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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 17, 2024

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Question by Nitin on Jun 13, 2024Hindi

Relationship

Hi Anu, I'm worried about my son. He has pass his 8th std in 2023 and not goes to school for 23-24 session. Now he is not interested in studies. My wife is epilepsy patient and not intelligent enough to understand & handle the issue. Pls suggest.

Ans: Dear Nitin,
I don't find any details to work on and suggest much to you.
What makes your son not interested in studies? Why has he suddenly stopped going to school? Did anything unpleasant happen at school? Have you spoken to the school authorities? IS the environment at home not a happy one?
These questions need to be answered which become information to go towards any solution. Also, how is the connection between the mother and son (your wife and your son)?
For now, I guess you can take the help of an adolescent counselor who can help guide your son out of whatever he is going through. The expert will anyway ask these questions and then work from thereon...

All the best!
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