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Balaji Question by Balaji on Jun 11, 2023Hindi
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Hi mam, I am 31 years old 181 cm and 86 kg wieghted.I have an regular habit of overeating and more intake of juices with high sugar.i always play cricket.I feel guilty since I am unable to stop constantly eating sugary items.Please help me in finding a solution.As of now I don't have any disease but fear to get since this habit may make me overweight

Ans: Dear Balaji,
Overeating usually suggests emotional hunger rather than physical hunger.
This means that you are feeding an unresolved emotion that gets satiated when you eat making you feel less lonely or happier or more loved.
You must identify which emotion is crying out to be fed...so that you can address it and eliminate it from the source.
In the meantime, maintain a disciplined physical fitness routine and alongside work with an expert who can help you trace the overeating to an emotion so that you can be free from this.

All the best!

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1. Work on balancing your meals - have nutritionally deficient meals (protein, fibre deficient) can make you feel hungry soon after a meal. Take portion of protein, one portion of salad, one portion of cooked vegetables and one portion of carbohydrates. If you are a vegetarian, you can have 2 portions of proteins

2. Avoid eating only fruits. Club them with handful of nuts or a portion of proteins (hung curd). Eating only fruits will make you feel hungry soon due to their fructose content.

3. Go for a quick walk/jog after a meal. This will sensitise insulin and the cravings will curb.

4. Include 30-45 minutes of exercise daily to help you curd overall cravings too.

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My married ex still texts me for comfort. Because of him, I am unable to move on. He makes me feel guilty by saying he got married out of family pressure. His dad is a cardiac patient and mom is being treated for cancer. He comforts me by saying he will get separated soon and we will get married because he only loves me. We have been in a relationship for 14 years and despite everything we tried, his parents refused to accept me, so he chose to get married to someone who understands our situation. I don't know when he will separate from his wife. She knows about us too but she comes from a traditional family. She also confirmed there is no physical intimacy between them. I trust him, but is it worth losing my youth for him? Honestly, I am worried and very confused.
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I understand how difficult it is to let go of a relationship you have built from scratch, but is it really how you want to continue? It really seems to be going nowhere. His parents are already in bad health and he married someone else for their happiness. Does it seem like he will be able to leave her? So many people’s happiness and lives depend on this one decision. I think it’s about time you and your BF have a clear conversation about the same. If he can’t give a proper timeline, please try to understand his situation. But also make sure he understands yours and maybe rethink this equation. It really isn’t healthy. You deserve a love you can have wholly, and not just in pieces, and in the shadows.

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