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Radheshyam

Radheshyam Zanwar  |6731 Answers  |Ask -

MHT-CET, IIT-JEE, NEET-UG Expert - Answered on Aug 20, 2024

Radheshyam Zanwar is the founder of Zanwar Classes which prepares aspirants for competitive exams such as MHT-CET, IIT-JEE and NEET-UG.
Based in Aurangabad, Maharashtra, it provides coaching for Class 10 and Class 12 students as well.
Since the last 25 years, Radheshyam has been teaching mathematics to Class 11 and Class 12 students and coaching them for engineering and medical entrance examinations.
Radheshyam completed his civil engineering from the Government Engineering College in Aurangabad.... more
Ishani Question by Ishani on Aug 10, 2024Hindi
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Dear sir, I am currently in 11th preparing for JEE. I began this journey with a strong mindset but now as 3-4 months have passed I feel like this is not for me. I have developed a lot of backlogs and am unable to manage this with school.I feel like a humanities career would have suited me better.I don't know whether to give up or continue this

Ans: HI Ishani.
Not only you, but this happens with lakhs of students. But they never talk with themselves and their parents or teachers.
Honestly, JEE is not suitable for 90% of students.
You must be congratulated for rolling back from JEE at an early state (within 3 to 4 months)
Leave the JEE and focus on the liking of your field i.e. Humanities.
Wish you the best of luck in your future.

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Ans: Vaishnavi, To catch up and confidently crack JEE within 6–8 months while strengthening fundamentals, follow these Around 80 practical steps under four pillars—Planning & Time Management, Concept Building & Practice, Revision & Self-Assessment, and Well-being & Motivation. Additionally, explore five backup engineering exams and ten NIRF-ranked private universities accepting JEE or school scores. 1. Draft a master timetable allocating 6 days/week with one rest day. 2. Break six months into two phases: Months 1–4 (learning and practice) and Months 5–6 (revision and mocks). 3. Assign daily 2-hour morning session (your peak focus time) for weakest subject. 4. Reserve 3 hours post-school for subject-wise study (Physics, Chemistry, Math). 5. Allocate 1 hour evening for NCERT revisions. 6. Use the Pomodoro Technique: 50-minute study, 10-minute break. 7. Plan weekly targets: chapters to complete, question sets to practice. 8. 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Hello Sir , Sir I want to tell that right now I am in 11th grade and preparing for Jee .I am not able to focus on my studies .I have a massive backlog .Tell me about how can I manage to come out of this problem & also I want to ask you about future career options I can pursue...
Ans: It’s completely normal to feel overwhelmed in 11th grade while preparing for JEE, as the syllabus is vast and backlogs can accumulate quickly. The key is to break the backlog into small, manageable parts. Start with NCERT basics and revise daily, then gradually cover pending topics while keeping up with current ones. Make a realistic timetable with short study blocks, avoid distractions, and focus on consistency rather than long, unfocused hours. If JEE feels stressful, remember that it’s just one path—there are many other great career options in engineering, pure sciences, commerce, design, research, and even emerging fields like data science and AI. What matters most is to identify where your interests and strengths lie and work steadily toward that goal.
Tips - Maintain 100% attendance in coaching (if enrolled), appear for all tests, join a reputed online test platform, solve previous years' question papers, create your own shortcuts, stay in touch with subject teachers, and get your doubts cleared quickly. Always stay relaxed and calm without getting irritated with yourself. Success is always there... only you have to reach the destination steadily.

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