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Avinash Question by Avinash on May 20, 2025
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Sir my son got 73 percent in 12th standard & scored 77 percentile in jee mains . I am from UP . kindly suggest what should he do

Ans: Avinash Sir, With 77 percentile in JEE Mains, target private engineering colleges and participate in UP state counseling. Admission to NITs/IIITs is unlikely for general category, but possible in some low-demand branches for reserved categories. Apply widely, keep options open for branches, and prioritize colleges with strong placement records. All the best for your son's admissions and a bright future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 02, 2025
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My son got 88.7 percentile in b arch jee mains what are his possible options
Ans: With an 88.7 percentile in JEE Main B.Arch, your son’s rank approximates 30,000–40,000, positioning him for state-level architecture colleges and mid-tier private institutions. Admission to premier NITs (e.g., NIT Trichy, Calicut) is unlikely, as their 2024 General category closing ranks ranged from 404–1,540. However, newer NITs like NIT Sikkim (2024 closing rank: 14,391) and NIT Arunachal Pradesh (15,386) are feasible, offering 70–80% placement rates in roles with firms like TCS and L&T. State colleges via UPTAC (e.g., HBTU Kanpur, cutoff: ~35,000) or Chandigarh College of Architecture (2024 closing rank: 5,430) provide viable pathways with regional industry linkages. For private universities, SRM Chennai (JEE Main cutoff: ~80,000–100,000) and VIT Vellore (~90,000) offer assured admission, albeit with higher fees. Recommendation: Prioritize NIT Sikkim/Arunachal Pradesh during JoSAA counselling and explore state colleges like KNIT Sultanpur or SPA Bhopal (2024 closing rank: 762). For backups, consider Amity University or Sharda University, which accept JEE Main scores and report 80–85% placement rates in architectural firms. If open to alternative exams, reappearing for NATA could expand options to institutes like CEPT Ahmedabad or JJ College of Architecture, which prioritize design aptitude over JEE ranks. All the BEST for your Son's Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 19, 2025
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Why do men ghost after sex? I met this amazing guy on Hinge. He was 27, well-mannered, and worked in a data firm in Mumbai. We spoke daily for three months and had amazing chemistry. From music to food, we discussed everything under the sun. We went on a couple of dates to get to know each other. When we got comfortable, we got intimate and eventually had consensual s** at his friend's house party. One week after we got intimate, he just vanished. No replies, no calls. It was my first time, so I kept wondering if I had done something wrong to upset him. My friend says it could be post-intimacy guilt. But I feel embarrassed, ashamed. I can't shake off the shame. Did I move too fast? Is this how dating works now? How can I go back to feeling normal again?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am really sorry you are going through this. What happened is just as confusing as it is hurtful. Let’s get one thing straight, you did nothing wrong. You are not at fault here. Nothing you could’ve done or said should or could cause this reaction.
Coming to your first question, it is very difficult to answer it without generalizing all men. But some of the most reasons for this could be:
He got what he wanted. It sounds crass but in most cases, this is the truth. He had no intentions of being more than just that.
He might be avoiding responsibility. He didn’t want more, and the mature thing would have been to sit down and have that discussion with you. But, maturity isn’t easy and he chose the easy route, that is to ghost. His decision to disappear is a reflection of his nature, not yours.
Coming to what your friend said, it could be that too, but the chances are slim. Some men do feel overwhelmed but disappearing for over a week is a stretch. Again, it’s his unreadiness to feel so many emotions, not yours.
Now, I want to gently nudge you towards one thing: you said you feel ashamed. Shame creeps in when you hold yourself accountable for someone else’s actions. And also due to societal prejudice. Keep both aside, and you have nothing to be ashamed of. Did you move too fast? To be honest, there is no fast or slow in these things. There’s no set timeline. You did what you felt was right in the moment. And you were ready to step up, but he went MIA. The entire unfortunate turnout is not because of your pace but his lack of respect. Even if he comes up with a good enough reason for this disappearing act, I still want you to remember that not even for a second, you had anything to create this situation.


I hope this helps.

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