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Kookigirl Question by Kookigirl on May 13, 2025
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Hi mam My bf warning me after our breakup he have my vedios and photo is leaked dont blame him.. What should i do and i don't want to invove my family into this..

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am really sorry you are going through such a tough time. What your ex is doing is emotional abuse and threatening to leak someone’s private pictures without their consent is also a criminal offense. I am assuming you do not want to involve your family in this matter yet– in that case, you must learn how to protect yourself. First of all, keep evidence of the threats he is making- screenshots, call records, etc. Second, let him know that in India, this is a criminal offense and you are ready to go all out if he decides to leak anything without your consent. You can also either report to cyber crime confidentially or at the very least, tell him that you are considering doing the same. Next, make sure to sever all ties. In most cases, these are empty threats to keep people under control. If he can’t contact you, he can’t threaten you. Lastly, consider informing someone you trust. And most importantly, do not ever think you are helpless. You might fear involving family, but in your worst times, family is the biggest pillar of strength. If things go too far, consider informing your family as well.

Hope these help.

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हे मैम कृपया मेरी मदद करें। मेरा पूर्व प्रेमी मुझे यह कहकर ब्लैकमेल कर रहा है कि वह हमारी तस्वीरें मेरे पिताजी को दिखाएगा और मेरे पिताजी को फोन करके हमारे बारे में सब कुछ बता देगा। मेरे पिताजी बहुत सख्त हैं. वह मुझे कभी नहीं छोड़ेगा, मैं बहुत डरी हुई हूं, क्या करूं??
Ans: प्रिय नेहा,
जब ब्लैकमेलिंग की बात आती है, तो मेरा सुझाव है कि कृपया अपने पिता को भी इसमें शामिल करें। वह जानते हैं कि अपनी बेटी की सुरक्षा कैसे करनी है और वह ऐसा करेंगे।' लेकिन अगर आप सहज महसूस नहीं करते हैं या आप अजीब महसूस करते हैं, तो परिवार के किसी ऐसे सदस्य पर भरोसा करें जो इस 'रेंगने वाले' से निपटने के लिए पर्याप्त बूढ़ा हो, जो निश्चित रूप से इस सब से छुटकारा पाता है। यदि वह कम उम्र का है, तो उसके अंदर कुछ समझदारी जगाने के लिए उसके माता-पिता को शामिल करना होगा और यदि वह वयस्क है, तो पुलिस उसे चेतावनी देकर उसकी जगह पर रख सकती है।
डरना मत। इस तरह के ढोंगी कमजोर होते हैं और बस उन लड़कियों को अपना शिकार बनाते हैं जो उनके दबाव में बिखर जाती हैं। साहसपूर्वक मोर्चा संभालें...इसके अलावा, कभी भी अकेले में उससे बात न करें या उससे अकेले न मिलें। अपने सभी टेक्स्ट संदेशों का रिकॉर्ड रखें और भविष्य में किसी भी ध्वनि वार्तालाप को रिकॉर्ड करें। यह उसे बार-बार पीछे धकेलने में मदद करेगा: डरो मत... अपने भीतर की शक्ति महसूस करना उस तक पहुंच जाएगा और वह जल्दबाजी करने से पहले सोचेगा... कृपया जल्द से जल्द परिवार के किसी बड़े सदस्य को शामिल करें...

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 09, 2024English
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हैलो...कृपया मेरी मदद करें...मैं 4 साल तक किसी के साथ थी। मैंने सबकुछ बर्दाश्त किया। गाली-गलौज, थप्पड़...घरेलू हिंसा और दुर्व्यवहार सब कुछ था...और इन सबके बाद मैंने उससे कह दिया कि मैं अब उसके साथ नहीं रहना चाहती...और 2-3 महीने बाद मैं किसी और के साथ थी...उसके साथ सब कुछ खत्म हो गया...और अब वह आ रहा है और कह रहा है कि वह हमारे निजी चित्र मेरे माता-पिता को दिखाएगा...अब मुझे क्या करना चाहिए...कृपया सुझाव दें...मेरे माता-पिता बहुत सख्त हैं...
Ans: प्रिय अनाम,
वास्तव में अपने माता-पिता को शामिल करने का समय आ गया है। वे बहुत सख्त हो सकते हैं लेकिन वे आपके माता-पिता हैं और ब्लैकमेल की इस स्थिति से निपटने में आपकी मदद कर पाएंगे। इसे बहुत सावधानी से और डर के साथ नहीं निपटा जाना चाहिए और इसके लिए किसी बड़े व्यक्ति की आवश्यकता होगी जो तर्कसंगत रूप से सोच सके कि पुलिस के पास अभी जाना है या बाद में। कृपया अपने माता-पिता को जल्द से जल्द शामिल करें।

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 29, 2024
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Hi mam please help me. My ex boyfriend nd i were in a long distance relationship. He lives in canada nd we used to vc but one day that vc turned out something else as you can understand he told me that he'll not take any screenshot or screen record anything but he still did that and now after breakup he's sending me those screenshots nd screen recording ???? nd telling me that he'll not share with anyone but i still don't trust him now ???? what should i do .. due to this pressure I'm simply going down day by day
Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I understand that it is a difficult situation for you. I would suggest a few ways you can protect yourself-
If you think he will not share the pictures unless provoked, do not engage with him any further. Avoid responding and try not to give him control over the situation.

Keep screenshots of his messages where he discusses the pictures. In case he starts threatening you, you can let him know that you are not afraid to approach the authorities with valid proof against him. This way, you will have control over the situation.

Let him know that in both India and Canada, distributing images without consent is illegal.

Speak to your trusted friends and family members. Remember, as scared as you might be, you can always share things with your parents. They would be more worried about your mental health and safety than be disappointed over the matter. Understand that you can always reach out to them, especially when you have your back against the wall.

After you have gathered all the evidence you need to prove that he has been harassing you with non-consented pictures, block him. Engaging with him will allow this person to manipulate you or make him believe he has the upper hand.

Lastly, don't be afraid. He might think he is doing this out of love, but he is, essentially, a bully. Do not give him the power to play with your mental peace.

Hope everything works out soon.

Best Wishes.

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Dear experts, Is CGAS account mandatory to open even if the entire amount realized during selling of a land is reinvested into buying a new residential home before the ITR filing date of the financial year in which the land was sold? Can a normal fixed deposit be done, given that the home will be purchsed before the ITR due date, or the amount kept in the savings account only in which it was originally received? When CGAS account is really needed? And if the land is inherited, is fair market value (FMV) certificate mandatory during tax filing? Warm Regards.
Ans: Capital Gains and CGAS can confuse many. You’ve clearly understood key parts already. That’s a good start. Let’s look into the entire situation, part by part.

We will explore the rules, your options, and how to avoid mistakes. This will give you a complete 360-degree clarity from tax, legal and compliance angles.

 
 
1. When Capital Gains Account Scheme (CGAS) Becomes Mandatory

CGAS is not needed in all cases.
 
 

You must deposit in CGAS only if home purchase is delayed.
 
 

If you reinvest before ITR due date, CGAS is not compulsory.
 
 

You can reinvest directly in the new house.
 
 

Keep proofs of payments, builder receipts and registry.
 
 

This is allowed even if amount is not kept in CGAS.
 
 

Fixed Deposit or savings account is fine in such case.
 
 

But all reinvestment should happen before the ITR due date.
 
 

If even part of it remains, then CGAS is mandatory for balance.
 
 

So, CGAS is only a backup rule, not the first step.
 
 
2. Can Fixed Deposit or Savings Account Be Used Instead?

Yes, if you use the full sale amount in time.
 
 

There is no restriction to keep the sale money in a bank FD.
 
 

Even savings account can be used till reinvestment.
 
 

But do not mix that account with other funds.
 
 

It should be clearly seen that the money was from land sale.
 
 

Keep trail of cheque/RTGS and amount received in bank.
 
 

Use the same account for property payment preferably.
 
 

Attach documents to your tax file as proof of usage.
 
 

So, a separate CGAS account is not required if home is bought on time.
 
 
3. Real Timing for CGAS Requirement

Let’s say land is sold in FY 2024–25.
 
 

ITR filing due date is 31st July 2025 (for most individuals).
 
 

If you do not reinvest before 31st July 2025, then CGAS is needed.
 
 

You must deposit remaining capital gains before that date.
 
 

Otherwise, the capital gain becomes taxable.
 
 

After that, you can buy the home within two years.
 
 

Or construct the home within three years.
 
 

But tax exemption applies only if CGAS rules are followed.
 
 

So, CGAS gives you extra time, but with some process to follow.
 
 
4. What Happens If You Don’t Open CGAS?

If no reinvestment is done and no CGAS is opened,
 
 

Then you lose the exemption under the capital gains rules.
 
 

The gain will be treated as long-term capital gain.
 
 

You will need to pay tax on it.
 
 

Keeping money in FD or savings account won’t save tax after deadline.
 
 

Tax will be calculated as per rules and payable with interest.
 
 

So, if you're not ready to reinvest, then open CGAS on time.
 
 
5. For Inherited Land – Is Fair Market Value (FMV) Mandatory?

Yes, FMV is required for inherited property.
 
 

FMV as on 1st April 2001 must be calculated.
 
 

This becomes your cost of acquisition.
 
 

Without FMV, your gain will look artificially high.
 
 

That will lead to more tax than needed.
 
 

FMV must be from a registered valuer.
 
 

Use this valuation during capital gain working.
 
 

Keep valuation certificate with your documents.
 
 

It is not submitted with return, but can be asked later.
 
 

So yes, FMV certificate is very important in your case.
 
 
6. Points to Remember for Reinvestment and Tax Filing

Always try to reinvest before the ITR filing due date.
 
 

Keep documents ready – sale deed, purchase deed, payment proof.
 
 

Mention exemption under the correct capital gains section in ITR.
 
 

File ITR with details of both sale and new purchase.
 
 

If any delay is there, deposit in CGAS before 31st July.
 
 

Open CGAS with a scheduled bank only.
 
 

Withdraw money from CGAS only for house purchase or construction.
 
 

Do not withdraw for other purposes. That makes it taxable.
 
 

Proper filing avoids notices and problems later.
 
 
7. Should You Do CGAS Deposit Early Just in Case?

If you're unsure about home purchase date, CGAS is a safe backup.
 
 

You can withdraw later for the purchase purpose.
 
 

But if you're confident about timing, no need to open CGAS.
 
 

Avoid unnecessary paperwork if not required.
 
 

So, CGAS is useful, but not needed if timing is right.
 
 
8. Role of a Certified Financial Planner in Such Cases

Tax planning around property needs correct steps.
 
 

A Certified Financial Planner helps track timelines and rules.
 
 

You get full support for investment, taxation, compliance and reinvestment.
 
 

A CFP can also coordinate with CA or legal expert.
 
 

They also help with ITR and property documentation.
 
 

It removes the guesswork and avoids last-minute issues.
 
 

Guided help gives better peace of mind.
 
 
Finally

You are handling a serious matter with clarity and awareness. That’s a strong foundation. You do not need to open a CGAS account if the home is fully bought before the ITR due date. You can keep money in your savings account or fixed deposit during this time. Just make sure the home is purchased and payment is completed before the filing date.

If not, deposit balance gains in CGAS to save tax. FMV is also required for inherited land. Get a certified valuer’s report. Use this in capital gain computation. This avoids tax mistakes.

Stick to timelines. Keep clear records. Plan your reinvestment wisely. Work with a Certified Financial Planner if needed for execution and follow-through.

 
 

Best Regards,
 
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP
 
Chief Financial Planner,
 
www.holisticinvestment.in
 
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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