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Hi mayank , I am 54 , Civil engineer with an experience of 30 years in building residential projects and bank loan processing, I am financially well off and settled my only son in a good position and he is doing well and smart. My wife is compelling me to take retirement asking "how long will you toil like this ? Why don't you think about yourself? You always thought about us and your parents" . What should I do? I can't imagine myself just sitting idle , I take atleast 50 phone calls per day and instructing my staff over issues

Ans: I think your should continue as long as you are healthy and like your job. You can possibly slow down and not take additional projects so that you spend more time for self and family
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HI, I am 51 , working in a MNC earning around Rs 3 lacs in hand , wife is working and earning around 1.15 lacs in hand.We have 2 kids, daughter in Bsc first year and son in 8th grade. I am writing to seek advice about my retirement as I have absolutely no desire/motivation to work now. Below is my financial status. Pl advice whether I should retire or not. Pl note my wife wants to work still: We have around 1.75 cr in mutual funds and shares. 35 lacs in FD 40 lacs in PPF 85 lacs in PF 90 lacs in other things (NSC/Kisan/LIC, savings a/c, loan to others) I will get around 12 lacs in gratuity. We get rent of approx. Rs 65K/month gross Besides the house we live in , we have 3 other properties worth 8cr Gold around 40 lacs I have no EMI's . My monthly expenses are around 3 lacs , but after 2 years , will reduce by 1.2 lac ,as my daughter will complete graduation and after that she will be on her own. But then similar expense will be added as son moves to higher classes. Now a major thing. My son had severe health issue and had a organ transplant a year back. That incident has shattered me completely and is main reason for my desire to retire as I want to spend lot of time with him which currently I can't ,due to job. Otherwise also I am fed up of jobs now as have never been too successful and reach top levels. Kindly advice.
Ans: Current Financial Position
Age 51 years
Occupation Presently working in an MNC
Monthly Income Rs 3 lakhs
Wife's Monthly Income Rs 1.15 lakhs
Children Daughter doing BSc 1st year, Son studying in 8th standard
Monthly Expenses Rs 3 lakhs (assuming it will reduce by Rs 1.2 lakhs in two years time)
Assets
Mutual Funds and Shares Rs 1.75 crore
Fixed Deposits Rs 35 lakhs
PPF Rs 40 lakhs
PF Rs 85 lakhs
Other Investments (NSC/Kisan/LIC, Savings A/C, Loans): Rs 90 lakhs
Gratuity: Rs 12 lakhs (expected)
Rental Income: Rs 65,000 per month
Properties: 3 properties worth Rs 8 crore (besides the house you live in)
Gold: Rs 40 lakhs
Retirement Consideration
Financial Stability

You have a good size portfolio.
Monthly expenses are Rs 3 lakhs, against which rental income will also contribute.
Assets should yield a comfortable retirement corpus.
Current Investments

Mutual Funds and Shares: Rs 1.75 crore
Fixed Deposits: Rs 35 lakhs
PPF: Rs 40 lakhs
PF: Rs 85 lakhs
Other Investments: Rs 90 lakhs
Gold: Rs 40 lakhs
Recommendations
Income Stream Analysis

Rental Income: Rs 65,000 per month
Wife's Income: Rs 1.15 lakhs per month
Total Monthly Income Post-Retirement: Rs 1.8 lakhs
Expense Management

Current expenses: Rs 3 lakhs per month
Expected reduction: Rs 1.2 lakhs after 2 years
Future expenses can be managed with existing income and assets.
Investment Strategy

Mutual Funds: Continue for long-term growth.
PPF and PF: Provide stability and tax benefits.
Fixed Deposits: Can consider switching over to higher-return options.
Gold: Continue maintaining for diversification.
Health and Insurance

Adequate health insurance to be maintained for the family.
Insurance cover to be provided for son's medical requirements.
Additional Measures
Increase contributions towards retirement-targeted investments.
An emergency fund to meet unexpected expenses is always to be maintained.
Periodic review and rebalancing of the investment portfolio is a must.
Financial Objectives
Retirement Corpus

The corpus to be adequate to support monthly expenses and inflation.
Dovetail into an adequate mix of assets yielding a steady income.
Education and Marriage of Child

Separate investments to be planned for children's education and marriage.
Use equity mutual funds for long-term education goals.
Vacation Planning

Set aside a small portion of monthly income for vacations.
Take care that it does not hamper the essential expenses.
Final Insights
With a good asset base and a diverse source of income streams, retirement at the age of 51 is very much possible. Having control on expenses, adequate insurance, and periodic review of the investment portfolio will help in achieving your goal. Your financial situation will definitely support a comfortable retirement and your future goals.

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Sir I am 55 now , only one son who is earning 24 lakhs per annum yet to be married, I am a business man , no EMI and real estate assets worth 8 crores, Bank FD 75 lakhs, gold 1.5 crores, mutual funds 15 lakhs, I have a rental income of 1.5 lakhs per month. My business is debt free and running in normal phase, business income post tax is around 3 lakhs per month. My wife is telling me to take retirement she is telling you've worked from the age of 18 why are you still running? Our only son will not takeover your business, so try to enjoy remaining years peacefully. What should I do?
Ans: Assessing Your Current Situation
Your current financial situation is strong. You have substantial assets, including real estate worth Rs. 8 crores, fixed deposits of Rs. 75 lakhs, gold valued at Rs. 1.5 crores, and mutual funds worth Rs. 15 lakhs. Your business generates a post-tax income of Rs. 3 lakhs per month, and you have rental income of Rs. 1.5 lakhs per month.

You also have the support of a successful son who earns Rs. 24 lakhs per annum. You are debt-free, and your business is running smoothly.

This strong financial foundation provides you with the security and flexibility to consider retirement.

Evaluating the Retirement Decision
Emotional and Psychological Factors

Retirement is not just a financial decision. It involves emotional and psychological considerations.

You have worked since the age of 18, and your wife is encouraging you to enjoy your remaining years peacefully.

It’s essential to think about how retirement will affect your daily routine and sense of purpose.

Consider what activities, hobbies, or interests you could pursue in retirement to stay engaged and fulfilled.

Financial Independence and Security

Your financial situation suggests that you have achieved financial independence.

Your assets and income streams provide a secure foundation for retirement.

With a debt-free business and no EMIs, you have minimal financial obligations.

Your rental income and business income are substantial and can support your lifestyle even without active business involvement.

Legacy and Succession Planning

It’s important to consider the future of your business.

Your son is not interested in taking over the business. Therefore, succession planning is crucial.

You might consider selling the business or hiring a professional manager to run it.

This approach allows you to step back without completely shutting down the business, ensuring it continues to generate income.

Planning for a Smooth Transition
Gradual Retirement Approach

Instead of abrupt retirement, you might consider a gradual transition.

Start by reducing your involvement in day-to-day operations.

Delegate responsibilities to trusted employees or a manager.

This approach allows you to stay connected to your business while gradually stepping back.

Building a Retirement Lifestyle

Retirement is an opportunity to pursue new interests and hobbies.

Plan activities that you enjoy, whether it’s traveling, learning something new, or spending more time with family.

Engaging in these activities can help make the transition to retirement smoother and more fulfilling.

Managing Your Financial Assets

You have significant assets that need to be managed wisely.

Ensure your fixed deposits are earning competitive interest rates and consider diversifying your investments for better returns.

Your gold holdings are valuable, but they don’t generate income. You might explore ways to convert a portion into income-generating assets.

Your mutual funds could be reviewed to ensure they align with your retirement goals.

Ensuring Family Financial Security
Protecting Your Family’s Future

You have a responsibility to ensure your family’s financial security.

Consider creating a detailed financial plan that covers future expenses, including healthcare, living expenses, and any financial support your son might need.

Review your insurance policies to ensure adequate coverage for unforeseen circumstances.

If you don’t have a will, it’s essential to create one to ensure your assets are distributed according to your wishes.

Education and Marriage of Your Son

Your son’s education and marriage are significant milestones.

Although he is earning well, it’s wise to set aside funds for his future education or marriage.

This ensures that these expenses are covered without impacting your retirement corpus.

Preparing for Unforeseen Circumstances
Emergency Fund

Even in retirement, it’s essential to have an emergency fund.

Set aside at least 6-12 months’ worth of expenses in a liquid, easily accessible account.

This fund will provide financial stability in case of any unforeseen events.

Healthcare Planning

Healthcare is a crucial aspect of retirement planning.

Ensure you have adequate health insurance coverage for you and your wife.

Consider setting up a dedicated healthcare fund to cover any out-of-pocket expenses.

Making the Final Decision
Aligning with Your Values and Goals

Ultimately, your decision to retire should align with your values and goals.

Reflect on what you want to achieve in your remaining years.

Consider how your decision will impact your family, your lifestyle, and your sense of fulfillment.

Discuss with Your Family

Involve your wife and son in this decision.

Their support and understanding are crucial to a smooth transition.

Having open conversations will ensure everyone is on the same page and that your decision is well-informed.

Final Insights
You have built a strong financial foundation, and now you stand at a crossroads. Your wife’s advice to retire is understandable, given your long years of hard work. You are financially secure, and your assets provide a safety net for you and your family.

Retirement doesn’t have to mean the end of your involvement in your business or financial life. You can consider a phased retirement, where you gradually reduce your work commitments while exploring new interests and hobbies.

It’s also essential to ensure that your financial assets are managed wisely to continue supporting your lifestyle in retirement. Succession planning for your business, protecting your family’s future, and preparing for unforeseen circumstances are all critical aspects to consider.

Retirement is a personal decision that goes beyond finances. It’s about aligning with your values, goals, and what brings you joy. Take the time to reflect, discuss with your family, and plan for a fulfilling and secure retirement.

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Hi, I am 55 and married to a wonderful lady of 52. Both of us are employed. We have been blessed with a son who has done his MBBS and now undergoing his PG in a reputed govt hospital. Problem is that I am working with a pvt company ( listed ). While my wife works with a govt company. We are located in two different states and not possible to travel from home on daily basis. So we meet up once a month only. Generally on a second or forth Saturday. As I work with a company where I have to take permission to leave HQ, I feel frustrated that even after working for more than 30 years, one needs to take a permission. Work culture over the years has changed too much as the company has changed hands many times. And now I am not able to change nor ready to change my way if working. And thua brings out friction in my job and affects my performance everywhere. I wish to leave the job as only 03 years are balance and I feel that having a good enough health would allow me some time to pursue my hobbies of travel and meeting with my relatives which I have ignored for so many years. While I wish to take an early retirement ( no financial liabilities and a good enough bank balance and own home too.) But wife is not agreeing to this. Whenever I raise the topic we end up arguing too much and don't reach any conclusion. Regarding her job, she has to travel by own vehicle for almost 45-60 minutes daily. So she cooks only once and for dinner she consumes whatever cooked in morning. House help is not easily available and she is.not able to adjust with them. I don't like this and if I leave my job I could help her with household chores as well. So, my query is how do I pursuade my wife to let me leave the job ( I am not at all insisting for her to leave the job as well ). How do I make her understand that we are financially well enough and our son would do well in his career without needing any more help from us. My continuation in my job frustrates me and I can't think of anything but to leave the job.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It seems to me like your wife is quite comfortable with the current situation. So, it's up to now to handle the conflicts that you are facing.
If you want to leave your job, why do you need to persuade your wife to allow you to do that especially if you are financially stable and secure?
Before taking any major life-changing decisions, take a break from work, travel, socialize, spend time with the family, engage in new pursuits and see if anything new comes up...what excites you? What can you do with that excitement? Can you create something new with it? Does it force you see something different or change the course of your job, your life?
Unless you don't take that moment to STOP and experience something different, you will not allow yourself to have choices. So, build choices and build different ways of thinking and that will enable you to move from frustration to transformation. Take that first step, take a BREAK!

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Hi Sir, I am 53 year old & wanted to retire with having total saving around 60 lacs & my wife is govt teacher & i am a father of two girl child both are unmarried . One is working in Google & other is doing degree. Kindly advise should i retire or prolong my service. I am really fed up with the routine work at office.
Ans: You have done many things right. Being debt-free and raising two daughters successfully is a big achievement. One daughter is working in a top global firm. The other is pursuing education. Your wife is also earning a regular salary as a government teacher. You have around Rs. 60 lakhs in savings. Now you are asking if it is the right time to retire or not. Let us assess it completely.

You will get clear direction with this detailed analysis.

Assessing Monthly Cash Flow Post Retirement
First, find your monthly expenses. Add household, healthcare, travel, and family expenses.

Now check your wife’s monthly salary. Is it enough to cover those expenses?

If not, check how much monthly income your Rs. 60 lakh corpus can generate.

A safe withdrawal of 4% gives about Rs. 20,000 per month from this Rs. 60 lakhs.

That Rs. 20,000 plus your wife’s salary must match your monthly needs.

If there is a gap, you will need to postpone retirement or create more income sources.

Your Daughters’ Financial Responsibilities
Your elder daughter is working. That’s great. You don’t need to plan for her now.

Your younger daughter is still studying. You must plan for her education and marriage.

Set aside part of your Rs. 60 lakh savings for her future expenses.

You may need Rs. 10–15 lakh for education or marriage-related costs.

Deduct that from your savings and check how much is left for your retirement.

Retirement Corpus Suitability
Rs. 60 lakh corpus is too low to support full retirement at age 53.

You need income for at least 35 years if you live up to 88.

Expenses will increase every year due to inflation.

You also need a buffer for medical costs, travel, and family emergencies.

Rs. 60 lakhs may not grow enough to last all your retirement years safely.

Mental Tiredness vs Financial Freedom
Feeling fed up at work is understandable. Many people go through this phase.

But emotional frustration should not force early retirement if money is not sufficient.

Take a short break or vacation instead of full retirement now.

Try reducing work hours if your job allows. Or request flexible roles.

Semi-retirement with part-time work may give better balance.

Role of Your Spouse’s Government Job
Your wife’s job gives good financial stability.

Government jobs provide pension and healthcare benefits.

But do not depend fully on her income. She also may retire in future.

You must have your own retirement corpus to remain financially independent.

Investment Suggestions to Build Retirement Corpus
Your current savings must be made to grow.

Invest a part of your Rs. 60 lakh in balanced mutual funds.

Allocate some in actively managed equity mutual funds through Certified Financial Planner.

Avoid direct mutual funds. They lack handholding, discipline, and expert monitoring.

Regular plans through MFD with CFP gives long-term guidance, goal setting, and review.

Direct funds may look cheaper but can be less efficient for long-term wealth.

Avoid index funds also. They follow market blindly without downside protection.

Active funds aim for better returns by managing risks actively.

Maintain Emergency Fund Separately
Keep Rs. 5–6 lakh as emergency fund in liquid form.

This is not for investment. Only for sudden family or health needs.

This prevents you from redeeming long-term investments in panic.

Health Insurance Must Be Reviewed
At 53, you must have a strong health insurance cover.

Also ensure your wife and younger daughter have adequate medical cover.

Do not depend only on employer-provided insurance.

Premiums will rise as you age. Start early and secure lifelong protection.

Jeevan Saral Policy
If you hold a LIC Jeevan Saral policy, continue till maturity.

Since only 4–5 years are left, surrendering now won’t give full benefits.

But avoid buying any more investment-cum-insurance policies.

Pure term plans and mutual funds are more efficient for protection and growth.

Role of Gold in Long-Term Planning
You have not mentioned gold holdings. If you have, treat it as backup.

Physical gold should not be relied on for regular income.

It can stay as generational wealth but not as retirement income generator.

Target Corpus For Peaceful Retirement
A peaceful retirement needs stable income for at least 30 years post-retirement.

Assuming modest lifestyle, monthly expenses may be around Rs. 50,000 today.

With inflation, this will become Rs. 1.2 lakh in next 15 years.

To get that income, you need around Rs. 2.5 crore corpus by age 60.

Rs. 60 lakh today is a good start, but you need to build more.

Action Plan To Retire Peacefully
Continue working for 5–7 more years, if health permits.

Use this time to increase investments aggressively.

Avoid all unwanted expenses. Save 30–40% of income.

Invest monthly through SIPs in diversified actively managed mutual funds.

Review your investment plan every year with a Certified Financial Planner.

Do not chase real estate. It locks money and brings illiquidity.

Build a portfolio of equity and hybrid funds with proper asset allocation.

Keep increasing SIP amount every year as income rises.

Delay big purchases unless truly needed.

Family Support And Emotional Planning
Discuss your retirement plan with your wife and daughters.

Take their input also. Align family goals with your retirement.

After retirement, plan a daily routine with meaningful activities.

Focus on health, hobbies, and purposeful engagements.

Retirement is not the end. It is a new beginning of your choice.

Final Insights
Rs. 60 lakh is a great base. But not enough for full retirement at age 53.

Continue job for some more years. Build Rs. 2–2.5 crore corpus steadily.

Your wife’s job gives comfort. But don’t depend fully on it.

Create income-generating portfolio for long-term independence.

Plan for younger daughter’s future and your own health costs.

Take help of Certified Financial Planner for goal-wise investing.

Protect corpus from inflation, taxation, and wrong product choices.

After 58 or 60, you may retire peacefully with confidence.

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