I want to get over him. I met him 2 years back but we have not in relationship it kind of situationship and I'm so obsessed with him

Ans: Let it go... Start seeing more people. Love yourself. You don't need anyone else . You are enough.

Ans: Dear Snigdha

Getting over someone can be challenging, but sometimes it can help to think outside the box and try new things to help move on.


Write a letter to yourself: Write a letter to yourself, as if you were writing to a close friend, offering words of encouragement and advice. This can help you gain perspective and remind yourself of your own strengths and resilience.
Create a breakup playlist: Make a playlist of songs that help you feel empowered, uplifted, and motivated. Listen to it whenever you need a boost of energy or inspiration.
Try a new hobby: Engage in a new activity that you’ve always wanted to try, such as painting, photography, or rock climbing. This can help you focus your energy on something positive and give you a sense of accomplishment.
Get a makeover: Try a new hairstyle or experiment with a different fashion style. Changing your physical appearance can help boost your confidence and make you feel more positive about yourself.
Volunteer: Engage in volunteer work or community service. Helping others can be a great way to gain perspective, connect with others, and feel good about yourself.
Create a vision board: Create a vision board with images and quotes that inspire you and reflect your goals and aspirations. This can help you stay focused on your own growth and development, rather than dwelling on the past.
Practice self-compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and compassion. Practice self-care and engage in activities that make you feel good.
Seek professional help: If you're having difficulty moving on, consider seeking the help of a therapist or counselor. They can provide you with tools and techniques to help you cope with your emotions and move forward.

Remember that getting over someone takes time, and there is no one “right” way to do it. Be kind to yourself, try new things, and keep moving forward.

Ans: There are 2 ways to live - Hold onto your past or move on.

You have to make a decision to move on.

Now you have to realise that you are responsible for majority of your emotions on a daily basis. It doesn't stem from your boyfriend. So you have to learn to build your own eco system of positive emotions.

Then, you start dating different guys, until you find someone you like. And you' will. Be more open and meet more guys.

Ans: if its a break up you are going through, it takes time to move on - you will go through phases like anger, jealousy, blame game, sadness etc - it can take a few weeks to a few months...take care