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Initially seeing the happiness on the faces of our loved ones makes us believe that what we are doing is the right thing.
But if you work or so anything in life without taking into consideration your feelings or your what you value for yourself, it will slowly start to seep into your core and you either end up feeling stressed or anxious.
I do understand that your situation is one of financial challenges, you mist work and why not work and at least set sometime for yourself over the weekend to rejuvenate yourself?
This time is non-negotiable and it is to refresh yourself so you can go back on Monday with a newness.
Also, instead of working like a machine, why not think that you are working efficiently to slowly pay off EMIs and to be free of them.
Bring some harmony between work and life which is what I can offer as a suggestion to you.
Be happy and work not out of compulsion but passion!
It’s like being unsettled has become a way of life. And you haven’t become aware that what you are living with in terms of uncertainty is mostly self-created.
You are seeing it with academics, work, relationships. It’s a pattern which must be broken provided you wish to see a massive change in your life.
1. What do I seek from life?
2. Where do I see myself in the professional space?
3. What do I wish for in a relationship/partner?
Now, check if your thoughts and behaviours align with what you wish for.
For eg: If you are looking at losing weight, if your behaviour is no exercise and reaching out for a midnight snack, you will never get to what you wish for.
So, if you want to feel more certain and have a certain level of wellbeing and grip in your life, you need to come up with some sort of fool proof plan and stick with it.
If you haven’t been very fine with academics, surely you can still put your best foot forward in your workplace taking more initiatives and thinking about how to grow there.
With relationships, start asking yourself, how can I add value to my partner?
It’s time you took responsibility for your choices and its results. So, if you want massive changes in the results, change the way you think and do things.
Am I getting through to you here?
Nothing is dead; you just have to inspire yourself to think and do different.
So, self-pity isn’t going to get you anywhere.
If he was a narcissist, good things didn’t work out…time to move on rather than make more excuses for your life not going anywhere.
Do you know now what you must do? Just Step Up!