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Venkata Question by Venkata on Nov 03, 2024Hindi
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Hi Pushpa, I am 52 Year old never married single. During childhood I had a practice of yogasanas through RSS. But now had a big break. How can I start it again? I have knee pain. Also advise me for financial success and career success as I have under performing career irrespective my 4 Post Graduations qualifications. Thank you. Regards Hanumanth

Ans: Starting yoga again at 52 is a great step toward revitalizing both body and mind. With your early background, you’ll find reconnecting with the practice rewarding. Here’s how to start safely, given your knee pain, and work toward your goals:

Gentle Yoga for Joint Support: Begin with poses like Sukhasana (Easy Pose) for meditation and Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose) to strengthen the back without straining the knees. Chair yoga may also be useful to protect your joints.

Law of Attraction Meditation: Daily visualization meditation can be powerful for career and financial goals. Imagine yourself achieving success, feeling confident and fulfilled. When done consistently, this “law of attraction” meditation builds a positive mindset and aligns your thoughts with your goals.

Pranayama (Breathing Exercises): Practicing Anulom Vilom (Alternate Nostril Breathing) increases focus and clarity, which supports mental well-being and career decision-making.

Partnering with a coach will help you practice safely and effectively, ensuring every step aligns with your body’s needs. With proper guidance, yoga and meditation can inspire growth in every area of life.

R. Pushpa, M.Sc (Yoga)
Online Yoga & Meditation Coach
Radiant YogaVibes
https://www.instagram.com/pushpa_radiantyogavibes/
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Dear Mayank,Name: Vaibhav JainAge: 28Currently unemployed.I really need your help and guidance at this point of time as I am very confused regarding my career. I am a mechanical engineering graduate; I graduated in 2015. Qualified Gate 2017 but not with a good rank. Till February 2018, I prepared for government exams but unfortunately couldn't crack them.Then I started to do a job in the ayurvedic health care sector in a relatively smaller subsidiary of a known company as a GRE and FOE.I worked there from June 2018 to July 2020.I did not enjoy my job and the salary was not good. Also, I was inclined to choose yoga as my career path so I participated in a short term yoga teacher training programme in 2019 and quit my job in July 2020.In my experience letter, the company said I had made an excellent contribution towards the organisation.After quitting my job, I completed my post-graduate diploma in yoga education from Kaivalyadhama, Lonavala, in April 2021.After completing the course, I was excited about pursuing a career in yoga. But due to some unfortunate circumstances at home, I am not finding the time to do so. I self-practise. Circumstances have caused financial issues at my home which is forcing me to do some kind of job to balance the expenses.One of my friends, who is working at one of the biggest e-commerce companies of the country, has asked to apply for an opening for floor executive (inventory management role) in his company.I am interested as the salary is good, which can help me in current situation. But I don't have any idea or experience of how to go about doing an interview at such a big corporate company.I don't have any prior experience of working in this field, therefore I'm not confident about cracking the interview. Based on what I have heard from my friends, the company gives preference to candidates with prior experience.Please guide me for this interview process and how to prepare a resume as I am finding difficult to recognise my strengths and weaknesses and my good skills which may help to crack the interview. Guide me for my interview preparation.Also guide me if should follow my interest of yoga as a career or find some other job to meet my financial needs.Thanks and regards,Vaibhav Jain
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Dear Vaibhav.

I think your key strength is that you are a qualified engineer. With that comes analytical, logical and mathematical abilities.

Also, you have prepared for competitive exams so you have that competitive spirit.

Build on these strengths and look for a career where you can use them. Almost every industry needs these skill sets.

Keep practising yoga for good health and calmness.

A full-time career in yoga is not really a financial option.

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 22, 2024Hindi
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Hi Pushpa, i am 52 years old and not in a habit of exercising, i have spindylosis and have repaired umblical hernia before 18 years. How can i start doing yoga
Ans: It's inspiring that you want to start yoga, even with your health concerns. Given your age, history of spondylosis, and past umbilical hernia repair, it's crucial to take a gentle and mindful approach to ensure you practice safely.

Steps to Start Yoga:
1. Consult Your Doctor First
Before beginning yoga, it's important to consult with your healthcare provider, especially considering your spondylosis and previous hernia surgery. Once you get the go-ahead, you can gradually incorporate yoga into your routine.

2. Begin with Gentle Movements
Given your condition, avoid intense poses. Start with slow, mindful movements to gently stretch and strengthen your muscles, especially around your spine and core.

Suggested Asanas:
1. Cat-Cow Pose (Marjaryasana-Bitilasana)
This pose is excellent for gently mobilizing the spine, relieving stiffness due to spondylosis. Move slowly between Cat and Cow to avoid strain.

2. Child’s Pose (Balasana)
This restorative pose helps release tension in the back and hips. It's gentle on the spine and can offer relief from back discomfort without exerting pressure on your hernia repair.

3. Bridge Pose (Setu Bandhasana)
This pose strengthens your core and lower back while being gentle on your spine. Make sure to start with smaller lifts, focusing on controlled movements.

4. Supta Baddha Konasana (Reclined Bound Angle Pose)
This restorative pose helps stretch the inner thighs and lower back. It’s gentle and doesn’t put pressure on your abdomen, making it suitable after a past hernia repair.

5. Mountain Pose (Tadasana)
A simple standing pose, Tadasana helps improve posture and balance without putting strain on your spine or abdomen. It’s a great foundational pose to build body awareness.

6. Seated Forward Bend (Paschimottanasana)
If you can bend forward without discomfort, this pose can gently stretch your back and hamstrings. Avoid forcing the stretch, and if you feel any discomfort in the spine or abdomen, stop.

Breathing and Relaxation:
1. Diaphragmatic Breathing
Focus on deep, diaphragmatic breathing to enhance relaxation and core stability. This can help you reconnect with your breath and gently tone your abdominal area without straining the hernia repair site.

2. Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing)
This pranayama practice helps balance the nervous system, reduces stress, and promotes overall wellness. It's a good starting point to ease your body into a mindful practice.

Additional Tips:
Avoid forward bends: Deep forward bends may put pressure on your hernia site and strain the spine.
No intense twists: Avoid deep spinal twists, which may aggravate your spondylosis.
Listen to your body: Start slow and be mindful of any discomfort. It’s important to stop immediately if you feel any strain, especially around your abdomen or spine.
Restorative Yoga:
Incorporating restorative yoga poses with the help of props (bolsters, cushions) will allow you to gently stretch and relax without pushing your body. These poses focus on healing and can be especially beneficial for you.

Practice Duration:
Begin with 10-15 minutes of gentle practice, gradually building up to 30 minutes. Consistency is more important than duration, so practicing daily will yield better results than long, sporadic sessions.

With patience, mindful movement, and regular practice, yoga can help alleviate some of your discomforts and improve flexibility, balance, and overall well-being. You can always explore yoga with a certified instructor who understands your specific health concerns to ensure you're practicing safely.

Wishing you a peaceful and safe yoga journey!

R. Pushpa, M.Sc (Yoga)
Online Yoga & Meditation Coach
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Namasjaram Pushpa Impressed by the article Stopped doing yoga for 4 years, due to heavy commotments. Will i be able to start off again,what is it that i need ho begin with
Ans: Namaste! It's wonderful that you're considering returning to yoga. After a four-year break, it's completely natural to feel uncertain, but the good news is that yoga is always there for you, no matter how long the gap has been.

Here are some steps to ease back into your practice:

Start with gentle movements: Don’t rush into advanced poses. Begin with basic stretches, simple asanas like Cat-Cow (Marjaryasana-Bitilasana), Child’s Pose (Balasana), or Mountain Pose (Tadasana). These will help you reconnect with your body.

Focus on breath: Reintroduce yourself to pranayama (breathwork). Practicing deep breathing exercises like Diaphragmatic Breathing or Nadi Shodhana (Alternate Nostril Breathing) can help you center your mind and bring mindfulness back to your practice.

Listen to your body: Avoid pushing yourself into postures that feel uncomfortable. With time, your strength and flexibility will return. It's important to honor where you are now rather than where you used to be.

Set a regular routine: Start with short, manageable sessions, even 15-20 minutes a day. The consistency is more important than the duration, and gradually you can build from there.

Consider guided sessions: Since you’ve had a break, it might help to follow guided yoga or meditation classes online. This will offer structure and support as you rebuild your practice.

Stay patient and mindful: It's easy to get frustrated, but yoga is a journey of self-discovery. Be kind to yourself as you progress.

Reconnecting with yoga can be incredibly fulfilling. You're already on the right path by simply having the intention to start again!

R. Pushpa, M.Sc (Yoga)
Online Yoga & Meditation Coach
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I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for the past 4 years, but due to various issues, things have become extremely complicated. Her father doesn’t approve of me, and my mother doesn’t like her either. Despite this, we’ve managed to stay together all these years. The problem is now escalating. My family is pressuring me to marry someone else, but I’m unable to leave her. At the same time, I feel I can’t marry her either because of her behavior and the ongoing issues with my family. I’ve tried to ask her to change certain things, but she hasn’t made any efforts in that direction. To make matters worse, her mother supports our relationship and trusts me, which makes it even harder for me to walk away. I don’t want her to marry someone else, but I also feel stuck because of my family’s expectations and the challenges in our relationship. Even If I leave her I don't know what she is going to do. What should I do in this situation to make the best decision for everyone involved?
Ans: it's crucial to reflect on what you truly want and need from a relationship. Ask yourself if this relationship brings you the happiness and fulfillment you seek, or if the challenges you face are too significant to overcome. It's important to differentiate between staying out of love and staying out of fear or obligation.

Talking to your partner openly is essential. Share your concerns honestly and listen to her perspective. If there are changes you've hoped for, express why they matter to you. At the same time, recognize that change is a two-way street—it requires effort and willingness from both sides. If she hasn't made efforts in the areas you've discussed, it may be worth considering whether this is a pattern that can be changed or a fundamental mismatch in expectations.

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If the relationship feels unsustainable despite your efforts, it may be time to consider a different path. It's understandable that you’re concerned about her well-being, especially given her mother's trust in you, but staying out of guilt or obligation can lead to further unhappiness for both of you. If you decide to part ways, doing so with kindness and honesty can help mitigate some of the hurt.

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My age is 41 years. I have two kids. Nurturing n looking after them n whole home single handedly. I am a visiting faculty in a institute . Earns very nominal earning. My husband hits me, taunts me and use very arrogant words to me like tumhe belt se maarunga n similar many worst words. His family has been always unsupportive to me . Now after 16 years of marriage, he still wants me to please his mother n other family. Which I completely avoid as they have never supported me and always boycotted me. His real brother is in politics and all family members including his cousins do follow him and boycotted me n husband. Now for everything my husband blames me and says if you gave pleased them, all might have good. But inspite of pleasing them a lot , they are like treating me like I am a stranger. I handle n manage everything still by the end of the day.... everything is in vain. Husband says...What you did for home? I will never ever give my money to you and so on. I am literally in trouble thoughts, what to do ? I even many times thought to end my life but my kids are the reason I continuously bears everything. Please suggest what shall I do.
Ans: it's important to acknowledge that no one deserves to be treated with such disrespect and abuse. Your feelings of isolation and frustration are valid. It can feel overwhelming when the people who should support you instead make you feel like an outsider.

In situations like this, it’s crucial to find support outside the immediate family. Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can offer you emotional strength and practical advice. Consider speaking with a counselor or therapist who can help you navigate these complex emotions and provide strategies for dealing with the abuse and stress.

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