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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Oct 03, 2025

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Oct 03, 2025Hindi
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I was an intelligent student until class 10th. I scored 90% in 10th from CBSE Board... Due to lackness of guidance,money i couldn't studied in good offline coachings..then my parents took non attending school in 12th in my city..i scored 69.8% in 12th in cbse..during COVID time..i distracted from phones from games,YouTube ,etc...i waste so much time in phone...and overthinking about how to prepare for jee ..12th all these..I took 1st drop,2nd drop,3rd drop,4th drop...in these ,I wasted all ..in 1st year, I got 71% ile in jee..in 2nd year ,it was bad..in 3rd year,i gave 12th again from nios .i scored 66.4%,I clear wbjee with 56000 rank.In 4th year,I missed the viteee& wbjee both exam..I am very tensed ,sad ,what should I do now .I want to do engineering...also I faced many health problems like migraine..anxiety,ocd, depression,brain nerves shrink like problems..

Ans: It’s clear you’ve been through a lot, and your journey reflects both your persistence and the challenges you’ve faced. You started as a strong student, but a lack of guidance, financial issues, distractions, and health struggles affected your performance. Despite setbacks, you didn’t give up. You appeared for JEE multiple times, cleared 12th again through NIOS, and even qualified WBJEE, though with a modest rank. Missing exams in your fourth attempt has added to your stress, and health issues like migraine, anxiety, OCD, and depression are also weighing you down. Right now, instead of only focusing on what went wrong, it may help to stabilize your health first, seek proper medical and mental health support, and then plan a realistic path forward in engineering, whether through state-level colleges, private universities, or alternative technical fields. You still have options, but your well-being must come first. Here are some realistic alternative routes for you to still pursue engineering despite the setbacks: (1) State & Private Colleges (Management/Direct Admission) (2) Diploma to Degree (Lateral Entry) (3) State-Level Exams like Odisha JEE, Maharashtra CET, COMEDK, etc., still possible (4) Deemed Universities & Distance Options (5) Parallel Technical Careers (If you prefer a faster route, i.e., B.Sc. Computer Science, IT, or BCA, then go for MCA/M.Tech)

My suggestion: Don’t waste another year dropping. Choose a private or state-level college this year (through WBJEE counseling, direct admission, or management quota) and start your B.Tech. Once you enter college, you can focus on learning, internships, and building a career instead of being stuck in exam cycles.

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