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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Mar 27, 2023

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Dipanwita Question by Dipanwita on Mar 27, 2023English
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हेलो मैम... मैं 2 साल तक एक लड़के के साथ रिलेशनशिप में थी लेकिन उन दो सालों तक उसने मुझे ब्लैकमेल किया और धमकाया और ब्रेकअप के बाद भी ऐसा किया। वह लगभग हर दिन मेरे परिचितों को फोन करता है और मेरे बारे में पूछता है। अगर उसे मेरे बारे में कोई भी जानकारी मिली तो वह मुझे ब्लैकमेल और धमकाता रहेगा। मुझे एक और लड़का पसंद था भले ही मैंने उससे बात नहीं की लेकिन मुझे इतना डर ​​लगता है कि अगर ब्लैकमेल करने वाले लड़के ने फोन करके मेरे बारे में कुछ पूछा और यह लड़का कुछ कह देगा तो मैं क्या करूंगी?

Ans: प्रिय दीपनविता,
और आप डर से भरा जीवन जीना चाहते हैं? डर ही वह चीज़ है जो इन लड़कों/पुरुषों को इस तरह की बदमाशी और ब्लैकमेलिंग करने के लिए प्रेरित करती है। कृपया मामले की सूचना अपने परिवार को दें (बिना किसी डर के)। हां, रिश्ते में रहने के कारण वे आपसे नाराज हो सकते हैं लेकिन निश्चित रूप से वे आपकी रक्षा के लिए आपका समर्थन करेंगे।
यदि वे किसी महिला रिश्तेदार से संपर्क नहीं करते हैं जो आपको एक एनजीओ के बारे में मार्गदर्शन कर सकता है, जो पुलिस शिकायत में आपकी मदद करेगा।
अपने फोन/ईमेल/टेक्स्ट चैट आदि पर उसके सभी धमकी भरे संदेशों का रिकॉर्ड रखें। इससे पुलिस को उसे पकड़ने में भी मदद मिल सकती है। उसे वापस धमकी न दें बल्कि पर्याप्त जानकारी एकत्र करें क्योंकि वह आपको धमकी देता है और ब्लैकमेल करता है। इसे ख़त्म करने का समय आ गया है. इसलिए दूसरे रिश्ते में कूदने के बजाय, कृपया पिछले रिश्ते को ख़त्म कर दें। और कृपया, एक से दूसरे की ओर जाने के बजाय अपने भीतर अपनी खुशी खोजने के लिए खुद को थोड़ा समय दें। मैं यह सिर्फ इसलिए कह रहा हूं क्योंकि किसी ने डर के कारण आपके दिमाग के साथ खिलवाड़ किया है और इसे दूर करने की जरूरत है। मजबूत बनें और खुद पर ध्यान दें. शांतिपूर्ण और सुखी जीवन का श्रेय आप पर है!

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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 12, 2024

Asked by Anonymous - Aug 12, 2024
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Hi mam.I had one year relationship with a boy which we have already decided to be temporary as we are not into marriage.After a year am engaged to somebody and now he is blackmailing me with our pictures that he will share to our family members and my fiancee to stop this marriage.I have been in this trauma from the past 4 months and every day he is blackmailing me regarding the marriage.I am from orthodox family.Please help me how to deal with this.I feel suicidal and tried to take my life for two times.
Ans: it's important to focus on your safety and well-being. The first thing you should do is reach out to someone you trust, like a close friend, family member, or a counselor. You don't have to face this situation alone, and having someone to talk to can make a big difference.

It's crucial to consider taking legal action because blackmail is illegal. You have the right to protect yourself, and contacting the police or a legal advisor can help you stop this person's actions. If you're hesitant to go to the police, there are non-governmental organizations (NGOs) that specialize in helping women in situations like yours, and they can offer guidance and support.

Make sure to document everything, including all the messages, threats, and any evidence of his blackmailing. This will be important if you decide to take legal action. After you've gathered the necessary evidence, it might be a good idea to block him on all platforms to protect your mental health. It's important to cut off communication with someone who is causing you harm.

If you feel comfortable, you might want to consider discussing this situation with your fiancé. Being honest about what's happening could prevent the blackmailer from using it as leverage against you. A supportive partner can be an essential ally during this difficult time.

Ensure that you have a plan for your safety, which could involve changing your daily routines, informing someone close to you about the situation, and knowing who to contact in case of an emergency. Considering that you've mentioned having suicidal thoughts, it's crucial to seek professional mental health support immediately. There are people who care about you and want to help you through this challenging time.

Your life and safety are the most important things right now. Please don't hesitate to reach out for the help you need, and remember that you don't have to go through this alone.

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Career Counsellor - Answered on Jun 11, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jun 11, 2025
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Sir MNIT Jaipur AI and Data science vs NIT jamshedpur CSE Vs MNNIT Allahabad ECE what should I choose.I Am from Rajshthan. Or take drop for IIT next year
Ans: Choosing Between MNIT Jaipur (AI & Data Science), NIT Jamshedpur (CSE), and MNNIT Allahabad (ECE):

1. Understanding the Branches:
AI & Data Science (MNIT Jaipur):
A fast-growing field with rising demand, though its future is still evolving. Best if you're passionate about AI and strong in programming.

CSE (NIT Jamshedpur):
A well-established and highly sought-after branch with excellent job prospects. Ideal if you want broader career options and strong placements.

ECE (MNNIT Allahabad):
Offers a solid foundation in electronics and communication, with flexibility to move into software roles if you're willing to learn programming on your own.

2. College Highlights:
MNIT Jaipur:
Good reputation, balanced college life, and decent placements.

NIT Jamshedpur:
Known for excellent CSE placements and a strong coding environment.

MNNIT Allahabad:
Has a very active coding culture and great placement track record, especially in CSE.

3. What to Consider:
Placements:
CSE at NIT Jamshedpur and MNNIT Allahabad usually offers the best salary packages.

Coding Culture:
MNNIT Allahabad and NIT Jamshedpur both have vibrant and supportive coding communities.

Campus Life:
MNIT Jaipur has a lively campus in a better city setting. Allahabad is quieter, and the city isn’t as happening.

Faculty & Facilities:
All three colleges have solid infrastructure and good faculty support.

4. Match with Your Interests:
If you enjoy coding:
Go for CSE at MNNIT Allahabad or NIT Jamshedpur.

If you're passionate about AI/Data Science:
MNIT Jaipur’s program could be a great fit — especially if you're ready to explore this emerging field.

If you’re open to ECE with plans to shift to software later:
MNNIT Allahabad’s ECE can work well if you’re self-motivated.

5. Final Advice:
For top placements & coding focus:
Choose CSE at MNNIT Allahabad or NIT Jamshedpur.

For balanced campus life & decent placements:
Consider MNIT Jaipur, especially if choosing between CSE and AI/Data Science.

For long-term AI/DS interest:
MNIT Jaipur’s AI/Data Science is a good pick if you're truly enthusiastic and willing to upskill.

For flexibility via ECE:
MNNIT Allahabad’s ECE can still open doors to software roles, provided you put in extra effort.

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