Hi mam Mam meri best friend ne mujhe chod Diya kyu ki main uski tarh nahi thi vo chahti thi ki main apne andr ego leka auu jb usne mujhe bola ki apne bf ko block maar d baat MTT kr toh mana aisa nahi kiya because it's difficult to me so she said main asi friendship mein ni rehna chahti jhn meri baat sun k ignore kr de merko disrespect kra uske baad mana use sorry bola sb thik kiya vo mujhe arrogance dikhane lgi rude behave krne lgi ignore krti thi bhuut toxic battein krti thi Jo ab mersa nahi tolerate hora h mam main kya kru?

Ans: Dear Anchal,
Ab tolerate nahin ho raha, toh is baat ko dimaag mein leke apne aap ko pareshaan karna chahti ho. Ek saccha dost wohi hota hai joh binaa kaaran ya matlab ke judta hai. Ab yeh condition daalke ki woh joh bole agar aapne maana nahin toh woh naaraaz ho jaayegi; yeh koi dosti nahin hui na. Agar usne bola bhi hai ki tumhe apne BF ko block kar dena chahiye, toh koi kaaran toh dena chahiye tha na...uske baad bhi yeh faislaa aapke hai ki aap kya karna chahte ho aur us faisle ko respect karna hi padega use.
Agar ab woh toxic aur rude ban rahi hai. toh yeh jaan le ki aage se uski demands badhti hi jaayegi aur binaa matlab ke stress leke aapko ghoomna padega usko khush karne ke liye. Isiliye jab tak woh apna bartaav badal na de, aap thods usse door hi rahiye.
Khulke jeene ko hi jeena kehte hai aur yeh jeena kisika mohtaaj nahin.

All the best!