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MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Nov 12, 2025

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more

Question by Sonal on Nov 12, 2025Hindi

Hello i am facing lot of issues in my career, my colleagues are continuously harassing my senior is not supporting me i can't leave my job because i had already lost multiple jobs i have to support my family financially

Ans: I am not the expert to answer your question. However, since the question was directed to me, I will try to reply to you.

It sounds like you’re under a lot of stress, and that’s completely understandable given your situation. Workplace harassment and lack of support can deeply affect your mental and emotional well-being. The best remedy is to stay calm and protect yourself by documenting every incident of harassment with dates, details, and witnesses if possible. Politely but firmly communicate your boundaries and, if safe, raise the issue with HR or a trusted higher authority. Meanwhile, focus on upskilling or networking discreetly to keep future opportunities open. Outside of work, make time for self-care and talk to supportive friends or a counselor to manage stress. Remember, you deserve respect and stability; this situation is temporary, and taking small, steady steps will help you regain control.

You did not mention which field you are working in or what your educational qualifications are. Therefore, I am unable to guide you properly for the future. Remember, not only you, but almost every third person faces the same situation at the workplace. If you are talented, hardworking, and willing to learn new things, then no one can stop your progress.

Always try to face problems and colleagues with a smiling face and do not react or give back answers to any of them. Prove that, without your help, they are helpless.

Good luck.
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Asked on - Nov 12, 2025 | Answered on Nov 12, 2025

I am b.com graduate also pursuing m.com by side. I told my seniors but they are favouring them only the bad collegues. My hardwork is not recognized at all I feel lonely at workplace no one is there to help me

Ans: Focus on your M.Com. degree. Join some online or offline computer courses and try to master MS Excel or Google Sheets along with AI tools to secure a respected job. Alternatively, you can learn accounting software Tally, which is in high demand in the market and industries. You already mentioned that you have changed or lost multiple jobs. The main reason is known to you only. Identify your interests and search for jobs accordingly. Searching for any random job or working unwillingly in a place without interest will always cause problems. Improve your body language and tone of voice if they sound unpleasant to others (this might be one of the basic reasons). Be patient and wait for good opportunities. Continue learning new skills until you achieve success.

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Question by S - Oct 06, 2020Hindi

Hi Anu, I am 42 yrs old male. I am a Public Health Professional and work in an International NGO on health issues based in Delhi. I have ageing parents (both suffering from cardiac illness, diabetes and hypertension) which are based in Mumbai, my immediate family (wife and two kids) stays with my parents as there is no one else to take care of them. My parents especially my father is adamant that he doesn’t want to leave his house and stay with me in Delhi. As a result my immediate family is also forced to stay in Mumbai taking care of my parents. My wife is very supportive, however as this situation is like this since last 4-5 years and we are staying in two different cities, it has now taking stall at emotionally and physically on both of us (me, my wife and my two kids). I am desperately searching for job in Mumbai, however in my sector there are not very good opportunities in Mumbai. I tried my hands in two there places for job, however to my misfortune things didnt work out. I am a mid-senior level professional and have reached this position after a lot of hard work, however the stress has started affecting my performance and overall reputation in the organization. Hence there is constant stress of performance, ability to deliver, overall situation has lowered my confidence level affecting my work further. Dissatisfied with my work, my supervisor has already started sidelining me. I am desperately started thinking of leaving the job, however financial condition doesn’t allow me to do that. With COVID-19 pandemic things has worsened, as I am stuck in Delhi even in lockdown, leaving my parents and my wife struggling in Mumbai amidst the lockdown. Even now cant visit them as stressed, whether i will carry risk of infection to my parents, wife and kids, Hence staying away, it’s been 8 months that have not met them. Not sure, how to handle this. One way I thought as looking out opportunities in Mumbai, even if at junior level, However i am trying for that, but not getting suitable opportunities. Not sure, how to handle the pressures from family (Parents don't want to shift, wife is not ready to stay away and has given time till March, there constant pressure of performance). Not sure, what to do.

Ans: Dear S, surely, this pandemic has put many at inconvenience in different ways for each of us across the planet.

What we can do is make the best of what is at this point in time. It indeed is hard to be away from family at a time like this.

I know parents in some families do find it hard adjusting to a new city at their age and having your wife care for them as logical as the decision was has begun to take a toll on the family as a whole.

It is an amazing feeling to come back home to a family after a hard day’s work where they wait with love, care and support.

Either a job in Mumbai or moving your family to Delhi are the options as it is evident that family and their love is important for you to have the security and stability.

Having said this, Lockdown 5.0 begins soon, I think fearlessly take a call, visit your family.

If you think you want to isolate yourself in the fear of COVID-10, do so…but more that all of this, do sit down as a family, COMMUNICATE, talk to your parents about how this is affecting you and obviously they care and love you enough to hear your side of the story.

And finally, do what needs to be done to make sure that your parents understand and are taken care of and your wife and children are with you as a family.

Happy decision making and be happy!

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