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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 09, 2023Hindi
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I have 28 + years of frustrated and abusive and absolutely unsatisfied marriage. It was arranged but involved bitterness from both sides. My father did my relationship because of temptation and so many false facts from the in -laws' side. I was not interested but due to family compulsions I couldn't resist. Somehow i feel sad that my father got trapped due to greed and always feel bad about him, my mother was illiterate and did not have much opinion on anything. It was full of falsehood and cheating. I am very simple and minimalist persons, just after marriage wife and inlaws started torturing me to breakaway from my parents, being alone son and with the help of sisters managed parents with lot of difficulties but thought time will heal. I was thinking of separation just after 6 months but somehow was in difficult shape, couldn't ask. Meanwhile Father in law died and i thought it's inhuman to give separation at this critical time and accepted my destiny, My wife was very clever and managed balanced relation till her brother and sister got settled and we decided to welcome kids and blessed with two sons but after all her responsibility over, she again showed same behavior rather more aggressive and color and i almost separated from parents. I am in Govt service and was threatened to file a false case, with all difficulties, managed with balancing, hiding something here and there. After the death of parents , things worsened and she is eying on all property of inheritance to be sold . I don't trust her at all , I want to give all to my sons and then quit. She always threatens , i want to be separated and live my old age peacefully alone without any property but all I want to give to my sons , not to her . Please suggest a way , I am afraid she can file a false domestic violence case or even to give me poison . I am very tense nowadays and my health is deteriorating.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Never live in fear because that can always be used by someone who is searching for an opportunity to meddle with your life.
Deal with this fear in two ways:
1. For fear of false case filing against you, kindly approach a lawyer who will guide you on how to protect your assets
2. For fear of the way your life is moving about in an unsettling manner, do work on it rather than fear it
- Separation or not, will have to be decided by you and your wife and make it as amicable as possible...
- If there are chances of reconciliation, do lay down some ground rules for both of you which includes deeper level of communication, deeper listening, trust building...

Most relationships sour over a period of time, because 'taking for granted' seeps in, there are unrealistic expectations for one another, children become an excuse for not spending enough time each other, family members somehow get into the equation which allows little room for the couple to understand one another...
the list goes on...
It simply means: Marriage is something that needs constant working on...it requires time, energy and effort...

All the best!

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Hi AnuAt the outset, thank you very much for your time to listen to my situation.I am 50 years old, married to my lover (46 years now) and blessed with two daughters. My wife comes from an upper caste with a poor background. She was my subordinate and got married in 2001 after dating her for more than 18 months.Immediately after marriage, I lost my job due to my mismanagement of responsibility with no criminal action. I suffered for six months and relocated to overseas and lived there for the past 19 years.With my hard work and commitment, my financial situation has improved considerably now. However, my wife's attitude has consistently changed in line with my financial growth. She strongly believes that because of her luck and my daughter’s luck only I was able to earn that much and live comfortably. With my severe official commitments, I did not mind her attitude that much. After the lockdown, I got the opportunity to understand the change and realised that she has constantly ill-treated me over the past 10 years. Also, I lost my parents a few years ago and my father gave his self-earned property worth a few crores to my elder brother and left nothing to me. At the same time, my wife got her ancestor property worth a few lakhs. This incident psychologically weakened me as she consistently abuses me saying she got a few lakhs worth of property whereas I got nothing from my parents. Now, for the last two years, she is not allowing me to perform my parents’ annual death ceremony rituals. She consistently uses bad words against my (departed) parents and makes most negative comments for the donations I made so far and terms me as an Idiot and useless person. She also criticises me in front of my friends and relatives.Her harassment gone to the extent of pushing me to commit suicide and for the sake of my daughter’s welfare, I managed to come out of that mindset on my own. Now, I am determined to live…. at the same time unable to absorb my wife’s harassment. I tried to explain to her in many ways and even begged her many times to stop ill-treating me. Instead, she is asking me how I am able to tolerate despite her ill-treatment for the past few years….Our physical relationship got disconnected for the past five years as she lists out silly reasons for avoiding me. She is refusing to come along with me to meet a psychologist. Also, she disconnected her long-term friends and created a new circle of friends in order to erase her past and maintain a high social image.From your expertise, kindly advise me on how to handle this situation which will be of highest support for me as I am having sleepless nights for the past 2 years.Kindly do not publish my name and request you to keep it anonymous.
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Dear S,

It’s obvious that there is something that your wife is upset about or missing and you have been blindsided by it.

It could be lack of love, attention or simply family’s worth that she might feel from money situation.

It needs a discussion but from your letter/e-mail, it doesn’t seem like she is interested in it.

What I don’t have information here is in the 19 years that you were out of the country, was she also with you?

This is vital information as things might have gone South while you were away.

Even if she did accompany you, maybe the mismanagement of responsibility situation that you mentioned was something that had thrown her off gear and insecure.

This vital information is missing for me to guide you even more effectively, but I can surely help you navigate with what is.

Yes, it needs a counsellor or a marriage therapist.

Nothing justifies talking ill about family members but when the mind is awry and unsettled, it does not think rationally which is why she is possibly displacing some anger or lack of affection or lack of something that is manifesting itself in different ways.

Ask yourself:

  • Where am I if I continue in the marriage?
  • Where am I if I don’t continue in the marriage?

This reality check will act as a compass to the next steps of action.

As a coach, it’s always nice to see a relationship work but reality might say something else.

So, be true to your thoughts and feelings, set aside any feelings of spite towards your wife and see things for what they are and move forward.

All the best!

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I’m married for 14 years and have a 12 yr old son, both working. It was love marriage but before marriage explained me that leaving her ex from her college as it was not true love. After these 14 years, I came to know that they were having physical relation as well and the same hurt me very hard and couldn’t focus on anything and difficult to believe that with whom I spent 14 yr and still there is something can be hidden. Thats not all, on domestic issues whenever we have argument on household work/ expenses/ guiding son on studying etc, if she is not able to answer or didn’t like my response couldn’t control her anger, she tried to stangle me, beat me up, slapping, pour water/ hot tea on me, also not to mention abusing me in front of my son. Also many times she threatened to end her life by taking a knife in hand or by closing door to attempt hanging. That’s why bedroom & washroom door locks are broken in my house. Due to all these I left house twice in these years but due to her repeated apology and affection to my son I returned. Now I think all these are unbearable and need to take some step for resolution. Also as my son is old enough to understand all happenings don’t want ruin his life with all these nuisance. Humble request to advice as I’m under tremendous pain.
Ans: Violence in any form is unacceptable and alone th reason to walk out of the relationship. No one should ensure violence , disrespect or manipulation in any relationship and in your case there are all three of them. In my opinion, you should walk out of this marriage given your partner has proven there's no change at her end.

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 13, 2023Hindi
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Hi, I married 1year ago my wife told me she was forced to do a marriage against her concern and she didn't want the marriage life and wanted to live as strangers, also she refused to take wife responsibilities at home i have waited trusting she would change but within 3 months she had medical issues and went to her home for treatment. after informing all her activities now her father is threating me and my family, also making false allegations against me for all her problems. Now he is demanding to go separately from my parents to send her back. if not they will file case against me in the court and make me and my family suffer. Now she was not telling the truth with their parents about her mindset and acting according to their portents guidance that i am the reason for her medical issues and she was not interested in the marriage because i didn't take care of her well. she have depression and anxiety issues from childhood her mother refused to see her face when she was born, as 5th girl child as they expect atleast 1 boy kid she said this to a doctor. she faces refusal and ignorance in her family she said this too the doctor i dont know the truth behind it. she has chronic gastritis also she is under weight (35kgs still at 27years old) and cant increase weight even after trying for 5 years of medication. Doctor suggested for a therapy but she refused to come with because she already had therapy before which we don't know. . even though we lived in same house but she lived in separate room all the days she was with me. Now due to her inability to handle her father she is acting along with them like i was the one who refusing her. Her father even knows about all these matters to hide is fraud he is now threatening me like police case and court. I did nothing wrong in this except married her. what should i do now ?. And I lost hope that she would change here after.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There are many cases like yours where men are being trapped with false allegations.
First evaluate:
Do I want this marriage to continue?
If YES, I feel it's time your parents also step in to state your side of the story. It will be an uphill task to bring her back as she clearly had mentioned to you that she was forced into this marriage. Also, how do you plan on working out the home situation given that the condition is that you separate from your parents?

If NO, will you be able to prove all the allegations put on you are false? Hire a good lawyer, because you will surely need one. Tread carefully and make very calculated moves in terms of what you say (even if it's on a text message) as everything can be held against you. Your lawyer will advise you on this.

So, time to think what is the best option...lay all the cards on the table and play this very carefully...

All the best!

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Hello Sir, please review & advise on my mutual fund portfolio. SIP of 5000 each in UTI Nifty 50 index fund, Parag Parikh flexicap, Quant flexi cap & 3000 each in ICICI Midcap 150 index fund & Kotak large 7 midcap fund. All Started since 4 months, current age 42 & can do SIP for 2-3 years & plan to keep the accumulated amount as it is for next 5 years. I have some exposure to equity shares as well. Thanks
Ans: It's great to see you investing in mutual funds to achieve your financial goals. Let's review your portfolio:
1. UTI Nifty 50 Index Fund: Investing in an index fund tracking the Nifty 50 is a solid choice for gaining exposure to India's top 50 companies. It provides diversification and follows a passive investment approach, which can be beneficial over the long term.
2. Parag Parikh Flexicap Fund: This fund follows a flexible investment approach, investing in a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap stocks. It's known for its diversified portfolio and has the potential to deliver consistent returns over time.
3. Quant Flexi Cap Fund: Similar to Parag Parikh Flexicap Fund, this fund offers flexibility in asset allocation across market capitalizations. However, quantitative techniques are used for stock selection, which adds a unique flavor to your portfolio.
4. ICICI Midcap 150 Index Fund: Investing in a mid-cap index fund can provide exposure to mid-sized companies with growth potential. It offers diversification within the mid-cap segment and follows a passive investment strategy.
5. Kotak Large & Midcap Fund: This fund invests in a mix of large-cap and mid-cap stocks, offering diversification across market capitalizations. It aims to capitalize on opportunities in both segments of the market.
Your portfolio seems well-diversified across different market segments, including large-cap, mid-cap, and flexi-cap funds, along with exposure to index funds. However, since you plan to keep the accumulated amount for the next 5 years, consider your risk tolerance and investment horizon.

Active vs. Passive Management:
While you've included both actively managed mutual funds and index funds (ETFs) in your portfolio, it's important to understand the differences between the two. Actively managed funds aim to outperform the market through active stock selection and portfolio management, while index funds passively track a specific index's performance.
Benefits of Actively Managed Funds:
Actively managed funds offer the potential for higher returns compared to index funds, especially during market inefficiencies or when skilled fund managers can identify lucrative investment opportunities. Additionally, active management allows for flexibility in portfolio construction and adjustments based on market conditions.
Potential Disadvantages of Index Funds:
While index funds offer low expense ratios and broad market exposure, they may lack the potential for outperformance compared to actively managed funds. Additionally, they're subject to tracking error, which occurs when the fund's performance deviates from the index it's designed to replicate.

Given your age of 42 and the relatively short investment horizon of 2-3 years for SIP, ensure you regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments if necessary. Also, keep an eye on any changes in your financial situation or risk appetite.
Overall, your portfolio appears to be aligned with your investment goals and risk tolerance. Keep up with your disciplined SIP investments, and consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner periodically to ensure your investment strategy remains on track.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 17, 2024Hindi
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Hi sir,I am 40 years old, my goal is retirement with 5 cr. I am investing 25k through SIP in the following Funds. 5k- parag parikha flexi cap 5k-motilal oswal mid cap 5K-Quant large and mid cap 5k-Nippon Small cap 5k-Quant small cap, All Direct Funds. Investment Horizon - 20 to 22 Years. Goal -please check my portfolio,Wealth Creation, Risk Appetite- High. Please advise if I should pause or continue with these mutual funds.
Ans: It's fantastic that you're planning ahead for your retirement, and your investment strategy reflects your goal of wealth creation with a high-risk appetite. Let's review your portfolio:
1. Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund: This fund follows a flexible investment approach, investing in a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap stocks. It's known for its diversified portfolio and has a track record of delivering consistent returns over the long term.
2. Motilal Oswal Mid Cap Fund: Mid-cap stocks have the potential for higher growth but also come with higher volatility. This fund focuses on mid-cap companies with strong growth prospects, suitable for investors with a higher risk tolerance.
3. Quant Large and Mid Cap Fund: This fund combines large-cap and mid-cap stocks, aiming to provide capital appreciation over the long term. Quantitative techniques are used for stock selection, which can add a unique flavor to your portfolio.
4. Nippon Small Cap Fund: Small-cap stocks have the potential for significant growth but are more volatile. This fund focuses on small-cap companies with growth potential, aligning with your high-risk appetite.
5. Quant Small Cap Fund: Similar to the previous fund, this one specifically targets small-cap stocks using quantitative methods for stock selection.
Considering your investment horizon of 20 to 22 years, your portfolio seems well-diversified across different market segments, aligning with your high-risk appetite and wealth creation goal. However, it's essential to regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments if necessary.
I recommend consulting with a Certified Financial Planner periodically to ensure your investment strategy remains on track with your retirement goal and risk tolerance.

Shifting from direct to regular mutual funds can offer several advantages, especially for investors seeking personalized support and guidance:
Regular mutual funds provide access to the expertise of a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) who is often a Certified Financial Planner (CFP). They can offer valuable insights, emotional handholding, and personalized guidance tailored to your financial goals and risk tolerance.
MFDs can assist with asset rebalancing, helping you maintain an optimal allocation of assets based on market conditions and changes in your financial situation. This ensures your portfolio remains aligned with your investment objectives over time.
Scheme selection can be overwhelming with numerous options available in the market. An MFD with CFP credentials can help navigate this complexity by recommending suitable funds that align with your risk profile, investment horizon, and financial goals.
By opting for regular mutual funds through an MFD, you not only gain access to professional advice but also benefit from ongoing support and assistance throughout your investment journey. This can instill confidence and peace of mind, knowing that you have a trusted advisor by your side.
Consider making the switch to regular mutual funds to leverage the expertise and guidance of a Certified Financial Planner through a Mutual Fund Distributor. It can enhance your investment experience and increase the likelihood of achieving your retirement goal of 5 crores.

Keep up the good work with your disciplined SIP investments, and stay focused on your long-term financial objectives.

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I am going to retire on 01.11.2024 and i will be receiving 25 lacs as my retirement fund. Please suggest where should i invest and how monthly amount i will received.
Ans: Congratulations on your upcoming retirement! It's an exciting milestone, and careful planning can make it even more fulfilling.

With a retirement fund of 25 lakhs, you have a good starting point for your post-retirement financial journey.

To ensure a steady income stream, consider investing a portion of your retirement corpus in a mix of conservative investment options such as fixed deposits, senior citizen savings scheme, and debt mutual funds.

These options offer relatively stable returns with lower risk, ideal for generating regular income during retirement.

Allocate another portion towards equity mutual funds, which have the potential for higher returns over the long term. While they carry more risk, they can help your retirement corpus grow to combat inflation and sustain your lifestyle.

Consulting with a Certified Financial Planner can help tailor an investment strategy that aligns with your risk tolerance, financial goals, and retirement timeline.

As for calculating your monthly income, it depends on various factors such as the returns generated by your investments, withdrawal strategy, and inflation rate.

A common approach is the systematic withdrawal plan (SWP), where you withdraw a fixed amount regularly from your investments. The SWP amount can be adjusted annually based on your financial needs and investment performance.

Ensure your investment strategy provides enough liquidity to cover your monthly expenses while also preserving your capital for the future.

Retirement is a new chapter in your life, filled with opportunities to pursue your passions and dreams. With careful planning and smart investment decisions, you can enjoy a financially secure and fulfilling retirement journey.

Best Regards,
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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 09, 2024Hindi
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I draw a salary net salary of 230000 pm and have a housing loan for 11740000 @6% simple interest. The principal amount will be paid in 270 instalments and then the interest in 90 instalments as it’s a bank staff loan. EMI is 43000. Total tenure of loan is 30 years. I want to know should I try and close the loan earlier by investing around 4 lakhs every year or let it go as it is and invest the same amount in mutual funds. Kindly suggest.
Ans: Considering your situation, it's great that you're contemplating your financial future. With your stable income, you have the potential to make wise choices.

Your housing loan's interest rate is relatively low, which is beneficial. By maintaining regular EMIs, you're already on track to clear the loan within the stipulated tenure.

Investing in mutual funds is a solid strategy, offering potential returns higher than your loan's interest rate. It allows your money to grow over time.

However, investing additional funds to close your loan faster can bring peace of mind. It reduces your debt burden and saves on interest payments in the long run.

Before deciding, consider your risk tolerance and financial goals. Ensure you have an emergency fund and are contributing to retirement savings.

As a Certified Financial Planner, I recommend diversifying your investments. Explore different asset classes to mitigate risk and maximize returns.

Regular mutual funds through a certified financial planner can offer personalized guidance, potentially outperforming direct funds in the long term.

Remember, financial planning is about finding the right balance between debt management and wealth accumulation.

Take your time to weigh the options and choose what aligns best with your aspirations and comfort level.

Best Regards,
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Chief Financial Planner,
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I want to take Quant mutual fund. Which one should I go with? Quant mid cap Quant small cap Quant infrastructure Quant psu fund I am 23 and I have good risk appetite.
Ans: Given your age and risk appetite, investing in mid-cap and small-cap funds can offer growth potential over the long term. However, it's essential to consider factors such as fund performance, investment strategy, and risk management before making a decision.
Quant Mutual Fund offers several options across different categories. Here's a brief overview of each option you mentioned:
1. Quant Mid Cap Fund: This fund primarily invests in mid-cap stocks, which have the potential for high growth but also come with increased risk. Mid-cap funds are suitable for investors with a higher risk appetite and a long-term investment horizon.
2. Quant Small Cap Fund: Small-cap funds invest in stocks of small-sized companies, which have the potential for significant growth but are also more volatile and risky. Investors with a higher risk tolerance and a longer investment horizon may consider investing in small-cap funds.
3. Quant Infrastructure Fund: This fund focuses on investing in companies operating in the infrastructure sector, such as construction, energy, and utilities. Infrastructure funds can provide exposure to a specific sector but may be more volatile and cyclical.
4. Quant PSU Fund: PSU (Public Sector Undertaking) funds invest in stocks of government-owned companies, which are known for stability and steady dividends. These funds may offer a defensive investment option for investors seeking lower risk exposure.
Before investing in any Quant Mutual Fund, it's crucial to review the fund's track record, investment objective, portfolio composition, and expense ratio. Additionally, consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner to ensure the fund aligns with your overall investment strategy and financial goals.
Remember, while mid-cap and small-cap funds offer growth potential, they also come with higher risk. Ensure you have a diversified portfolio and a long-term investment horizon to ride out market fluctuations.
Best Regards,
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Equity Investment Using Loan ? ( 15 Lakhs ) Hi , I am contemplating to acquire a personal loan of 15 Lakhs at 10.45% interest. And invest lumpsum it in High Volatility Equity Mutual Funds giving a Return of about 25-30% on average Example: Quant Mutual Funds ( Midcap, Smallcap, Flexicap ) , Nippon India ( Midcap, smallcap) and Momentum Type Mutual Funds. Please suggest if I should go for it. Also I'm open to hear some better ways to go about investing aggressively using Loan. And also making the most out of my loan eligibility for acquiring gains.
Ans: Taking a personal loan to invest in high volatility equity mutual funds can be risky and may not be suitable for everyone. Here are some factors to consider before proceeding with this strategy:
1. Risk: Investing in high volatility equity funds involves a significant level of risk, especially when using borrowed funds. While these funds have the potential for high returns, they also carry the risk of significant losses, especially in volatile market conditions.
2. Interest Cost: The interest rate on personal loans can be relatively high compared to other forms of borrowing. At 10.45%, the interest cost can eat into your investment returns, potentially reducing your overall gains.
3. Market Uncertainty: The stock market can be unpredictable, and there are no guarantees of returns, especially in the short term. Investing borrowed money in equity funds exposes you to market fluctuations and the possibility of losses, which can impact your ability to repay the loan.
4. Loan Repayment: You'll be required to repay the personal loan, along with interest, regardless of the performance of your investments. If your investments underperform or incur losses, you may struggle to meet the loan repayment obligations, leading to financial strain.
Considering these factors, it's crucial to evaluate your risk tolerance, investment horizon, and financial situation before using a personal loan for aggressive equity investment. Additionally, seeking advice from a Certified Financial Planner can help you assess the suitability of this strategy and explore alternative investment options that align with your goals and risk profile.
If you're looking to invest aggressively, consider options like Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs) in equity mutual funds using your existing savings or surplus income. SIPs allow you to invest regularly over time, reducing the impact of market volatility and minimizing the need for borrowing.
Remember, prudent investing involves balancing risk and reward, and it's essential to make informed decisions based on your financial circumstances and long-term goals.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 07, 2024Hindi
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Sir I have paid a lump sum advance of Rs 75000 for CGHS LIFETIME CARD, I am a pensioner, can I take income tax deduction for this, if yes, in which financial year the deduction has to be taken? Can I claim deduction of the entire amount for the same financial year?
Ans: As a pensioner, you may be eligible to claim a deduction for the lump sum advance paid towards the Central Government Health Scheme (CGHS) Lifetime Card under Section 80D of the Income Tax Act. Here's what you need to know:
1. Deduction Eligibility: You can claim a deduction for the premium paid towards health insurance, including the CGHS Lifetime Card, for yourself and your family members. The maximum deduction allowed under Section 80D is up to Rs. 25,000 per annum for individuals below 60 years of age and up to Rs. 50,000 for senior citizens (aged 60 years and above).
2. Financial Year: The deduction can be claimed in the financial year in which the payment for the CGHS Lifetime Card was made. If you paid the lump sum advance of Rs. 75,000 in the current financial year, you can claim the deduction in the same financial year when filing your income tax return.
3. Claiming Deduction: You can claim the entire amount of Rs. 75,000 as a deduction under Section 80D, subject to the maximum limit applicable based on your age. If you have other health insurance premiums or medical expenditures eligible for deduction under Section 80D, ensure that the total deduction claimed does not exceed the maximum limit allowed.
It's important to retain the receipt or any documentation related to the payment made for the CGHS Lifetime Card as proof while filing your tax return.
Consult with a tax advisor or Certified Financial Planner to ensure compliance with tax regulations and maximize your deductions based on your specific financial situation.

Best Regards, K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP, Chief Financial Planner, www.holisticinvestment.in

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Sir, NRI having only LTCG (taxable) and interest income which is less than one lakh. I want to file ITR at the earliest and is ready with details but a part of the interest income is yet to appear in AIS. I presume that the data will get populated by the middle of June. But as I have all the figures, can I proceed with ITR filing NOW or will it be considered contradictary with AIS?
Ans: You can definitely file your ITR now, even though a part of the interest income isn't reflected in the AIS (Annual Information Statement) yet. Here's why:

NRIs with LTCG and low interest income: As an NRI with only LTCG (taxable) and interest income below one lakh, you qualify to file ITR-1 (Sahaj).

Discrepancy with AIS: A minor difference between your reported income and the AIS data might not be a major issue. The income tax department usually sends notices for significant discrepancies.

Here's what you can do:

File with the information you have: Go ahead and file your ITR using the interest income details you possess.

Mention the discrepancy: While filing, you can explain the missing interest income in the ITR form itself. Briefly state that you expect it to be reflected in the AIS by mid-June.

Revise if needed: If the missing interest income gets populated in the AIS later, you can revise your ITR accordingly. There's a window for revising ITRs after the initial filing.

Here are some additional points to consider:

It's always best to report accurate income. Including the estimated interest income demonstrates your transparency.

If you're uncomfortable filing now, you can wait until the AIS data is updated by mid-June. However, there's no penalty for filing early.

Ultimately, the decision is yours. Filing now with an explanation or waiting for the AIS update are both viable options.

It's recommended to consult a Chartered Accountant (CA) specializing in NRI taxation for personalized guidance.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in

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