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Dr Shakeeb Ahmed Khan |187 Answers |Ask -Follow

Physiotherapist - Answered on Aug 06, 2024

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Question by Vinod on Apr 12, 2024Hindi

Health

My son is 11 years old. He had physical and mental related issues. He is going to a special school. I am not able to admit him to the normal school as he is not able to write properly. I am really worried about his education and future. Kindly advise what I need to do for his education and future.

Ans: I understand your concerns about your son's education and future, and I want to reassure you that enrolling him in a special school is a positive step. Although long term it must be inclusive education. It’s great that he is receiving the tailored support he needs. To further support his development, continue with a multi-disciplinary approach by working with physiotherapists, rehabilitation psychologists, and other specialists who can address both his physical and mental needs. Utilizing all available resources at his special school, including individualized education plans (IEPs) and therapies, will also be beneficial.

Additionally, obtaining a disability certificate can provide access to extra resources and support. Consider exploring National Trust schemes that may offer additional assistance and benefits. Joining a parent support group can also be incredibly valuable, providing you with emotional support and practical advice from others who are in similar situations.

Your dedication and patience are crucial, and every small achievement is a step forward. With continued support and the right resources, he can make significant progress. Don’t hesitate to reach out to his educators and therapists for personalized advice and assistance.

Wishing you and your son all the best.

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Hi Sir, my son is diagnosed with mild intellectual disability.apprearing for xth.standard exam from SSC TS board .he is having difficulty in concentration on studies and also maths subject.could you please suggest for further studies which couses best fits fir this kind of problem..as a parents what should we do for his career

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Hi Anu, I'm worried about my son. He has pass his 8th std in 2023 and not goes to school for 23-24 session. Now he is not interested in studies. My wife is epilepsy patient and not intelligent enough to understand & handle the issue. Pls suggest.

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My son studying 5 th standard in a CBSE school. He is not showing any interest in writing... But he is very active able to understands the concepts well and he can answer orally very well. But not willing to write anything so he is scoring very low marks and his handwriting also not good. How do I make my son get interest in writing and to write neatly and fastly kindly suggest if any counselling can be given or any classes he can go like mid brain activation or handwriting.

Ans: Work on his writing skills by setting up small targets with a timer.Once he achieves increase this by 5% again. Build up on his confidence by giving positive reinforcement. His efforts need to be rewarded initially.

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We are couple with 1 child. However, struggling with schools for my 11 year old who has autism, can talk and severe adhd. Schools are saying that they cannot enrol him yet due to behaviour and the fact that he wont listen to anyone and behave badly. He is smart in academics but likes to do things as he wishes creating issues. he struggles with peer communication and sitting in one place and will slouch and fall from the chair. Are there any options that we can look at. As his IQ is normal we feel he will struggle in a special school as well.

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