Dear Mayank, my friend's daughter completed MA in Economics and is now teaching in a private college. However she wants to switch career as she is not sarisfied with the payscale of her job. She is pursuing an one year course in Data analysis simultaneously and was planning to switch to Data analysis career. However now she has been advised by her husband (she got married recently) to build upon her economics background by pursuing MBA in finance. She is confused what will be a better way forward Data analysis or MBA finance. She is 26 years old and resides in Calcutta. Request you to kindly advise on the best way forward for her.

Ans: What if the real issue isn’t the fights themselves, but the pattern they keep following? Every argument seems to have the same players, the same reactions, and the same outcome. But if nothing changes, where does that leave you? When emotions take over, who holds the power in the conversation - you or the reaction? If external voices are shaping your marriage, how much space is left for your own voice?
You can’t control how others behave, but you do control how you respond. If the same approach keeps leading to conflict, what would happen if you changed the way you engage? Would setting boundaries feel different if they came from a place of clarity rather than frustration? Would communication shift if the goal was to understand rather than to win?
The question isn’t just how to stop the fights - it’s how to break the cycle. Where do you start?
Wishing you success,
Aamish Dhingra
ICF-PCC Certified Life Coach
Co-Founder, Cocoweave Coaching International, Delhi