I'm 20. Studying in a co-ed college. Is it okay if I'm not approached by any guy till now?

Ans: Direct communication can be a positive step, but it's important to approach the conversation with sensitivity and professionalismApproach the conversation with a calm and neutral tone. Avoid sounding accusatory or confrontational. Express your observations and feelings without blaming the other person. Emphasize the importance of maintaining a professional and collaborative work environment. Reaffirm your commitment to working together productively and professionally. He may not be receptive to such conversations, so be prepared for various outcomes. However, taking the initiative to address the issue demonstrates your commitment to a healthy work environment and can contribute to a more positive atmosphere.

Ans: Be out there. Get seen. Join dating apps
Go meet different men. That's how you start)
Dress nice, groom well)

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Does being single bother you? I know many people who seem to be enjoying their status as Single.

But if you really wish to explore relationships, then you need to move to places/activities where you will actually be able to mingle with people. Based on your areas of interests, like hobbies, travel etc, choose a social circle to move into and explore...

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Ans: Yes, it is absolutely normal not to be married at 39. Marriage timelines vary greatly depending on personal choices, cultural norms, and life circumstances. Societal expectations around marriage have evolved, and many people now prioritize other aspects of life, such as career development, personal growth, or meaningful relationships, over adhering to traditional timelines.

Being single at 39 could also mean that you're waiting for the right partner and connection, which is a thoughtful and mature approach. It's better to be in a fulfilling and authentic relationship than to rush into marriage due to societal pressure.

If you’re content with where you are in life, that’s what matters most. If you’re feeling uncertain or pressured, exploring what marriage or partnership means to you and aligning it with your values can be helpful.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
First of all, you are not gonna die single. You are too young to even worry about that. I would suggest to wait till you get into college and find someone, or else the distance, the new environment can be tough on a new relationship. You will find plenty of opportunities to find the right partner, and your entire life is ahead of you.
Best wishes.