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Can anxiety really cause my body to be in pain all the time?

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Dr Shakeeb Ahmed Khan  |161 Answers  |Ask -

Physiotherapist - Answered on Mar 22, 2025

Dr Shakeeb Ahmed Khan is a senior consultant physiotherapist with over 12 years of experience specialising in orthopaedic and paediatric physiotherapy.
He has served as a technical consultant for the World Health Organisation, the United Nations, the Tata Institute of Social Sciences and several national and international NGOs.
Besides physiotherapy, he is keenly interested in disability management, early intervention, geriatric care and assisting children with disabilities.
Dr Khan has a bachelor's degree in physiotherapy from the Ravi Nair Physiotherapy College in Wardha, Maharashtra, a master's degree in disability rehabilitation administration from the National Institute for the Mentally Handicapped, Secunderabad, and a PhD in disability management from Bangalore University.... more
RUPESH Question by RUPESH on Feb 18, 2025Hindi
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I have been suffering from this problem for over 20 years. Most of the time, I experience pain in my body, and whenever I am in front of my boss and he asks me anything, I get extremely nervous and my body feels weak and drained all the time.

Ans: Hello Mr. Rupesh . As a Physiotherapist I would suggest relaxation exercises and meditation . However you can also consult a psychologist.
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Understanding Your Life Stage
You are in the pre-retirement phase.

Retirement could be 5 to 8 years away.

This is a critical phase for wealth preservation.

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Investment mistakes now can affect lifestyle later.

So, decisions now must be very mindful and calculated.

Your Current SIP – A Solid Habit
Rs 50,000 SIP shows strong discipline. Appreciate that.

Continue SIPs in a well-diversified mix of mutual funds.

Actively managed funds are better suited at this stage.

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This is not possible with passive funds or index funds.

Why Index Funds May Not Suit You
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They can’t reduce risk during market downturns.

No fund manager to rebalance your asset mix.

You are closer to retirement. Risk must be controlled.

Actively managed funds can do that better.

Shares Portfolio of Rs 20 Lakhs – Review Needed
Direct shares are risky for retirement planning.

Prices fluctuate daily. No guaranteed returns.

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Direct Mutual Funds – Disadvantages for You
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