Home > Relationship > Question
Need Expert Advice?Our Gurus Can Help

Should I tell my boyfriend my mom knows about my cheating ex?

Anu

Anu Krishna  |1664 Answers  |Ask -

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 19, 2024

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
She is an executive member of the Indian Association of Adolescent Health.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Nov 12, 2024Hindi
Listen
Relationship

I'm in a happy relationship with my boyfriend since 1.5 years. Before meeting him I had a relationship of around1.3 years(he cheated on me) and my mother got to know about it when she saw me crying and i end up telling her about my relationship(now ex). So I just need advice, should I tell my current boyfriend that my mother know about my ex? Now My mother somehow almost got to know about my current relationship also and i have told about this to my boyfriend but should I tell him that she knows about my past also.? Would he be okay with it or he will get upset about it that i haven't told him about this prior?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
How will it matter if your boyfriend knows about your mother being in the know about your past relationship?
Why will he be bothered by it? I just don't understand why this is an issue of you or anyone?

Your words:
i have told about this to my boyfriend but should I tell him that she knows about my past also.
My thoughts:
What will this do if you tell him that she knows about your past?

Your words:
Would he be okay with it or he will get upset about it that i haven't told him about this prior?
My thoughts:
Maybe you should tell him about your past and not worry that he should know that your mother knows about your past

I still feel what you actually want to ask me is not very clear to you; be honest with yourself so that when you ask your question you will be able to get better guidance from me...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

You may like to see similar questions and answers below

Love Guru

Love Guru   | Answer  |Ask -

Relationships Expert - Answered on Apr 07, 2022

Kanchan

Kanchan Rai  |623 Answers  |Ask -

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on May 20, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2024Hindi
Listen
Relationship
I met my this guy through my father in the arranged marriage setup. We developed a great rapport and a week ago,we got engaged.My fiancé is a really sweet guy! He has asked about my love life in the past,which i denied of having one. Even though he shared of a girl proposing him.Actually, i can share if the need arises but i am little afraid to share now,because when i shared my past with my former partner,he continued to taunt me throughout our relationship and never let me breath easily despite proving my innocence. I dont know what to do regarding my fiance? Should i tell him or just liet it be?
Ans: It's understandable to feel hesitant about sharing your past given your previous experience. Trust and transparency are important in a relationship, but timing and context matter as well. Since your fiancé has already shared some of his past with you, this indicates he values openness. However, your past experiences have taught you to be cautious. It might be helpful to observe and build trust in your current relationship before disclosing your past. If your fiancé continues to show understanding and kindness, it could create a safe space for you to share more about yourself. When you do decide to share, frame it as a way to build deeper trust and intimacy, emphasizing that past experiences have shaped who you are today. If he truly respects and cares for you, he will appreciate your honesty and the strength it took to share your story. Remember, the right partner will support and accept all parts of your journey.

..Read more

Kanchan

Kanchan Rai  |623 Answers  |Ask -

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on May 27, 2024

Listen
Relationship
Hey mam please help me. I was in a relationship with a boy but things didn't work out.we got separated. Now I am relationship with another boy. My ex came to know and he is tracking that new boy and my ex is also thinking to tell this to my mother. My parents are very strict plz help me
Ans: I understand how stressful and upsetting this situation must be for you. Dealing with an ex who is invading your privacy and threatening to tell your parents about your new relationship can be very challenging, especially if your parents are strict. Here’s how you can navigate this situation with care and tact.

First, consider addressing the issue directly with your ex. Choose a calm and private setting where you can talk without interruptions. Explain to him that your relationship has ended and that it is important for both of you to respect each other's new lives. You might say something like, "I understand that this situation is difficult for you, but I need you to respect my privacy and my current relationship. It's important for both of us to move on in a healthy way." Be firm but respectful, emphasizing the need for mutual respect and boundaries.

If your ex continues to intrude on your privacy, it may be necessary to take further steps. Document any instances of harassment or invasive behavior, as this can be important if the situation escalates. In some cases, you might need to consider blocking him on social media and other communication platforms to prevent further intrusion.

Regarding your parents, honesty, and preparation are key. If you believe there is a significant chance that your ex will contact them, it might be best to address the situation yourself first. Think about how you can explain your situation to them in a way that emphasizes your maturity and responsibility. You could say something like, "I want to talk to you about something important. I was in a relationship that didn't work out, and I've started seeing someone new. My ex might try to contact you, but I want you to hear this from me first."

Prepare for their reaction by considering their concerns and having thoughtful responses ready. Show them that you are making responsible decisions and that you are capable of handling your personal relationships. This approach can help demonstrate your maturity and hopefully lead to a more understanding response from them.

Finally, lean on your support system. Friends, trusted family members, or even a counselor can provide valuable advice and emotional support as you navigate this difficult situation. It's important not to go through this alone and to seek out those who can offer guidance and encouragement.

Remember, you have the right to move on and be happy in your new relationship. By addressing the issue head-on, maintaining your boundaries, and preparing for conversations with your parents, you can navigate this challenging time with strength and dignity.

..Read more

Ravi

Ravi Mittal  |628 Answers  |Ask -

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Jan 02, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Dec 28, 2024
Relationship
I love my boyfriend very much but the thing is i am not a virgin and my boyfriend doesn’t know that , he thinks i am a virgin and he wants me to be virgin only , i am completely loyal to him I don’t have any type of contact from my ex boyfriend and i really want to marry my boyfriend and live a healthy and loyal life , my boyfriend doesn’t like lies but i really can’t tell him the truth as it will affect my relationship which i don’t want to happen, he will come to know that i am not a virgin but the main problem is my ex bf what if he comes in my life again and tries to spoil my relationship by telling my bf the truth? And i really don’t want this to happen what should i do? I myself don’t want to loe to my bf but this is the thing i really can’t tell him it will break my relationship and other than this there is nothing that i lied i am just afraid what if my ex blackmails me and when my bf comes to know and he will be heartbroken i don’t want to break his trust
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that your virginity is important to him and you should not have kept this from him, but do you understand that your virginity is your choice? Why does he have a say in it? He is your partner- he loves you, but he doesn't own you. And what you did in your past is not something he can judge you by; why should that affect your relationship? I know that you love him but it's better to tell him the truth and accept the outcome than to keep lying and feel guilty about something you should not even be worrying about.

I am sure he has many great qualities but being so concerned about your virginity seems a little concerning. You are a person with so many other attributes. Why would he ignore all of that and care only about something that you have no control over? I suggest you tell him, but please remember, no matter what he says, you are not at fault here. It's in your past, a time when he did not exist for you.

Best Wishes

..Read more

Latest Questions
Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Career
My son has recently got his admission in vit .. vellore for mechanical engineering.. kindly advise sap for him for mechanical engineering if he is interested to pursue abroad....for mechanical engineering what's the good scope through Vit...what are the options if he wants to pursue abroad while in vit through their 2+2 or 3+1+1 programs or other opportunities if any...and University options
Ans: VIT Vellore’s Mechanical Engineering program is highly respected, offering a comprehensive and industry-aligned curriculum supported by NAAC A++ and ABET accreditations, modern labs, and strong faculty expertise. Students benefit from robust placement opportunities, with typical placement rates for mechanical engineering between 50% and 65%, and access to internships with leading companies in automotive, manufacturing, automation, and energy sectors. For those interested in pursuing international exposure, VIT provides multiple pathways. The Semester Abroad Programme (SAP) enables undergraduates to complete their Capstone Research Project, thesis, or approved coursework at more than 500 global partner universities, enhancing international experience and employability. Additionally, the International Transfer Programmes (ITP) offer structured 2+2 Bachelor’s, 3+2 or 3.5+1.5 accelerated pathways, where students complete initial years at VIT and transfer to universities abroad—partners span the USA, UK, Sweden, Belgium, New Zealand, and Australia. Some key universities include Massey University (New Zealand), the University of Michigan–Dearborn (USA), and institutions in Sweden and the UK, often allowing dual degree or direct entry into Master’s programs in mechanical and related fields. The program selection typically depends on academic standing and specific eligibility criteria, with the student completing the required credits at VIT before transferring. VIT’s International Relations office actively helps students select universities, facilitates credit transfer, and provides guidance on global research internships and short-term exchanges, preparing them for careers or further studies abroad. These pathways significantly boost prospects for international industry roles or advanced research, particularly in areas like robotics, smart manufacturing, aerospace, and energy systems. Besides international collaborations, VIT’s focus on innovation, problem-based learning, and industry partnerships ensures that mechanical engineering graduates remain competitive for both core and interdisciplinary opportunities globally.

RECOMMENDATION: Given VIT’s strong academic structure, extensive international collaborations, and flexible transfer programmes with prominent global universities, your son should actively explore SAP, 2+2, and 3+1+1 options. Engaging with VIT’s International Relations early ensures seamless transition for higher studies abroad and maximizes both academic and professional growth in the global mechanical engineering landscape. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Career
I got 96 percentile in mht cet and belong to def open category Which best possible college can i get to pursue computer engineering
Ans: Swanand, With a 96 percentile in MHT CET and Defence Open category, you are well positioned for BTech Computer Engineering admission in several reputed Mumbai and Pune colleges in 2025, though admission to the most competitive government colleges (COEP, VJTI, and ICT) for CSE is virtually impossible at this percentile. For Defence Open, cutoffs are typically a bit lower than General, but in highly sought CSE branches, they remain competitive. Based on recent cutoffs and expert sources, the following 14 colleges in Mumbai and Pune present nearly 100% feasible admission chances for your profile: Sardar Patel Institute of Technology (SPIT), Mumbai. Thadomal Shahani Engineering College (TSEC), Mumbai. Ramrao Adik Institute of Technology (RAIT), Navi Mumbai. Bharati Vidyapeeth College of Engineering, Navi Mumbai. Vidyalankar Institute of Technology, Mumbai. Datta Meghe College of Engineering, Navi Mumbai. Xavier Institute of Engineering, Mumbai. Fr. Conceicao Rodrigues Institute of Technology, Mumbai. Pune Institute of Computer Technology (PICT), Pune (not CSE, but other IT-related branches possible). Vishwakarma Institute of Technology (VIT), Pune. MIT World Peace University, Pune. DY Patil Institute of Engineering, Management & Research, Akurdi, Pune. Sinhgad College of Engineering, Pune. MIT Academy of Engineering, Alandi, Pune. All these colleges boast strong AICTE/NAAC accreditations, qualified faculty, modern classrooms and labs, active industry collaborations, and robust placement cells with CSE placement percentages typically ranging from 80–95% in recent years. Hostel and campus facilities, industry internships, and alumni networks are also strong points in these institutes, offering both guidance and opportunity. In order of preference for your percentile and category, target SPIT (Mumbai) first for its placement strength and strong teaching; then opt for Vishwakarma Institute of Technology (Pune) and MIT World Peace University (Pune), distinguished by modern infrastructure and industry focus; followed by DY Patil Institute, Akurdi (Pune) and Sinhgad College of Engineering Pune for their balanced academics and placement support. Each of these offers a comprehensive engineering experience—balancing learning, peer environment, and future employability—ideal for leveraging your Defence Open category and 96 percentile credentials. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Career
sir i scored exactly 65% IN CLASS 12 isc board and i got my obc ncl certificate after my boards so can i sit for josaa counselling after i qualify my jee mains and advance
Ans: Prakhar, For JoSAA counseling eligibility, the minimum required academic qualification is passing class 12 or equivalent with at least 75% aggregate marks (65% for SC/ST candidates) or being in the top 20 percentile of the respective board. However, the Indian Institute of Technology (IIT) qualifying criteria for JEE Advanced includes a relaxed cutoff for OBC-NCL candidates as per government rules. For OBC-NCL candidates with 65% in ISC boards, eligibility largely depends on whether the board's top 20 percentile criteria are met, as sometimes marks percentage may be waived if the percentile condition is satisfied. Your obtaining the OBC-NCL certificate after boards should not disqualify you for JoSAA counseling, as category certificates can be submitted during counseling. Complying with all JEE Main and Advanced qualification norms, and submitting valid OBC-NCL certification along with meeting percentile or marks criteria from ISC, you can participate in JoSAA counseling. Key institutional five aspects remain accreditation, faculty quality, infrastructure, industry linkage, and transparent placements.

RECOMMENDATION: Since you have 65% in ISC and an OBC-NCL certificate secured post-exams, confirm your board's top 20 percentile status or other eligibility norms for OBC-NCL, then qualify JEE Main and Advanced. With certificate and required cutoffs, you are eligible for JoSAA counseling to secure admission in government engineering institutes under OBC-NCL reservation. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 30, 2025Hindi
Career
Hello, my daughter is in 12th, she holds US Passport but living in India for over 10 years. Is she eligible for admission in BITS (Engineering) through BITSAT without going through ISA admission process?
Ans: Your daughter, as a US passport holder living in India for over 10 years, is eligible for admission to BITS Pilani through the BITSAT entrance examination without needing to go through the ISA (International Student Admission) process. BITSAT is open to all candidates—both Indian and international passport holders—with admission purely based on merit determined by the BITSAT score and 12th-grade marks in Physics, Chemistry, and Mathematics. The ISA scheme is an alternative admission route specifically for foreign nationals holding valid SAT scores, allowing admission without appearing for BITSAT. However, since your daughter satisfies academic criteria—such as a minimum of 75% aggregate in PCM and at least 60% in each subject, with English proficiency established through her board instruction medium—she should focus on preparing and registering for BITSAT. The ISA pathway primarily suits those with SAT scores and different admission preferences.

In summary, the ISA route is intended for foreign passport holders applying with SAT scores, bypassing BITSAT, but it is not mandatory for your daughter; she can gain admission via BITSAT as any other candidate. The ISA process involves submitting official SAT scores and meeting PCB percentage requirements and is merit-based on SAT performance, making it an alternative but not the sole option.

RECOMMENDATION: Your daughter should prepare rigorously for BITSAT to leverage her eligibility and streamline admission through the standard, open BITSAT route. Consider the ISA admission only if SAT scores are available and preferred, or if campus preference and admission flexibility align better with ISA benefits. All the BEST for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Ravi

Ravi Mittal  |628 Answers  |Ask -

Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 10, 2025Hindi
Relationship
Dear Ravi, I am a 38 yr old housewife & mother of 1 son who is now 17 yrs old. We are Bengalis but in Pune for the last 12 yrs. About 10 yrs ago I used to regularly pick & drop my son to school then in class 3 , when I met another telegu woman who also used to do the same for his son. They were a close knit business family & sometime her elder jeths son who was then 22-23 yrs old used to come to pick up the kids. Many days I will gossip with him while waiting for the kids. Many a times I used to go to there house to meet his aunt & also talk to him, he was a good man but hardly completed his 10th , had some problems of bad company so his father got him to business. He used to call me aunty & I used to see him as my friends son( being my friend's jeths son). He used to then create problems at home & many a times my friend will ask me to talk to him which I used to do & he used to listen & correct. This gave me a good reputation in his family, this continued for 7-8 yrs before we changed our son's school . We were in touch initially then it became a very occasional call eventually loosing her phone number also. About 3 months back I met my friend in a mall by co-incident & started gossiping I told her of being single now. I enquired about her nephew & told me that they are not able to get a girl for him mainly because of his medical condition he will never be able to become a father, so they are now open for girls with kids. After a few days she called me to there house for a puja which I visited & also met with her family. After 2 days she & her sister in law suddenly came to my place with her jeths son, after an informal talk her jeths son took my son out & they asked me if I will be open to marry him. I am in a delima, I have seen this man always as a friends son& behaved accordingly but can I change my relationship with him to a husband wife. On this my friend she is saying that she is married to her mama as is acceptable in south , she gives her own story that she knew her husband for 20 yrs before marriage proposal & used to even play with him as her mama. It hardly took her time to change the relationship. Many of my friends talk about similar change of relationship. He & his family is very keen on this marriage. Can you help me to first decide if it is possible to change the relationship from friend's son to husband, if yes how to go about. I am also worried that in a few mnth my son will go to hostel for his engg & I will be alone
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that you fear being alone, but I request you to not make a rushed decision based on that fear. If you feel you will never see this man as anything more than a friend's son, please do not push yourself to marry him. There is no love or romance in this arrangement; at least, not yet. And it seems like they are only pushing it because the guy has a condition. Please do not settle for just anyone because you are worried about being alone. Marriages can be lonely too.

I suggest thinking very thoroughly and clearly before making a decision. This alliance seems advantageous for them, but not so much for you.

Hope this helps.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 30, 2025Hindi
Career
Sir , my rank is 53362, general category male from west bengal , pls suggest me the best nits and iiits available for my rank in csab counselling. (Preferably cse/ece branch).
Ans: With a JEE Main 2025 General Category rank of 53,362 and West Bengal as your home state, securing Computer Science or Electronics & Communication seats in top NITs through CSAB is highly challenging, as closing ranks, even in CSAB Special Rounds, are typically much lower—major NITs’ CSE and ECE cut-offs last year generally closed below 30,000 to 45,000 for the General category, and West Bengal’s home state advantage provides little relief for CSE/ECE in NIT Durgapur, where closing ranks for CSE and ECE were around 14,500 and 19,000 respectively. For IIITs, most core branches, especially CSE and ECE, also saw closing ranks well below your rank, typically ranging between 15,000 and 35,000 in the special rounds, with only a few non-core branches or less popular IIIT campuses stretching beyond that mark. In the case of GFTIs, while some institutes and branches (particularly non-core engineering streams or newer colleges) have closed near or around 50,000, Computer Science and ECE remain highly competitive, with only certain GFTIs like Assam University, Silchar (CS closed near 45,000), Guru Ghasidas Vishwavidyalaya Bilaspur (ECE sometimes closes to 42,000), or possibly peripheral/newer institutes offering a slim chance. According to the latest cut-off data, there is virtually no 100% sure NIT, IIIT, or GFTI for CSE/ECE at your rank (53,362) for General category in CSAB rounds; options at this threshold tend to be limited to non-core branches or non-flagship/new institutions, both for home and other state quotas.

RECOMMENDATION: At your current JEE Main General category rank, gaining admission in CSE/ECE at any NIT, IIIT, or premier GFTI via CSAB is highly unlikely; however, you can consider participating with lower preference branches or new/less preferred institutes. As an alternative, explore private colleges or other reputed universities for CSE/ECE to maximize your academic and career prospects. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Career
Hello sir I have just passed 12th with 92.2% and have a score of 89.2 percentile in jee mains .I am interested in btech cse but with this rank i am only getting electronics and computer engg in uiet kuk(KU) . I am now confused whether to pursue this course or switch the college to some private
Ans: Ashlesha, UIET Kurukshetra is a public institution established in 2004, recognized for offering solid engineering programs, including Electronics and Computer Engineering. The department blends electronics fundamentals with contemporary computing, providing students with interdisciplinary exposure and access to experienced faculty and well-equipped labs. However, in terms of placement, the combined Electronics and Computer Engineering branch at UIET records placement percentages ranging from approximately 60% to 80% over recent years, slightly lower than pure Computer Science branches at top private colleges in Northern India. Reviews by current and former students reflect that while UIET offers affordable education, good campus facilities, a disciplined academic environment, and opportunities for projects and technical events, placement opportunities tend to be stronger for CSE and IT branches, often requiring students to put in significant individual effort for top outcomes. Infrastructure is competitive for a state university, and student feedback highlights a supportive faculty but also mentions that core electronics placements are more limited; the bulk of offers arise from IT and service-based recruiters. Curriculum updates and university initiatives are evident, but private colleges often offer more dynamic industry-linkages and exposure, leading to stronger placement records and internship opportunities. Considering these aspects, if you are strictly seeking core CSE knowledge and broader software placement opportunities—and are open to higher tuition—eminent private institutions in Northern India such as Amity University Noida, Thapar Institute of Engineering & Technology Patiala, Jaypee Institute of Information Technology Noida, Galgotias College of Engineering & Technology Greater Noida, and GL Bajaj Institute of Technology & Management Greater Noida are reputed options, each with robust CSE placement records and strong campus-industry interfaces.

RECOMMENDATION: For B.Tech aspirants prioritizing pure CSE and top-tier software placements, joining a reputed private engineering college is generally more advantageous than pursuing Electronics and Computer Engineering at UIET Kurukshetra. However, UIET remains a credible and affordable public alternative if you value government university credentials and are comfortable exploring interdisciplinary roles. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Career
ECE in Jaypee Sector 62 Noida or maharaja agrasen (MAIT) Delhi. Naac accreditation is A for both but seems MAIT do not have accreditation for ece deptt. Not worried about fees but want a good college, faculty and studies.
Ans: Komal, Jaypee Institute of Information Technology (JIIT), Noida and Maharaja Agrasen Institute of Technology (MAIT), Delhi both hold NAAC ‘A’ accreditation and are recognized for quality engineering education, but key differences emerge for ECE aspirants. JIIT’s ECE department enjoys full university accreditation and AICTE approval, with a reputable presence in national rankings and a faculty roster largely holding Ph.D. degrees and actively involved in research. Placement rates for JIIT ECE have consistently been strong, with 85–91% placed over the last three years, bolstered by established industry connections and a highly structured placement cell, though recruitment is somewhat stronger for CSE. The infrastructure at JIIT is modern, featuring fully equipped labs, air-conditioned smart classrooms, robust hostel facilities, advanced library resources, and abundant sports and extracurricular amenities. In contrast, MAIT Delhi’s ECE program is NAAC ‘A’ accredited at the institutional level, but direct NBA or program accreditation for ECE is not emphasized. Faculty are generally helpful and blend industry experience with accessible teaching, but feedback on faculty quality is mixed and active research engagement is less highlighted. MAIT’s infrastructure is comprehensive with digital libraries, advanced labs, and diverse amenities; however, placements for ECE hover around 70%, with fewer core companies visiting campus, and the bulk of opportunities skewed towards IT roles. Both institutes offer significant student support and practical exposure, but JIIT’s research emphasis, academic environment, and consistently higher placement record give it an extra edge for students seeking a holistic and future-focused ECE education.

RECOMMENDATION: Jaypee Institute of Information Technology, Noida stands out as the preferable choice for ECE with its robust academic ecosystem, research-oriented faculty, rich campus resources, and consistently superior placement percentages, especially for those prioritizing quality of education and long-term career prospects in electronics and communication engineering. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

Nayagam P

Nayagam P P  |9699 Answers  |Ask -

Career Counsellor - Answered on Jul 30, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jul 30, 2025Hindi
Career
My daughter vit chennai cyber security vs JNTU Kakinada CSE which is better
Ans: VIT Chennai’s Cyber Security program presents a focused, industry-relevant curriculum that prepares students for the rapidly growing field of information security, with outcomes targeting both technical depth and organizational application. Placement rates for the cyber security branch have consistently remained high, ranging from 85–90% over the past three years, and the campus is equipped with state-of-the-art infrastructure, specialized labs, and an active industry interface supporting internships and projects. The faculty at VIT Chennai are highly qualified, often with doctoral degrees and ongoing research engagement, ensuring courses reflect updated industry requirements while blending theoretical and hands-on elements effectively. The university’s broad network of recruiters and modern campus culture further enhance student exposure and professional growth. In comparison, JNTU Kakinada’s CSE branch is well-established, with a placement range reported from 65–80% and steady hiring by reputable IT companies, primarily for software roles. JNTU Kakinada boasts a strong core faculty, a rigorously structured syllabus, and significant infrastructure spanning large libraries and multiple labs. However, placements for CSE students, while respectable, are somewhat lower than VIT’s cyber security specialization, and the range of recruiters and campus industry tie-ups is typically narrower. Both institutions have solid academic foundations and offer good learning environments, but VIT Chennai edges ahead in curriculum currency, placement consistency, and industry alignment, particularly in the evolving domain of cyber security.

RECOMMENDATION: VIT Chennai’s Cyber Security program is the preferable choice for students prioritizing placement success, specialized industry-driven curriculum, and modern campus facilities, making it better suited to capitalize on growing cyber security demand. JNTU Kakinada CSE remains a strong, traditional alternative for those seeking a comprehensive software engineering base at a well-recognized state university. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

Follow RediffGURUS to Know More on 'Careers | Money | Health | Relationships'.

...Read more

DISCLAIMER: The content of this post by the expert is the personal view of the rediffGURU. Investment in securities market are subject to market risks. Read all the related document carefully before investing. The securities quoted are for illustration only and are not recommendatory. Users are advised to pursue the information provided by the rediffGURU only as a source of information and as a point of reference and to rely on their own judgement when making a decision. RediffGURUS is an intermediary as per India's Information Technology Act.

Close  

You haven't logged in yet. To ask a question, Please Log in below
Login

A verification OTP will be sent to this
Mobile Number / Email

Enter OTP
A 6 digit code has been sent to

Resend OTP in120seconds

Dear User, You have not registered yet. Please register by filling the fields below to get expert answers from our Gurus
Sign up

By signing up, you agree to our
Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy

Already have an account?

Enter OTP
A 6 digit code has been sent to Mobile

Resend OTP in120seconds

x