Hi I'm 27 years old girl preparing for Upsc exam. I left my job for preparation I have 2 years of experience in finance but I don't want to work in same field I just hated that job and that's why I started preparing for upsc thinking I would secure a post within 2 years but nothing worked according to my plan. And now I am clueless and feeling helpless how should I restart my career after a huge gap of 5 years..which field I should choose and what options are available for me.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Do yourself a huge favor by just being your age. Play a port, hang out with friends and have fun. Physical attraction without love is just LUST and that is temporary. So, you are not falling for her but falling for the idea of physical attraction towards her.
At 18, there is a certain emotional maturity; would be good for you to stick to that and grow up responsibly. Someday, you will meet someone closer to you age and who is also like-minded...wait for it!

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It is kind of strange to see your mother act like this around him. This is definitely not something usual or causal and there is something deeper than what you can see or understand.
Does you father and his brother also notice the same or are they pretending to not notice it? This could give you a good understanding of what is going on. If your father is ignoring it, then kindly ask him to take some time out and explain this to you. On your part, spend more time with your mother; take her out, shop together, show her some fun time...encourage her to pursue some hobby or educational learning classes outside of home. When she starts to feel good about herself and does things for herself, she might be able to stand up for herself and push this fellow away.

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Ans: Dear Janardhan,
She's your daughter; certainly you can talk to her about your concerns, right? And when she shares, do make sure that you LISTEN first. As parents, you can be concerned and be quick to judge the person that she has chosen to marry. But when you do that, you are only going to push her further away from you. Let her share her side first and then present your side of concerns...request her to think about it and have another discussion a few weeks later.
As a toddler when she threw a tantrum, what did you do? I am sure that you let the emotion pass, then you picked her up and showered her with affection, so that she registers that she will be loved and cared for BUT her tantrum will not be appreciated.
The situation is similar; so try to break into her world and hear her out first...I hope you understand that for logic of pros and cons to be communicated, there is a need to first accept the emotional state that she is in...

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Ans: Dear Dhruv,
The easiest way to feel better when a relationship is failing is to get into another one. Searching for what you want in the original relationship cannot be found anywhere else; so giving into that temptation is only going to make things more confusing.
So, if you still love your wife and want to make it work, what have the two of you done so far to make things work?
Working on the marriage is a task that needs effort and a certain kind of stubborn nature that will help you cross over the the challenges that can emerge.
Your marriage now requires a complete RESET. So, push that button and go back to where it all began; no baggage, no expectations, no complaining...When you accept a situation, then do so fully...you can't have children; if you have accepted it then what's the reason to move apart. It only suggests that it was a compromise and not an acceptance.
Understand that acceptance is being graceful about the situation and being supportive of one another. Begin life afresh; date one another...laugh together, do things together. Bring back the little joys and bigger goals for marriage and life...
And most importantly, be in complete support of one another! That hidden love that you both share needs to be watered and nurtured even more...

All the best!
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Ans: Hello Binod.
Can you give me an example where I have answered in this way? If so, I have to check it again. But considering %tile + Category, we are suggesting/replying. But surely I can say with 88% no chance to get NIT under oC and with 95 %tile, one can get admission to NITs if one belongs to some special category. The admission is based on so many criteria and varies year by year. I hope you are satisfied with the reply. Yet, if you have asked me the question, then please ask it again in the follow-up section so that I can understand it clearly and if there is any mistake, then I will try to rectify it. After all, there are human errors, that can happen at any time.

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Ans: Hello Ananu
Chance is there to get admission to one of the NITs and that too Electrical branch. Best of luck.
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Ans: Hello Anamika
Under OC, he can get admission to one of the IIITs. Best of luck to your son.

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Ans: Hi Priya!

Wonderful to know that you are project manager and you want to improve your digital presence.

Body language is like learning any other language. It requires proper teaching, learning and then practicing the same to master it.

After the start of the work from home culture, taking care to present yourself well digitally has become very important.

It is important that you take care of your clothes, hair, make up, how much of you is visible, your backdrop, the angle of your camera, the use of your hands, the facial expressions, the voice modulation( so that ppl listen when you speak), you developing listening skills..... there is so much to learn.

I really cannot write here and teach you... this is all about showing you how to create your aura digitally.

This is my website..https://transformme.co.in/
Do get in touch to learn to create you amazing presence digitally.

Best wishes!!

Ans: Hello Sunil!!

I am doing great, thank you for asking, God bless you!

I can totally understand when you say you are worried.

Your son is 12.5, he will soon be a teenager. There will be different challenges, I want you to read up on parenting a teenager and be ready to handle him well.

The problem as I see it is that everyone of you, his teachers included have made studies like a burden for him.... and subjected the young child to a lot of anxiety, he just wants to run away form it....
"Every teacher from his kindergarten days upto now has the same complaint that he is doesn't pay attention in class".... this statement of yours... it is the teacher's duty to ensure the child listens to him/her, how can she start labeling a child like this. From a young age your son has been conditioned to believe that he is not not good in studies, he doesn't focus and he doesn't sit in one place. All my sympathies are with your son...every child comes with immense potential and it's our duty as parents and teachers to nurture the child.

The following is what I propose so that we bring him back to loving to learn ( not score marks, that should never be the barometer)-
1. Love your child the way he is now
2. Give him lot of positive strokes
3. Have one on one sessions for any activity you plan for him... let him choose the activity, empower him
4. choose a teacher, who can get along with him and help him develop a positive attitude towards studies and life in general
5. look for a school where they nurture him... not just a reputed one...less number of students and a teacher who is invested in her/ his students,

If you can connect with me, I can help him. Have had many a students in this kind situation.
This is my website..
https://transformme.co.in/

Loads of best wishes to the whole family..