Hi, I am 26 year old working in IT company. Due to my family business we have debt of 60 lakhs. In which 23 lakh is from relative with no interest, 15 lakh from bank, 12 lakh from property mortgage loan, and 7 laks jumbo loan, 5 laks loan on my brother.
We are 3 earner for now , overall monthly income is 2.5 lakhs. Now I am also planning to buy a house and get married by next year. How can I plan everything.
Ans: You have shown courage and clarity at just 26, despite a Rs?60 lakh family debt. Being an earner in IT, planning marriage, and buying a home next year are courageous steps. Let’s discuss a detailed 360?degree plan to cover debt repayment, future goals, and financial balance.
? Understand your full financial picture
– Total family debt: Rs?60 lakh
Rs?23 lakh interest?free from relatives
Rs?15 lakh bank loan with interest
Rs?12 lakh property mortgage
Rs?7 lakh personal jumbo loan
Rs?5 lakh loan on your brother’s behalf
– Total monthly income among three earners: Rs?2.5 lakh
– You plan to buy a house and marry next year
– Aim is to clear debt, fund wedding, buy home, and build savings in parallel
? Split debt by cost and urgency
– Interest?free loan from relatives causes no interest cost, but moral obligation exists
– Bank loan, property mortgage, and jumbo loan carry interest—priority to clear high?interest ones first
– Urgent debt: jumbo loan and bank loan
– Next: mortgage loan
– Last: relative loan—pay as convenience allows
? Set short, medium, and long?term goals
– Short term (12 months): wedding and housing down payment
– Medium term (2–3 years): stable repayments and emergency fund build
– Long term (5+ years): fully clear bank and jumbo loan, begin savings and investments
? Develop budget and cash flow plan
– Record Rs?2.5 lakh combined monthly income and family expenses
– Allocate basic family expense buffer (food, school fees, utilities, transport)
– Identify how much each earner can contribute to debt repayment
– Keep one earner’s income for personal investment/savings plan
? Goal?wise allocation of income
– Allocate fixed portion monthly for loan EMI/prepayment
– Another portion reserved for wedding and house purchase
– Maintain small emergency buffer (liquid savings)
– Remainder can start SIP-based investments or savings for future
? How to prioritize wedding and home purchase
– Estimate realistic wedding cost and timeline
– For home, decide how much down payment or home loan you can sustain
– Use savings or separate fund for these goals—not debt funds
– Avoid taking new credit once wedding or house purchase begins
– Plan both carefully so debt does not balloon due to new expenses
? Debt repayment strategy
– Jumbo loan and personal loan: highest interest—prioritise clearing fastest
– Mortgage loan: moderate interest—advance prepayments after high?cost debts
– Bank loan: stable EMI—stop early, but spread over few years—not panic prepayment
– Relative loan: honor moral obligation, pay gradually after other debts clear
? Use surplus wisely after expenses
– If monthly surplus becomes Rs?30,000–40,000, split it:
Most for debt reduction (higher interest debts)
Some for savings or emergency buffer
– Once high?interest debts clear, redirect surplus to house fund or SIPs
? Build emergency fund before marriage/home burden
– Before getting married or buying home, build 3?6 months living expense fund
– Place emergency fund in liquid fund or sweep–in FD
– Do not tap this fund for debt or wedding unless urgent
? When to start SIP investments
– SIPs work best when not burdened with heavy debt
– Small SIPs of Rs?2,000–5,000/month can begin early for financial habit
– Increase SIPs as income grows or debt reduces
– Start SIPs only from one earner’s share to avoid dilution of family repayment ability
? Why SIPs should not be direct or index goals initially
– Avoid direct funds—no CFP?guided analysis, may lead to wrong choice
– Avoid index funds—they mimic market, lack risk control by fund managers
– Actively managed equity mutual funds give better risk?adjusted returns over time
– Invest through regular plans with guidance from a MFD backed by CFP
? Asset allocation and goal horizon
– Wedding and housing goals: short to medium term (1–2 years) — keep funds in safe debt/hybrid instruments
– Debt repayment: short to medium term—liquid or short?duration debt fund, not equity
– SIPs for longer goals or future emergencies: equity funds over 5–7 years or more
? Insurance and safety nets
– Ensure each earner has term insurance of at least 10–15 times annual income
– Have health insurance co?ordinated across family
– Do not hold investment?cum?insurance policies—they give low return
– If there are existing LIC/ULIP policies, review and consider surrender if underperforming; reinvest in mutual funds
? Handling education and children’s needs
– Align children’s education cost with future income and savings
– If your family business or siblings cover education cost, mark it separately
– Otherwise, plan for future child education via SIP in equity mutual funds with goals
? Liquidity during wedding/home purchase
– Avoid draining all savings for wedding or house
– Keep separate buffer fund for wedding-related expense
– Use liquid investments or planned savings—not long?term SIP capital
? How to manage new home loan portion
– If taking a home loan for purchase, keep EMI within safe limits (around 30–35% of income)
– Balance EMI with other debt instalments and future SIP commitments
– Reallocate EMI repayment surplus to long?term SIPs post mortgage repayment
? Guiding principles to stay on track
– Always pay high?interest debts first
– Never borrow new loan unless absolutely necessary
– Build an emergency cushion before major events
– Start small SIPs early; scale up later
– Keep life and health insurance in place
– Always align goals, timeframe, and strategy
? Annual review and adjustments
– Meet Certified Financial Planner annually
– Review debt reduction progress, SIP performance, expense growth
– Rebalance asset allocation as needs and inflation shift
– Increase SIP contributions by 10–15% yearly as income rises
– If family income changes, adjust goals and timelines accordingly
? Final insights
– You face heavy family debt but also strong collective income support
– Clear high?cost debts rapidly, while honoring interest?free family loan gradually
– Plan wedding and home purchase with separate savings, without increasing debt
– Maintain buffer for emergencies before starting long?term investments
– Start small SIP early, and grow investments alongside debt reduction
– Use actively managed equity mutual funds via CFP?led regular plan—avoid index or direct routes
– Insurance, budgeting, regular review, and disciplined approach will help future stability
– In a few years, debt will reduce, SIPs will grow, and you can start wealth creation
– With structured plan, marriage and home purchase become part of wealth creation, not burden
– Stay consistent, review often, and act with clarity and balance
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment