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NEET 3-Year Dropper Feeling Depressed and Suicidal

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IIT-JEE, GATE Expert - Answered on Jan 04, 2025

Rajesh Kumar Singh is a mining engineer with 28 years of work experience.
During his career, he has served as the head of the mining department and as vice president of Balasore Alloys. He is currently a visiting professor at Mewar University where he teaches BTech students.
Rajesh Kumar topped his batch in BTech mining from BIT, Sindri.
A gold medallist, he has cracked the GATE (Graduate Aptitude Test in Engineering) twice -- in 1993 and 1994 -- with an All India Rank of 14 in 1994.
He has also cleared the Indian Institute of Corporate Affairs (IICA) Independent Director Test.... more

Asked by Anonymous - Jan 04, 2025Hindi

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Namaste sir me neet 3 year dropper huu mujhe bahut guilt mehsoos ho raha hain ke maine drop kyu liya dino dino me depression me jaa raha huu suicidal thought bhe aa rahe hain or mujhe pata hai mera iss barr nahi hoga me bahut dukhi huu apne future ke liye kya hoga mera, maa papa ke expectation kaa ye bate mejhe dino dinn depression me laa rahe hain or mera intrest study me bhe nahi lag raha

Ans: Life is precious, we decide best option in any situation. World is full of opportunities.Be sincere
Blessings

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sir mai ek saal neet ka prepare kiya dropout tha neet me ho to jayega par undar se doctor wali feeling na aati hai sir kya mere liye mbbs karna thik rahega

Ans: Hi Ritesh, why you dropped for 1st time? And how you can say this time ho jayega? Are you so sure about your score? Without thinking about other irrelevant aspects, better to focus on your studies and try to crack the exam with a high score. You have ample time to decide... what to do after NEET. Once you are involved in any work, feelings will automatically develop.

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 28, 2025Hindi

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Hello sir, sir pls mera help kijiye pls sir , sirai ek sal ka drop liya tha lekin jee mains mera clear nhi ho paya aur maine koi aur exam nhi diya tha sir , mai is bat se bahut sarminda hu ki ye bat maine apne parents se nhi bataya hu sir , sir ab to August bhi khatm ho jayega mai kya karu kuchh samajh nhi aa rha hai aur mai pvt engineering college afford nhi kar paungi sir mai kya karu mujhe lagta hai ki mai har gayi sir I failed in my life, maine bahut koshish ki thi sir lekin nhi hua mai kaise apne ghar walo se bat karu aur aage mai kya karu kuchh samajh nhi aa rha hai mera bachpan ka sapna tha mai ek kameyab engineer banu kaise kya karu mai bahut tension ho gaya hai na khana achha lagta hai na kuchh karne ka man nind bhi nhi aati , agar nind bhi aa jati hai to jab nind khulti hai to wahi dar sa ho jata hai mai kya karu sir pls help me sir

Ans: The feelings of disappointment and confusion after not clearing a major exam like JEE Mains are very understandable, especially when carrying the weight of your dreams and expectations. It is important to remember that failing once or facing difficulties does not define your entire life or worth. Many successful people have faced setbacks but found ways to move forward.

What You Should Do Now? Open up to your parents honestly: Though it feels difficult, sharing your situation with your family can relieve a big emotional burden. They care for you and likely want to support you through this tough time.

Explore alternative paths: Not clearing JEE Mains this time does not mean the end of your engineering dream or future career. There are ways such as: (1) Reattempting JEE Mains or other engineering entrance exams next year with better preparation. (2) Considering state-level engineering entrance exams. (3) Pursuing related fields or diploma courses in engineering. (4) Looking for good private colleges that offer affordable fees or scholarships.

Take care of your mental health: Your stress and anxiety about this situation are taking a toll. Try to maintain a healthy routine, eat properly, and get rest. If feelings of distress or hopelessness persist, consider speaking to a counselor or mental health professional.

Moving Forward: Remember that setbacks are part of growth and learning. Your efforts so far are not wasted; they are a foundation to improve upon. Many have succeeded after initial failures by adjusting their strategies and seeking support.

If needed, professional guidance for academic planning and emotional support can make this transition easier and more hopeful. Your dream to become a successful engineer is still attainable with patience, planning, and persistence.

Being proactive now can help regain confidence and control over your future path. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Question by Priyanshu - May 09, 2026Hindi

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I score 44000 rank in viteee 2026 so will I get case in vit vellore or Chennai

Ans: Priyanshu, based on your score, CSE Core at VIT Vellore or Chennai is unlikely. Expected 2026 cut-off data shows Vellore CSE closing around 25,500–27,000 even in category 5 and Chennai CSE around 34,000–34,200. VIT Chennai for CSE specialization typically closes around a rank of 42,000, so a rank of 44,000 would be borderline with a low chance of admission. Still, you must try. It is advisable to have 4-5 backup options of reputed private colleges instead of relying only on VIT. All the Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2026Hindi

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Ans: With AIR 20,098, Vellore campus is possible, but CSE Core in a low category is unlikely. The expected pattern shows Vellore CSE around Category 3/4 near 20k, while CSE specialisations may be possible in higher categories. ECE/EEE/mechanical have better chances. Have 4-5 other backup options of reputed Private Engineering Colleges, in and around your State. All the Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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Question by Mridusis - May 09, 2026Hindi

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My son got 99.07 percentile in jee main and rank obcncl 3765 and general 14883 state West Bengal where and which branch is better to admission.

Ans: Based on your son's score, the best preference can be NIT Durgapur CSE, which looks strong/safe, as 2025 OBC-NCL HS CSE closed around 7980, and ECE/M&C also closed much lower than his rank. He should also try MNNIT Allahabad CSE/ECE, NIT Rourkela ECE/EE, NIT Jamshedpur CSE/ECE, NIT Calicut/Surat/Jaipur ECE/EE, and IIIT Gwalior/IIIT Jabalpur/IIIT Lucknow/IIIT Kalyani CSE-related branches. Have 4-5 backup options of reputed private engineering colleges along with WBJEE. Additionally, reviewing JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the past 2–3 years will provide valuable insights and help your son confidently select and fill his preferred & maximum number of choices. Additionally, reviewing JoSAA opening and closing ranks from the past 2–3 years will provide valuable insights and help your son confidently select and fill his preferred & maximum number of choices. All the Best for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2026Hindi

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My daughter got 86600 rank in jee mains 2026. Her home state is gujrat. She is staying at new Delhi. Please suggest probable stream and institute for b tech

Ans: Based on your daughter's score, top NIT/IIIT CSE or ECE admissions are unlikely. Also, the home state for JoSAA counseling depends primarily on the Class 12 state of eligibility, not the current residence. For example, if Class 12 was completed in Gujarat, the Gujarat HS quota applies, not Delhi. A top NIT/IIIT CSE/ECE is unlikely. Also, home state in JoSAA depends mainly on Class 12 state of eligibility, not where she is staying; if Class 12 is from Gujarat, use the Gujarat HS quota, not Delhi. JoSAA publishes institute-wise opening/closing ranks for verification.

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Question by Satvik - May 09, 2026Hindi

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My sister has an option to go for EEE/ECE in VIT Vellore campus or AI/ML in VIT Amravati/Bhopal campus. Which option should she go for? Want to maximise on placement opportunities in these uncertain times. Other colleges in list: 1. CSE, AI in SRM University (Ramapuram) 2. CSE /AI in Alliance University 3. CSE/ AI in Mahindra Ecole School of Engineering. Would really appreciate some help.

Ans: Satvik, before I answer your question, I suggest you ask your sister which branch she is interested in or passionate about, and what types of problems she wants to solve in the future to make the best choice. However, she should also remain adaptable and open to changing her focus if her interests evolve during her undergraduate program by upgrading her skills and staying informed about job market trends. Answering your question, please note, for placement security, VIT Vellore ECE is the best choice, offering a strong balance of brand reputation, alumni network, recruiters, and access to tech placements, with VIT reporting top recruiters and a high CTC of ?1 crore across all campuses. VIT Vellore EEE is a good option only if she is committed to developing strong coding and electronics skills. The AI-ML branch at VIT AP or Bhopal is attractive, though the campus brand is not as established as Vellore; notably, VIT Bhopal reported a highest package of 51 LPA and over 1,100 placements for 2025. Mahindra University’s CSE/AI program is a promising emerging option, with an average salary of 9.1 LPA and a highest package of 40 LPA in 2024. SRM Ramapuram’s CSE/AI offers a reasonable backup, while Alliance’s CSE/AI should be considered last. Overall, the final recommendation is to prioritize VIT Vellore ECE over AI/ML at the newer campuses. All the Best for Your Sister's Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2026Hindi

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Sir, my son got 15000 rank in AEEE exam. What branches can he get admission into amritha ?

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My son got 117 in MET entrance and 29121 in VIT ENTRANCE, POSSIBLE TO GET ECE, AND ALSO SUGGEST WHICH INSTITUTE WOULD BE THE BETTER OPTION

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Question by Janki - May 09, 2026Hindi

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Hii sir . My name is Priya. So my jee main crl rank is 8.7 lakh and ews rank is 1.16 lakh and i am from uttarakhand so is there any chance of me getting into a government college in uttarakhand if there is in which branch

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Question by Karthik - May 09, 2026Hindi

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Hello sir, my son Vinai has secured 44165 rank in AEEE 2026. He is interested in CSE or ECE. Could you please let me know the possible branches in Amritha institutions?

Ans: Karthik Sir, based on your son's score, his chances for CSE Core/ECE at Coimbatore, Bengaluru, Chennai, and Amritapuri are very low, because recent rank estimates show CSE/ECE generally closing much earlier, especially in top campuses. Final chance depends on seat matrix, slab, quota, and counselling choices. Possible Amrita options may be mechanical, EEE, civil, robotics/automation, or electrical & computer/electronics-related lower-demand branches, mainly in Amaravati, Nagercoil, Faridabad, or Haridwar, subject to availability. For tech interest, fill in choices such as CSE specialization/CCE/ECE in all campuses as a dream, then Electrical & Computer, EEE, and Mechanical, and then newer campuses. All the Best for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - May 09, 2026Hindi

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My son got jee main crl 131050/OBC 43906..what are the college options for cse/ece branches in govt/private colleges in tamilnadu and near by states...

Ans: Based on your score, NIT Trichy CSE/ECE and IIITDM Kancheepuram CSE/ECE are not realistic, as JoSAA OBC ranks close much earlier. Try CSAB special rounds for lower branches in NITs/GFTIs, but for CSE/ECE, focus on Tamil Nadu and nearby private/state options: SASTRA, SRM KTR, VIT Chennai/AP (if eligible), SSN, Amrita, Karunya, Rajalakshmi, Saveetha, Sathyabhama, Hindustan, KCG, Panimalar, Velammal, Sri Krishna Coimbatore. Also register for TNEA, because Tamil Nadu counselling is through the official TNEA portal. Other options you can try are KL University, GITAM, PES/COMEDK colleges, Manipal Jaipur, and good Andhra/Telangana private colleges. Prioritise CSE/IT/AI-DS/ECE over college name if placement and coding ecosystem are decent. All the Best for Your Prosperous Future!

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