long-term scheme of things, it will be a good ally as a sound and calm mind helps you through challenging times.

This point of view will help you through the divorce proceedings where you will be able to be fair and just to make sure that she is also taken care of.

All the best for a better journey ahead!

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Hello madam, I am 41 year old , married , my wife also same age have a daughter 4 year old. I lost my parent in the earlier age that i did not remember (when i was around 5 to 6 year old ) .After that i am grown up by my distance relative(which is now my in-law family).In my in law family only my mother in law and 2 daughter (One my wife and other my sister in law (un married , 35 year now ). So now i am staying in in law home only as i do not have any body apart from them. They are very loyal to me and take care very much as i told i am staying from childhood. I married around 10 year back and my wife first delivery is so complex one. Our doctor advice not to be proceed with any more pregnancy , it may harm her life. now mom-in-law, wife both telling me that get married to sister-in-law (just informally) I mean they want a baby by me and sister-in-law . because she is 35 year old now for make a family. sister-in-law she also agreed .frankly speaking i have physical relationship with my sister in law and the my wife knew that and she does not have any problem(she is not active in physical relation as her body is not supporting ). So need your advice in this case.
Ans: Dear Kumar,
What are you all a part of' a circus? So, if your wife might not be able to have a baby again, you are asked to marry your sister-in-law and have a baby with her? And oh, you have a physical relationship with her as well? What exactly is going on?

Marrying another person when your first marriage is still very much alive is not recognized by the Hindu Marriage Act. Informally marrying? What is this, some kind of a movie that you are all trying to enact? So, just because your wife is not physically active, you are trying to justify as to why you need to sleep with another woman just because your in-laws want it?

Please grow up all of you...move out of your in-laws house and make your own home and your family so that this intermingling does not disturb your marriage and especially your child. You DO NOT (if you are) need to feel obligated towards your in-laws because they raised you. This is not the way you need to repay them...Get a hold of your life!

All the best!

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I am 84 year old senior citizen. I withdrew two fixed deposit prematurely. Bank levied penal charges on premature withdrawal. Can I claim penal interest as deduction while filling ITR returns. Pl guide
Ans: No, unfortunately, you cannot claim the penalty levied on premature withdrawal of your fixed deposits (FDs) as a deduction while filing your Income Tax Return (ITR).

Here's why:

Income vs. Expense: The penalty on FD withdrawal is considered an expense incurred for breaking the terms of the deposit agreement. It's not directly related to earning income from the FD interest.
Tax Deductions: Income tax deductions are allowed for expenses incurred for generating taxable income. The penalty on FD withdrawal doesn't fall under this category.
Taxation on FD Interest for Senior Citizens:

Even though you cannot deduct the penalty, there might be some relief on the interest income itself:

Section 80TTB: If your total interest income from all FDs and Savings accounts is less than ?50,000 per year, you can claim a deduction under Section 80TTB of the Income Tax Act. This eliminates tax liability on that interest income.
No TDS for Senior Citizens: For senior citizens (above 75 years old), banks don't deduct TDS (Tax Deducted at Source) on FD interest up to ?50,000 per year from a specified bank where you receive your pension.
Recommendations:

Plan for Premature Withdrawals: If you foresee needing the money before the FD matures, consider shorter tenure FDs or opting for partially withdrawable FDs to avoid penalties.
Explore Tax-Saving Options: Look into tax-saving fixed deposits or senior citizen savings schemes (SCSS) that offer better interest rates and may not have high penalties for premature withdrawal.

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Hi Ramalingam, Hope you are doing well. Age 31, IT Professional (8 Years), Married, Nuclear Family, Mid level family business in small town. 1) Currently I am NRI from last 1 year and recently have bought Few mutual funds like UTI large cap Index, Parag Parikh flexi cap, Motilala Oswal Mid Cap, Quant & Nippon small cap funds. All are just started recently with total SIP of 28k monthly. 2) I have been investing in PPF from last 4 years. 3) Minor LIC and Company PF of around 4.5L. 4) No loans, EMI as of now, own family house and agricultural unutilized land. 5) Existing Equity shares of 3L which I bought 5 year earlier. 6) I am not looking for buying flats/apartment as such. The major mistake I feel was I didn't invest till now and had kept money in savings account idle, which I regret to some extent. Queries: 1) As currently I am an NRI, I wanted to know what are the taxation rules on my shares if I buy or sell. Also, I hope there should be no issues as I bought mutual funds being NRI as anyway at point of selling I will be resident indian hopefully. Should I increase the amount of SIP? I am looking for Step up SIP Of 5-10%. Should I go for International fund now? 2) I was thinking to invest in fixed deposits and govt bonds, am I eligible to do this or this will attract me more taxation. For your better understanding, Currently I am in Saudi Arabia. 3) Your suggestions related to investment in Equity, gold, debt are highly appreciated as it will guide me further. 4) What are better things to look out from investment perspective being an NRI 5) Can you please help me plan for an excellent financial stability plan if I want to retire early around 45-48 years that is in next 15 to 18 years from now. Thanks
Ans: I appreciate your detailed overview of your financial situation and your proactive approach to investing. Let's address each of your queries systematically to ensure we cover all aspects comprehensively.

1. Taxation on Shares and Mutual Funds: As an NRI, capital gains tax rules apply to your investments in shares and mutual funds in India. For equity investments held for over one year, long-term capital gains (LTCG) are taxed at 10% without indexation. For mutual funds, equity-oriented funds are treated similarly. However, if you become a resident Indian again, you'll be taxed as per the applicable resident Indian tax laws. Increasing your SIPs by 5-10% annually is a prudent strategy, especially considering your long-term investment horizon and the power of compounding. Regarding international funds, they can provide diversification benefits, especially during periods of rupee depreciation, but ensure you understand the associated risks before investing.

2. Investment in Fixed Deposits and Government Bonds: As an NRI, you are eligible to invest in fixed deposits and government bonds in India. Interest earned on fixed deposits is taxable in India, subject to applicable tax laws. Government bonds also carry tax implications, but specific rules depend on the type of bond and your residential status. Given your current location in Saudi Arabia, consider exploring NRI-specific investment options like NRE or NRO fixed deposits, which offer tax benefits and repatriation flexibility.


3. Investment Strategy: Diversification is key to a well-rounded investment portfolio. Equity investments offer long-term growth potential, while debt instruments like PPF provide stability and tax benefits. Considering your risk appetite and investment goals, continue your SIPs in equity mutual funds, but ensure you have an adequate emergency fund in place. Explore options like international funds for global exposure and consider increasing exposure to debt instruments for capital preservation.

4. Investment Considerations for NRIs: As an NRI, it's essential to stay informed about regulatory changes and tax implications related to your investments in India. Additionally, consider factors like currency risk, repatriation restrictions, and geopolitical developments when making investment decisions. Regularly review your portfolio and consult with a financial advisor to optimize your investment strategy based on changing market dynamics.


5. Early Retirement Planning: Achieving early retirement requires careful financial planning and disciplined saving and investing. Start by setting clear retirement goals, estimating your future expenses, and determining the required corpus. Maximize contributions to tax-efficient retirement accounts like EPF, PPF, and NPS. Consider allocating a portion of your portfolio to growth-oriented assets like equity mutual funds to generate inflation-beating returns over the long term. Regularly reassess your retirement plan and adjust your investment strategy as needed to stay on track towards your retirement goals.

By following a systematic approach to investing, staying informed about regulatory changes, and regularly reviewing your financial plan, you can work towards achieving financial stability and early retirement.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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Hello Sir im turning 36 this Dec...Im not very old in MF investment however looking forward to being consistant...I want to build up a corpas of 50 lakh by age of 40..my invest as per below... Quant/kotak/axis small cap direct growth- 10K each/month(9 month old) parag parikh ELSS tax saver- 2K/month(12 month old) mirae asset ELSS tax saver-2.5K/month(3 year old) quant ELSS tax saver-3K/month(16 month old) Kotak ELSS tax saver-2K/month(16 month old) SBI PSU direct plan-3K/month( 1 month) Aditya birla sunlife PSU equity fund- 5K/month(1 month) need your expertise if I need to change funds...these are combined investment by me & my wife..TAX saver are required to avoid tax liability under 80C..aprat from this Im investing 40K/year in PPF valued 1lakh(3 year old)
Ans: It's great to see your commitment to building your investment portfolio. Let's review your current mutual fund investments and see if any adjustments are needed to align with your goal of accumulating a corpus of ?50 lakhs by the age of 40.
Your current allocation seems well-diversified across various mutual fund categories, including small-cap funds, ELSS tax savers, and sector-specific funds like SBI PSU and Aditya Birla Sunlife PSU equity funds. However, there are a few points to consider:
1. Small-Cap Funds: Investing in small-cap funds can offer high growth potential but comes with increased risk due to market volatility. Since you're relatively new to mutual fund investments, ensure you have a high risk tolerance and a long-term investment horizon for these funds.
2. ELSS Tax Saver Funds: It's wise to continue investing in ELSS funds to avail tax benefits under Section 80C. However, having multiple ELSS funds may lead to duplication of holdings and increase complexity without significantly diversifying your portfolio. Consider consolidating your ELSS investments into one or two funds with a proven track record and consistent performance.
3. Sector-Specific Funds: Funds like SBI PSU and Aditya Birla Sunlife PSU equity focus on specific sectors, which can be volatile and dependent on sectoral performance. While they offer the potential for high returns, they also carry higher risk. Ensure these funds complement your overall portfolio strategy and are not over-concentrated in a single sector.
4. PPF Investment: Investing in PPF is a good strategy for long-term wealth accumulation and tax-saving. However, keep in mind that PPF has a lock-in period of 15 years, so ensure it aligns with your liquidity needs and investment goals.
Considering the above points, here are some suggestions:
• Evaluate the performance of your existing funds and consider consolidating your ELSS investments into one or two funds with strong fundamentals and consistent performance.
• Monitor the performance of small-cap funds closely due to their higher volatility and consider rebalancing your portfolio if needed.
• Review your sector-specific fund investments periodically and ensure they align with your risk tolerance and investment objectives.
Lastly, it's essential to regularly review your investment portfolio and make adjustments as needed to stay on track towards your financial goals.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
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Thank you for vastly explaining my port folio.....have one question regarding ELSS funds...can I stop investing in one fund wait for balance to mature as every SIP has a lock in period!! what happens when we stop SIP in ELSS funds... we couple both are working so I'm intending for high risk/high return for next 2-3 years...I have also start investing in stock(being cautious)
Ans: Absolutely, you can stop investing in one ELSS fund and allow the existing investments to mature. ELSS funds have a lock-in period of three years from the date of each investment, so once the lock-in period is over for each SIP, you have the option to either redeem the units or continue holding them.

When you stop SIPs in ELSS funds, the existing investments continue to grow, and you retain ownership of the units. However, keep in mind that stopping SIPs doesn't impact the lock-in period of the existing investments. Each SIP installment will have its own lock-in period of three years from its investment date.

If you're looking for high-risk, high-return investments for the next 2-3 years, it's essential to assess your risk tolerance and investment horizon carefully. ELSS funds, especially those investing in small-cap or mid-cap stocks, can be volatile in the short term but may offer higher returns over the long term.

Additionally, investing in individual stocks requires thorough research and a good understanding of the stock market. It's wise to approach stock investing cautiously, especially if you're relatively new to it. Diversification and thorough research are key to managing risk in stock investments.

Overall, it's great that you and your spouse are both working towards your financial goals and are open to taking calculated risks for potentially higher returns. Remember to regularly review your investment portfolio, stay informed about market developments, and adjust your strategy as needed to stay on track towards your goals.

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Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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I have booked a residential flat with a developer who shall be developing a scheme comprising of 6 flats, 3 of which shall be retained by the land owners and 3 shall be sold by the developer to buyers like me. The developer has entered into an agreement for redevelopment with the land owners and he shall be receiving sale price of the flat from 3 persons purchasing the flats, I am one of them as stated earlier. The redevelopment agreement between the land owner and the developer is only for constructing the structure. The Sale-Deed shall be executed between the Vendor -that is the original land owners and the Purchasers like me. The developer shall be the Confirming Party, confirming the receipt of the entier payment, against the purchase of the flat, delivery of possession to the purchasers like me. Therefore the sale deed shall be between the purchaser and the land owners. The developer has rendered the services to be taxed under the GST Act to the land owners. The Land owners may recover the GST paid/charged/recovered by the developer, from the 3 purchasers. My queries are: 1. What is the rate at which on the services of development/construction rendered on the piece of land are taxable under the GST Act? 2. If I presume, it is at 5%, in that case am I not required to pay 1/6th of the GST paid by the land lord and nothing more than this? 3. Can developer demand the GST on the entire cost of the flat including the cost of the undivided share of land falling to my share? The land, under the Sale-Deed is sold/transferred by the Land lord and not by the developer, under what authority he can demand 5% GST on the cost of the land? 4. Are we not buying a ready to move or a ready made flat although we have to pay on the basis of the stage wise completion of the building structure and therefore only 1% GST? Please guide.
Ans: You're right to be questioning the GST implications in this situation. Here's a breakdown of your queries:

GST Rate on Development Services: The GST rate for construction services on an immovable property (land + building) is generally 5%. However, there's an exception for affordable housing projects, where the rate is 1%.

Sharing of GST by Landowners and Purchasers: Since the sale deed is directly between you (purchaser) and the landowner (vendor), you are not obligated to pay 1/6th of the GST paid by the landowner to the developer. You'll only pay GST on the value mentioned in your sale deed.

GST on Land Cost: The developer cannot demand GST on the entire cost of the flat, including the undivided land share. GST applies to the value of services rendered (construction) and not the land itself.

GST on Ready-to-Move Flats: The GST rate of 1% for ready-to-move flats only applies to completed projects where the occupancy certificate has been issued. In your case, it's an under-construction project, so the 5% rate applies.

Here's how the GST should ideally work in your scenario:

The developer pays GST to the government on his service charges for constructing the flats (5% of his construction cost).
The landowner pays stamp duty and registration charges on the land value mentioned in your sale deed.
You, the purchaser, pay GST to the developer on the value mentioned in your sale deed (excluding land cost) at the rate of 5% (assuming it's not an affordable housing project).
Recommendations:

Ask the developer to provide a breakup of the total cost, clearly mentioning the land cost and construction service charges.
Pay GST only on the construction service charges mentioned in your sale deed.
If the developer insists on including GST on the land cost, consult a tax advisor to understand your rights and explore further options.
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Good afternoon. I am a retired government officer (Army Doctor) and have opened my own clinic recently. Income from the clinic is not significant as on date . Having approx ?90 lakhs in Mutual funds and invest in SIP ?20000/- per month. I have ?1Cr in FD, ? 30 lakhs in Senior Citizen Savings Scheme. Liquid cash in in bank accounts is around ? 35blakhs. I have 2 houses of which for 1 house is on rent for ?28000/- and 1 house I am paying EMI of ?35000/- and is self occupied. My pension being credited to bank is ?115000/-. I am 59y and my spouse is 54y. We don't have any children and health is covered by ECHS. Have my in laws and mother dependent. In laws covered by CGHS and mother by ECHS. Mother has a house in Kolkata self occupied. Father in law is drawing pension of ?70000/- pm. His FD and cash assets is ?60 lakhs. What is my financial health?
Ans: Good afternoon! It sounds like you've put a lot of thought into your financial setup, which is great. Let's break down your current financial situation.

Your assets include approximately ?90 lakhs in mutual funds, which is a substantial investment, along with ?1 crore in fixed deposits, and ?30 lakhs in the Senior Citizen Savings Scheme. Additionally, you have liquid cash of around ?35 lakhs, providing a comfortable cushion for any immediate expenses or emergencies.

Property-wise, you have two houses, one generating rental income of ?28,000 per month and the other being self-occupied with an EMI of ?35,000. Rental income is a reliable source of passive income, and your property investments seem well-balanced.

Your pension income of ?1,15,000 per month provides a stable cash flow, complemented by your spouse's financial support. Health coverage through ECHS and CGHS for your dependents is a significant relief, ensuring medical expenses are taken care of.

Considering your age and circumstances, it's prudent to assess your investment strategy and ensure it aligns with your long-term goals, especially with retirement looming. You may want to evaluate the performance of your mutual funds and explore diversification options to mitigate risk.

Your in-laws' financial stability, with a pension of ?70,000 per month and assets worth ?60 lakhs, adds a layer of security to your family's overall financial health.

In summary, your financial health appears robust, with a diverse portfolio of investments, stable income streams, and adequate provisions for healthcare and dependents. As you approach retirement, continued vigilance and periodic reviews of your financial plan will help maintain and enhance your financial well-being.

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Which guaranteed plan is better
Ans: When considering guaranteed plans, it's crucial to tread cautiously. These plans promise security but come with their own set of limitations. They often boast a fixed return rate, but this can be considerably lower than what other investment avenues offer. It's like having a sturdy boat that moves slower than the rest.

One of the major perils of guaranteed plans is their inability to beat inflation. While they assure stability, they often fail to keep up with the rising cost of living. It's akin to being stuck in a time warp where your money loses its purchasing power over time.

Moreover, guaranteed plans usually come with a lock-in period, restricting access to your funds for a specified duration. This lack of liquidity can be a hurdle, especially during emergencies or when better investment opportunities arise. It's like having your money in a vault with the key out of reach.

As a Certified Financial Planner, I understand the allure of guaranteed plans, especially for those seeking a safe haven for their hard-earned money. However, it's essential to weigh the pros and cons carefully. While they provide stability, they may not offer the growth potential needed to meet long-term financial goals.

In the realm of investments, it's often a trade-off between risk and reward. While guaranteed plans offer security, they may not generate returns substantial enough to beat inflation or meet future needs. Diversifying your portfolio with a mix of investments tailored to your goals and risk tolerance is key to financial success.

Remember, it's not about finding the perfect plan, but rather crafting a well-rounded strategy that aligns with your aspirations and circumstances.

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I am MANJUNATH. I am central government employee. My monthly earning is 50k. I have 25 lack home loan and 5 lack personal loan. 3 years remaining to retire. Please suggest any financial plan for future.
Ans: Hello Manjunath,
It's good to hear that you're thinking about your financial future, especially with retirement approaching. Here's a suggested financial plan to help you prepare:
1. Debt Management: Start by prioritizing debt repayment. Focus on clearing high-interest debts like your personal loan first while making minimum payments on your home loan. Once the personal loan is paid off, allocate extra funds towards reducing your home loan burden.
2. Emergency Fund: Build an emergency fund to cover at least 3-6 months' worth of living expenses. This fund will provide a financial safety net in case of unexpected expenses or emergencies.
3. Retirement Planning: Since retirement is just 3 years away, it's crucial to focus on building your retirement corpus. Maximize contributions to your Employees' Provident Fund (EPF) and consider investing in additional retirement-focused schemes like the National Pension System (NPS) for additional tax benefits and long-term growth.
4. Investment Strategy: Develop a diversified investment portfolio that aligns with your risk tolerance and financial goals. Consider a mix of equity mutual funds, debt funds, and other investment avenues like Public Provident Fund (PPF) and Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (if you have children). Regularly review and rebalance your portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your goals.
5. Insurance Coverage: Ensure you have adequate insurance coverage, including health insurance and life insurance. Review your existing policies to make sure they meet your current needs and consider increasing coverage if necessary.
6. Financial Planning for Post-Retirement: Start planning for your post-retirement financial needs, including healthcare expenses, daily living costs, and any additional goals or aspirations you may have. Consider factors such as inflation and potential changes in lifestyle when estimating your retirement expenses.
7. Consultation with a Financial Advisor: Consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner who can provide personalized advice tailored to your specific financial situation and retirement goals. They can help you create a comprehensive financial plan and guide you on how to achieve your objectives efficiently.
By following these steps and staying disciplined in your financial management, you can work towards securing a comfortable and financially stable future for yourself post-retirement.
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Hello Ulhas, Hope you are doing good. My current age 35, I am planning to invest as SIP 60K monthly for 15 years. My goal is 2 crore after 15 years. Below are the schemes I choose. Kindly review and suggest changes if any Midcap Fund Motilal Oswal Midcap Fund Direct-Growth 4K, Mahindra Manulife Mid Cap Fund Direct - Growth 4K, Smallcap Fund Axis small cap direct growth 4k, Canara robecco small cap 4K, quant small cap 4K, Nippon small cap 4K, Mid and Largecap Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip fund 4K, Axis Growth Opportunities Fund Direct - Growth 4K, Multicap Mahindra Manulife Multi Cap Fund Direct - Growth 4K, HDFC Multi-Cap Fund Direct - Growth - 4K, Mirae Asset Multicap Fund Direct - Growth 4k, Canara Robeco Multi Cap Fund Direct - Growth 4K, Flexi Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund Direct-Growth 4K, Quant Flexi Cap Fund Direct-Growth 4K, Value Tata Equity PE Fund Direct-Growth - 4K
Ans: Hello,

It's great to hear about your investment plan. Let's review your chosen schemes and make some suggestions:

Midcap Funds (Motilal Oswal, Mahindra Manulife, Axis Small Cap, Canara Robecco, Quant, Nippon): Midcap and small-cap funds have the potential for high growth but come with higher volatility. Consider consolidating your investments into 2-3 well-performing midcap and small-cap funds to reduce overlap and manage risk better.
Mid and Large-cap (Mirae Asset Emerging Bluechip): This fund provides a blend of mid and large-cap exposure, offering stability and growth potential. It's a good choice for diversification.
Multicap Funds (Mahindra Manulife, HDFC, Mirae Asset, Canara Robeco): Multicap funds provide diversification across market segments and flexibility to capitalize on opportunities across market capitalizations. Your selection offers a good mix of well-established funds in this category.
Flexi Cap Funds (Parag Parikh, Quant): Flexi-cap funds offer flexibility to invest across market caps based on market conditions. Your chosen funds provide diversification and align with your investment strategy.
Value Fund (Tata Equity PE Fund): Value funds focus on undervalued stocks with the potential for long-term growth. Consider the performance track record and investment philosophy of this fund before investing.
Overall, your portfolio is well-diversified across various market segments, which is essential for managing risk and maximizing returns. However, having such a large number of funds may lead to over-diversification and complexity. Consider consolidating your investments into a more streamlined portfolio with a focus on quality funds with consistent performance track records.

There are some advantages to consider direct funds, and the cost savings can be significant in the long run. However, there are some potential benefits to using a regular MFD:
Advantages of Investing Through a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD):
• Personalized Advice: MFDs can be helpful for beginners or those who lack investment knowledge. They can assess your risk tolerance, financial goals, and investment horizon to recommend suitable mutual funds. This personalized guidance can be valuable, especially if you're new to investing.
• Convenience: MFDs handle all the paperwork and transactions on your behalf, saving you time and effort. They can help with account setup, SIP registrations, and managing your portfolio across different funds.
• Investor Support: MFDs can be a point of contact for any questions or concerns you may have about your investments. They can provide ongoing support and guidance throughout your investment journey.

Regularly review your portfolio's performance and make necessary adjustments to stay aligned with your financial goals. Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can provide personalized guidance tailored to your specific needs and objectives.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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