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नमस्ते मेरा एक बॉयफ्रेंड है, वह शादी करना चाहता है लेकिन मैं अभी तैयार नहीं हूं मुझे क्या करना चाहिए?

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,

शादी के लिए तैयार न होना ठीक है. लेकिन आपको अपने साथी के साथ ऐसा व्यवहार नहीं करना चाहिए और उसे यह विश्वास नहीं दिलाना चाहिए कि आप जल्द ही किसी भी समय शादी करने वाले हैं। आप कैसा महसूस कर रहे हैं, इस बारे में अपने साथी के साथ स्पष्ट चर्चा करें और यह पता लगाने में अपना समय लें कि आप अपने साथी के साथ एक ही स्तर पर क्यों नहीं हैं - तैयार महसूस न करने की चिंताएँ, भय और कारण। यह महत्वपूर्ण है कि आप पहले अपनी भावनाओं के बारे में स्पष्ट हों ताकि आप अपने रिश्ते को नुकसान पहुंचाए बिना अपने साथी को अपना दृष्टिकोण बेहतर ढंग से समझा सकें।

याद रखें, आपकी भावनाएँ वैध हैं और किसी को भी प्रतिबद्धता में जल्दबाजी नहीं करनी चाहिए, खासकर शादी जैसी महत्वपूर्ण बात पर।

शुभकामनाएं।

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आप नीचे ऐसेही प्रश्न और उत्तर देखना पसंद कर सकते हैं

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 06, 2024English

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मैं 18 साल की हूँ और मेरा बॉयफ्रेंड 28 साल का है। मैं एक स्टूडेंट हूँ और मेरे बहुत सारे सपने हैं, लेकिन मेरे बॉयफ्रेंड के घर वाले चाहते हैं कि वह एक साल से पहले शादी कर ले और बच्चे पैदा कर ले, लेकिन मैं अभी तैयार नहीं हूँ, मुझे नहीं पता मुझे क्या करना चाहिए, वह कह रहा है कि वह केवल 3 साल इंतजार कर सकता है, लेकिन उसके माता-पिता नहीं कर सकते, लेकिन मेरे पास एक जिंदगी है, लेकिन मुझे खुश रहना पसंद है, वह खुश है, मुझे क्या करना चाहिए, क्या मुझे इसी साल शादी करने के लिए राजी हो जाना चाहिए या उसे हमेशा के लिए याद करना चाहिए?

Ans: प्रिय अनाम,

मैं आपके लिए निर्णय नहीं ले सकता, लेकिन अपने सपनों को अपने रिश्ते से ज़्यादा प्राथमिकता देना ज़रूरी है। खुद से पूछें, अगर आप अपने सपनों का पीछा करते हैं और थोड़ी देर से शादी करते हैं, तो क्या इससे किसी को दुख होगा? इसके बाद, खुद से पूछें, अगर आप शादी कर लेते हैं और तुरंत बच्चे पैदा कर लेते हैं, तो क्या आप कभी अपने सपनों को फिर से हासिल कर पाएंगे? एक बार जब आप इन सवालों का ईमानदारी से जवाब देंगे, तो मुझे लगता है कि आपको पता चल जाएगा कि क्या चुनना है।

शुभकामनाएँ।

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Question by Zeenat - Jan 08, 2025English

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मैं उसके साथ 5 साल से रिलेशनशिप में हूं और मैं किसी और से शादी करना चाहती हूं। लेकिन दिक्कत यह है कि वह अपने परिवार में सबसे छोटा बेटा है या फिर घर में मैं हूं। मेरी शादी के 2 साल बाद मेरे माता-पिता किसी और से शादी कर देंगे। क्योंकि उसके भी दो भाई-बहन हैं, उनकी शादी पहले हो जाएगी और मेरे बॉयफ्रेंड की शादी बाद में होगी, 5 या 6 साल बाद मेरे पास समय कम है या उसके पास भी कोई विकल्प नहीं है, वह मुझसे शादी कर सकता है लेकिन 5 या साल बाद। लेकिन मेरे पास समय कम है क्योंकि मैं लड़की हूं (घर की बड़ी बेटी), अब मुझे क्या करना चाहिए?

Ans: प्रिय मैम, मैं समझ सकता हूँ कि आप अपने जीवन में कुछ समस्याओं से गुज़र रही हैं, लेकिन मैं आपकी समस्या को समझने में असमर्थ हूँ क्योंकि आपने जो पैराग्राफ लिखा है उसमें कुछ व्याकरण संबंधी गलतियाँ हैं। मैं आपसे अनुरोध करता हूँ कि कृपया अपना प्रश्न फिर से लिखें और फिर से भेजें।

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Hello I am a 4th year mbbs student in Tbilisi Georgia, I am an Indian citizen and I wish to persue pg programs in Dubai, what are the necessary things I need to keep in mind what exams should I start to prepare for, as of now I will be preparing for NEXT as FMGE (Indian exam)will be replaced via NEXT.

Ans: Hi Chitanya,
Why do you prefer pursuing postgraduate medicine in Dubai?
What advantages does it have over other countries?
Regardless, you will still need to prepare for language requirements and eligibility exams.
Instead, you could consider other countries like the UK or Australia, which offer numerous benefits such as a diverse patient population and advanced technology.
Postgraduate education is a crucial step in your career, and the number of institutions in Dubai is relatively limited, which could impact the level of expertise available.
I’ve not heard that Dubai is suitable for medical tourism, but I'm not entirely convinced. If that’s the case, it might be beneficial.
However, I would suggest considering India or, if not, opting for other countries for your postgraduate studies.
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Suggest me for getting any specific nit with suitable branch except civil engineering with ews rank of 25396 and crl rank of 175000??

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With your EWS rank of 25,396 and CRL rank of 175,000, there are fewer chances to get admission to NITs in any branch under the mentioned category with the mentioned CRL. But you can try under the state quota at some NITs. Participate in the state-level counseling for more promising branches. To avoid Civil, you may try for Metallurgical, Materials Engineering or Production Engineering. You can consider good private colleges accepting JEE Main scores.
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Sir, NRI daughter had LTCG income in FY23-24 and IT returns was filed in ITR-2 as per rules. In FY24-25 there is no taxable income and there is no LTCG also. In such a case, filing may not be required but she would like to file just to recover the small but atrocious deductions made in the SB account.. My query is which ITR form is to be used in this case? In case if ITR-2 is not required, is there anything wrong in using ITR-2 itself?

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