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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Oct 06, 2020
I live with my parents and i am married. Blessed with two children. I am the sole bread winner. They all luv me very much.
These days (year 2020) I feel stressed and lonely, bcos of financial problem in running my house and fulfilling my EMI and other loan commitments.
My family knows my financial adjustments and commitments. I feel myself like a machine working non-stop to keep my family happy and fullfil their desires.
I don’t feel happy going home after my work for the day. I feel like I don’t understand them or they don't understand me.
I know they luv me so much and me too. I feel let down but actually they support me in all the way they can. What should I do?
Initially seeing the happiness on the faces of our loved ones makes us believe that what we are doing is the right thing.
But if you work or so anything in life without taking into consideration your feelings or your what you value for yourself, it will slowly start to seep into your core and you either end up feeling stressed or anxious.
I do understand that your situation is one of financial challenges, you mist work and why not work and at least set sometime for yourself over the weekend to rejuvenate yourself?
This time is non-negotiable and it is to refresh yourself so you can go back on Monday with a newness.
Also, instead of working like a machine, why not think that you are working efficiently to slowly pay off EMIs and to be free of them.
Bring some harmony between work and life which is what I can offer as a suggestion to you.
Be happy and work not out of compulsion but passion!
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