Hi Anu, I'm worried about my son. He has pass his 8th std in 2023 and not goes to school for 23-24 session. Now he is not interested in studies. My wife is epilepsy patient and not intelligent enough to understand & handle the issue. Pls suggest.

Ans: It is not clear what he is suffering from. Pediatric Neurology is a broad diagnosis. If he is under the treatment of a neurologist then he / she is the best person to guide you

Ans: Get your self involved more with him ,it should be more of quality time when ever you are there around him. Be non judgemental,so that he can confide in you. Plan for some recreational time together so that he doesn't feel the need to be constantly on mobile and screen.

Ans: I appreciate your inquiry, and I'm pleased that despite his mild intellectual disability, you're supportive of his pursuit of higher education. At this stage, I recommend seeking an evaluation from a Rehabilitation or Clinical psychologist certified by RCI to better understand his challenges and strengths. Following this assessment, it would be beneficial to engage in a discussion with a career counselor specializing in disability affirmative approaches. It's important to consider his interests and preferences when planning his academic and career path. It's worth noting that despite a mild intellectual disability, numerous examples exist of individuals who have achieved success in their careers.

Ans: I understand your concerns about your son's education and future, and I want to reassure you that enrolling him in a special school is a positive step. Although long term it must be inclusive education. It’s great that he is receiving the tailored support he needs. To further support his development, continue with a multi-disciplinary approach by working with physiotherapists, rehabilitation psychologists, and other specialists who can address both his physical and mental needs. Utilizing all available resources at his special school, including individualized education plans (IEPs) and therapies, will also be beneficial.

Additionally, obtaining a disability certificate can provide access to extra resources and support. Consider exploring National Trust schemes that may offer additional assistance and benefits. Joining a parent support group can also be incredibly valuable, providing you with emotional support and practical advice from others who are in similar situations.

Your dedication and patience are crucial, and every small achievement is a step forward. With continued support and the right resources, he can make significant progress. Don’t hesitate to reach out to his educators and therapists for personalized advice and assistance.

Wishing you and your son all the best.

Ans: Hello dear
Your son is in just 8th grade! It’s natural to worry about your child’s future, but at this stage, the focus should be on helping him explore his interests, build curiosity, and develop strong fundamentals, especially in math, science, and communication. Instead of deciding now between engineering, medicine, or other careers, encourage him to try different activities like coding, science clubs, creative writing, or robotics to discover what excites him. Talk regularly about different professions, expose him to role models, and support both academic and non-academic growth. As he moves to higher grades, his strengths and interests will become clearer, making it easier to guide him toward a well-suited career path. Just ensure that he stays consistent in his studies, attends school or tuitions regularly, and appears for all tests. Don't compare him with others. Always encourage him. Stay relaxed.

Good luck.
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