Mam, I am retired father in law and financial well off. My son got married five years back. It is arranged marriage through matrimony. My son and daughter in law are both post degree qualified and well placed and staying with us. We tried asking for some money from both of them for monthly family expenses after two years of marriage which daughter in law refused and said you want dowry in this form, she record conversations, threat us of stree mukti, of police complaint , object our daughter visiting our place, blames us etc. Very often, she fight with her husband as well. We are only in reactive mode every time and accommodate her. Nowadays, she has started demanding the money spent by her mother in marriage and frequently leave our house and stay with her mother. We are afraid that she does not fake complain and harrasss us. Does not have any respect to relation, relatives, isolated /self centric, high ego and make other irritate type of personality, thinks of herself, does not believe that there is world outside. Please advise.

Ans: HI Jagrav,
No. I am not using CHATGPT.
I used to prepare what I wanted to communicate, and then I would rephrase it. If you are referring to rephrasing, that might be the case. However, I am not using ChatGPT; there are many platforms available. I do not respond with one-word answers because that would affect the readers' understanding. I need to elaborate, and to do that, I must use some tools.

The current generation tends to give one-word answers, but that is not possible for me. As a teacher, I need to provide detailed explanations. Similarly, when writing an article for publication, I prepare an outline to capture the main ideas. Once I have the essence of what I want to say, I will use a platform to rephrase it. After rephrasing, I must check for plagiarism; if there are more than 20% similarities, I will need to alter it again. I have become accustomed to this process.

The reason we use these tools is that, as you know, English is not my native language. My mother tongue often interferes with how I respond to queries. I know many of my students use platforms like ChatGPT and Quillbot to gather information. Unfortunately, they tend to submit their work without further analysis, which can make them lazy. They think the task is complete, but that is not true; ChatGPT does not analyze in depth.

Additionally, I prepare, review, and administer multiple-choice questions for competitive exams. In this context, I must utilize Bloom's Taxonomy. When using this method, I need to rephrase questions to ensure clarity for the students taking the exam, as otherwise, it may take them longer to think through the questions.

That’s all.