Seeking Guidance for My Son's MS in Mechanical Engineering | Working in Gulf Countries

Ans: Dear Ritika,

Please understand that you did nothing wrong. Why would you even question yourself? You know you never cheated. It's his issue that he cannot trust. Yes, in a relationship we all try to comfort our partners but that too should be to a certain extent. And, in that process, if your mental health is being compromised, I don't see how it's a healthy relationship.

I don't want to tell you what to do, but I would reassure you that YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. You don't need to prove yourself anymore. And I can also assure you that no matter what you do, he will still manage to find some flaws and doubt you. It's a typical behavior we see in some partners. You deserve peace, love, and above all, to be trusted.

Best Wishes.

Ans: You would have got this discipline based on your scores or preference. Best of too circle with your college on making this change.

While the names are different, there will be comman subjects.

One more option for you is to work hard, score good marks and at the end of year 1 at the polytechnic apply for admission to an engineering College inthe discipline you are keen on. This will take you an extra year or two but will have a degree instead of a diploma. Best of luck.

Ans: I would advise you to go look for a problem that you wish to solve. A real problem that is crying for a solution. Then fund the solution. If green technology solution can address it good to pursue that.

Problems are aplenty you have to seek them out find a solution with your capabilities and skills. Shortlist areas that match your aptitude and look for those problems.

Ans: Here's a format of the email you can use:

Subject: Resignation from [Your Position]

Dear [HR Manager's Name],

Please accept this as a notification of my resignation from my position as [Your Position] at [Company Name], effective [Last Day of Work].

I have thoroughly enjoyed my time at [Company Name] and appreciate the opportunities and experiences I have gained.

Thank you for your understanding.

Sincerely,
[Your Name]
[Your Contact Information]


Discussing Resignation with Your Manager:

When discussing your resignation with your manager, aim for a respectful and professional conversation. Here's how you can approach it:

• Be Direct and Brief: Clearly state your intention to resign and the effective date. Avoid going into lengthy explanations or dwelling on negative aspects of your role.

• Focus on the Positive: Emphasize the positive experiences and opportunities you've had at the company. This shows appreciation and maintains a professional tone.

• Avoid Giving Reasons: If you prefer not to disclose your reasons for leaving, simply state that you're pursuing a new opportunity. You don't owe your employer an explanation.

• Offer Assistance: Be willing to help with a smooth transition, such as training your replacement or completing ongoing projects. This demonstrates your professionalism and commitment to the company.

• Maintain a Positive Attitude: Even if you're leaving for reasons you're not comfortable sharing, try to maintain a positive and respectful demeanor throughout the conversation.

Dos and Don'ts:

• Do: Be polite and respectful, even if you're frustrated or disappointed.
• Do: Offer to help with the transition.
• Do: Express gratitude for the opportunities you've had.

• Don't: Badmouth the company or your colleagues.
• Don't: Get into arguments or heated discussions.
• Don't: Burn bridges by leaving on bad terms.

Remember, your resignation should be handled professionally to maintain a positive relationship with your employer and colleagues. By following these guidelines, you can have a respectful conversation and leave the company on good terms.

All the best!

Ans: Shaju, I would advise to to look for your interest, capabilities and skills. Shortlist areas that match your aptitude and look for those on job portals or internet.

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Ans: I would encourage him to look for a job which with his exceptional scores will be easy, though may take a bit of time. Let him begin, perform and higher position add salary will follow target than really for 4 years for PhD and then look for a job. While doing his job he can explore research opportunities, fellowship overseas. He should also seek advice from the senior faculty and placement director at Sastra. Wishes for an early career break.

Ans: SSN-CSE. All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Hello

Both are reputed institutions. If possible, prefer CSE @ SSN for better core computer science education and career prospects over RVCE ISE (Information Science and Engineering).

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