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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 28, 2024Hindi
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My younger brother says bad things about my wife and her family but only in front of me, not my wife. My parents also don't scold him. My wife is very good and takes care of everyone in house, she thinks of my brother as her own brother. What should I do

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Kindly stand up for your wife; your younger brother may not get along well with your wife or not like certain aspects about her but he has no right to talk behind her back and especially to you. Put an end to it so that you draw a clear boundary on this, one that he does not cross. Why are you expecting your parents to do the deed? You must step in and call out this behavior of hers as it is disrespectful to your wife. So, kindly do the needful...
Family relationships however close must have boundaries around them as they help in keeping them healthy and clear.

All the best!

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I am brought up in a middle class family where both my parents were working. I am the elder sister and I have a younger brother. Since childhood i feel that my mother has given more time and efforts towards my brother. When he asks something he gets it and when I ask I'm told that it's not required. My mother pretends that she treats both of us equal but i can feel the difference. I'm currently married with a 4 year old kid. My husband is very loving and we have a happy family. My issue now begins when my mother comes to stay/visit us. She begins pointing faults and imposing decisions on us. She does that same with my husband and he doesn't like it either. My mother wants to prove herself right even if she is wrong and will never accept her faults. She is interfering with my child's upbringing too. She will never ever behave like that with my brother. I won't deny the fact that she comes to help when I need since I have no inlaws but just because she knows that we need her she will try to dominate over us. One example is that when my child was 10 months i got a potty seat and she never let me put my kid on it saying that kid is too young and because of this my kid never sat in toilet till he turned 4 years. Another is that she used to feed my son only biscuits all the time even when I used to oppose. Also, once she fed my son ice cream when he was 1 year old and my child developed fever next day and she put blame on me saying I took him our for walk in the evening hence my child got fever. When I used silicon brush to brush my kids teeth she stopped me saying there's no need to brush before 1 month when i objected and continued doing it she blamed .e whenever my kid cried saying that his gums are hurting because you brushed his teeth. Many more such incidents where she puts blame on me and tries to prove me wrong She will almost daily try n tell me that my husband is blaming her for groceries getting over/ equipment not working etc which I know my husband does not (he is very kind hearted ) and she just keeps all this misunderstanding in her head. Many times I've clarified by talking to both of them together. Now, my husband is going out of town and again my mother will be coming. I'm fed-up of these fights n arguments but when in emergency i have to rely on her but she takes full advantage of the fact that I need her. I can't take this anymore and its affecting my mental health
Ans: Dear Leena,
I hear you!
But do allow me to give you a perspective. Relationships are never easy to maintain and manage as they involve emotions and layers through it all. Mothers can at times see their daughters as people who they need to groom for life. It's possible that your mother is doing the same thing. She has made it her sole responsibility to continue to groom you so that you earn a good name in your husband's household. This isn't me saying it, it's the way age-old beliefs could be seeping through your mother.
Now, it has become an interference and it must be conveyed to her. At first, it will hurt her and she might react to it by reminding you of all the sacrifices that she has made in order to raise you; but mind you, be steady in what you convey.
She will eventually understand that her daughter does not need to be monitored and taught to lead her life, but just needs a support system around her. Of course, there might be a withdrawal when she has to help you, but be firm on how you would like be treated from now on.
Polite yet firm is something that works well to avoid conflicts within relationships; so use that well.
Also, the differentiation between you and your brother might just be that she gives you tough love. Tough love is shown by a parent/authority figure to another in order to toughen the other person up and in severe cases it may result in submissiveness. In your case, it is likely that she has a certain belief on how boys and girls must be raised. It will change only when she changes her belief. For now, focus on creating a better environment at home by taking charge and being polite and firm with your mother.
And do know, at the end of the day, she is a mother....love sets everything right.
All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 27, 2023Hindi
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Hi Anu, My husband always takes sides of his younger brother even when he is wrong. He lives in village and I go there occasionally. Once I had a fight with his brother and he sided him, leaving me in tears. After that I stopped talking to his brother and would only communicate with him when necessary. His behaviour towards me is very disrespectful. He stopped saying hello etc. I did not react. Though he did not say anything, but his behaviour towards me is very rude and disrespctful. When I told this to my husband he said that I say so many things against his brother to him so I did not deserve his brother's respect. His brother's behaviour did not hurt me as he does not matter to me. However, my husband's taking his brother's side hurt me a lot. This has always been the case. I am unable to forgive my husband for taking his brother's side and disrespecting me. Please advise me how I can tolerate my husband and avoid the hatred thoughts from my mind.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
At times, i do ponder over whether Blood is indeed thicker than water!
Since the brother lives in the village and possibly doesn't visit your home often, the best thing is to think of him as that visitor who comes once in every while when there is an occasion at home.
How do we deal with these visitors?
Do we think of them everyday and every moment?
Are we obsessed as to how each member of the family interact with them?

So, the key for you is to treat him in your mind as that visitor and bother about him only when that occasional village trip happens or when he visits. As for what your husband does with that visitor (his brother) is solely his business and not for you to dictate or plan. Because the more you are going to demand that your husband only supports you, the more he is going to fight it and become soft with his brother.
So, now are you still going to be bothered about that visitor having hurt you in the past and rob yourself of a better time now? Think about it!

All the best!
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I am asking regarding my younger brother who is 30 YO.I see him frequently complain about our one particular female neighbour and her family who are basically tenants in one of the rented apartment in front of our house.Due to close proximity to our house,its not difficult to overhear if they talk with others standing on their balcony or turn TV or music deck sound high in their home.Few years back, somehow my brother who lives upstairs witnessed that neighbour lady mimicking my mother by copying her dialogue of how my mom stopped my brother to go out to work during COVID 19 pandemic.He says he saw her mimicking my mom in front of another neighbour lady who lives adjacent to our home with whom we used to share very good terms when their kids were school going but many years back that neighbour lady stopped interactions with my mom.It was weird because that neighbour aunty's kids used to come to our home for studying from my mom and dad who were doing free tutitions just to help neighbours kids. The issue is my brother is so much affected by that front house neighbour lady that he keeps a tab on them most of the time and keeps telling my mother how that lady mimicked her which mom asks him to stop repeating.I feel he also overheard her comments regarding him which were something like "he lives alone upstairs" etc.My brother is always telling about that neighbour lady and how she is not good and how she keeps passing comments etc.We also suspect them to be throwing stuff in our balcony frequently which contains toffees wrappers,mobile wire etc junk. My main concern is my brother who is always showing anger and displeasure to have that neighbour lady.I saw him many times looking at her home from our balcony and then he shares with mother which she dont like to hear all the time.I feel my brother is not at peace ve ause of his dislike towards our front house neighbour lady. Can you suggest regarding this situation with my brother and how we can address it?
Ans: It's understandable that your brother's feelings and concerns about the neighbor have been affecting him negatively. It's important to address the situation in a way that promotes a healthier and more peaceful environment for him. Here are some suggestions on how to handle this situation:

Encourage Open Communication: Talk to your brother openly about his feelings and frustrations regarding the neighbor. Encourage him to express his emotions and concerns without judgment. Sometimes, just having someone listen to his feelings can be very helpful.
Suggest Avoiding Confrontation: Advise your brother not to confront the neighbor directly about his feelings or suspicions. Engaging in conflicts might escalate the situation and lead to further stress and tension.
Distract from Negative Thoughts: Help your brother find activities or hobbies that can distract him from dwelling on negative thoughts about the neighbor. Engaging in positive and enjoyable activities can help shift his focus away from the situation.
Encourage Positive Interactions: Encourage your brother to interact with other neighbors or friends who have a more positive impact on his life. This way, he can build positive relationships and not be solely fixated on the negative one.
Suggest Seeking Professional Help: If your brother's feelings and thoughts about the neighbor are significantly affecting his mental well-being and day-to-day life, it might be beneficial for him to talk to a mental health professional. They can provide guidance and support to help him cope with these feelings in a healthier way.
Set Boundaries with Your Brother: It's essential for your family to establish boundaries with your brother regarding how much he talks about the neighbor. If your mother is uncomfortable hearing about it constantly, kindly ask him to share his feelings with a close friend or a professional if needed.
Encourage Empathy: Try to foster empathy in your brother by encouraging him to see things from the neighbor's perspective. Perhaps the neighbor may have her own struggles or issues that could explain her behavior. While this doesn't excuse any negative actions, understanding can help reduce his anger and frustration.
Promote Self-Care: Encourage your brother to engage in self-care practices, such as exercise, mindfulness, or relaxation techniques. Taking care of his mental and emotional well-being is essential during challenging times.
Mediation: If tensions between your family and the neighbors continue to rise, consider involving a mediator or authority figure, like a community leader, to help address any conflicts and find a resolution.
Remember, it's essential to address your brother's concerns and emotions while promoting a peaceful and respectful resolution to the situation. Being proactive in finding positive ways to cope with his feelings can lead to a more harmonious living environment for everyone involved.
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I am 30 and my wife is 27.We are married through an arranged marriage and like other couples often has quarrels.Recently my wife's younger sister aged 21 wattsapp me with the message "are you nuts"? I don't think she has any right to interfere to message me like that.Strangely my in-laws haven't scolded her or told her to say sorry to me.My wife still communicates with her through wattsapp inspite of the insult to me.How should I react ?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Can you not ignore it? What's to make a big deal about it? What did you exactly feel insulted about? The fact that she messaged you by interfering OR the use of words?
Youngsters at that age use that kind of language with no real aim to disrespect anyone.
but if it is about her interference into your relationship between you and your wife, be upfront with her and tell that you do not appreciate her meddling in your affairs.
Also, please be mature about this...She is your wife's sister and expecting your wife to be upset with her little sister is a bit too much. Each of us have a unique one-on-one relationship with another human. You may not fancy your wife's sister over this issue, but do not expect your wife to take your side etc. It is foolish to try and drive wedges within families.
Instead, do the right thing and clearly explain to your sister's wife (in front of your wife) that you do not appreciate her interference. Matter ends...
Do not bring any extra baggage that will complicate matter through ego and power play. It's wise to diffuse situations maintaining harmony within the family. Makes sense, doesn't it?

All the best!
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I am a 40 yr old Orthodontist in government service since last more than 15 years. Since the time I joined this service I wanted to quit it since it has basically been a place not aligning with my life values. It has destroyed my clinical skill and has been basically a political playground, fake performances, below average minds. But I could not quit it due to family and financial issues. Now I have decided to finally say goodbye to it since lately it has been affecting my mental wellbeing also. I’ve been a bright student academically and quick learner also. I’m planning to move to Australia with family after clearing the stages. But I am anxious about taking this initiative at this age along with reason that I have no contact whatsoever in Australia. Australia due to the fact that it has just three time saving steps compared to other complexities in Europe and US. What do you suggest for the situation?
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Sir, i 'm currently doing b. Sc in biotechnology NEP from University of jammu ... What can i do after this course after getting b. Sc degree... What 're its career options? ... Tell about this co
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Which job has high demand in foreign countries(other than India)? Job other than medical and engineering?
Ans: Several jobs are in high demand in foreign countries, beyond the fields of medicine and engineering. Finance professionals, such as accountants, financial analysts, investment bankers, and auditors, are sought after in various countries. Sales and marketing professionals with skills in digital marketing, social media management, market research, and customer relationship management are highly valued. Hospitality professionals, including hotel managers, event planners, tourism coordinators, and travel agents, are in demand in countries with thriving tourism industries. Qualified educators, including teachers, professors, language instructors, and educational consultants, are needed in schools, colleges, language institutes, and international education programs. Skilled tradespeople, such as electricians, plumbers, carpenters, welders, and HVAC technicians, are essential for construction, infrastructure development, and maintenance projects. Environmental scientists, sustainability consultants, renewable energy technicians, and conservation specialists are increasingly in demand as organizations seek to address environmental challenges and implement sustainable practices. 

These are just a few examples of jobs that are in high demand in foreign countries, offering opportunities for individuals with diverse skills and backgrounds. It's essential to research specific industries, countries, and job markets to identify where your skills and interests align with available opportunities and to consider factors such as language proficiency, cultural adaptability, and immigration regulations when pursuing international employment opportunities.
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I want to work in cosmetic industry. Is it better to do major in chemistry or do chemical engineering? Which has high scope? Also is their any scope in chemical engineering in upcoming years? And how is the pay like? Other than chemical engineering wh8ch has highest demand and salary?
Ans: Both chemistry and chemical engineering can offer pathways into the cosmetic industry, but they involve different focuses and skill sets. Chemistry majors typically focus on understanding the fundamental principles of chemistry, including chemical reactions, molecular structures, and the properties of substances. If you have a strong interest in studying the composition, behavior, and interactions of molecules, a major in chemistry may be a good fit for you. Chemical engineering majors, on the other hand, apply principles of chemistry, physics, and engineering to design and optimize processes for the production of chemicals, materials, and consumer products. If you're interested in applying scientific principles to solve real-world problems and develop new products or processes, chemical engineering may be more suitable. Chemistry majors may pursue careers in various industries, including pharmaceuticals, biotechnology, cosmetics, materials science, environmental science, and academia. Potential roles for chemistry majors include research scientists, laboratory technicians, quality control analysts, and regulatory specialists. Chemical engineering majors have opportunities in industries such as petrochemicals, polymers, pharmaceuticals, food processing, energy, environmental engineering, and consumer products. Chemical engineers may work in roles such as process engineers, manufacturing engineers, project managers, and consultants. Both chemistry and chemical engineering offer competitive salary potential and job prospects, but the specific opportunities may vary depending on factors such as industry demand, location, experience, and specialization. The job market for chemistry and chemical engineering may fluctuate based on economic conditions, industry trends, and technological advancements, but salaries for chemical engineering professionals are better than those for chemical majors in the cosmetic industry. In addition to chemistry and chemical engineering, there are several other fields of study that can provide pathways into the cosmetic industry, which include biology or biochemistry, pharmacy or pharmacology, materials science or engineering, biotechnology, dermatology and dermatological sciences, marketing and consumer science, and environmental science and sustainability. These are just a few examples of fields of study that can lead to careers in the cosmetic industry.

Ultimately, the best choice for you depends on your personal interests, strengths, and career aspirations. Consider researching each major, exploring potential career paths, and speaking with professionals in the field to gain insights into the opportunities available and make an informed decision that aligns with your goals.
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I worked for a private PMC company with appointment letter later after four months they were unable to pay salary and assured us by mails and what's up messages that, they are having some financial problems and requested to continue and pending salaries would be released soon and later stopped taking calls, We have resigned but they have not settled our account and now again become active. What action can be taken.
Ans: It's unfortunate that you're facing this situation with your former employer. Gather all relevant documentation related to your employment, including your appointment letter, emails, WhatsApp messages, and any other communication regarding salary payments and promises made by the company. Having a record of these interactions will be crucial for any potential legal action. Reach out to the company via email or written correspondence to remind them of the outstanding salary payments and request immediate settlement of your dues. Clearly outline the amount owed, the period for which you worked without compensation, and any promises or assurances made by the company regarding payment. If the company fails to respond or refuses to settle your dues, consider seeking legal advice from a labor lawyer or legal aid organization. They can assess your situation, advise you on your rights and options, and help you take appropriate legal action to recover your unpaid wages. Depending on the jurisdiction and labor laws in your area, you may have the option to file a formal complaint or grievance with the relevant labor department or regulatory authority. Provide them with all relevant documentation and information about your case, and they may investigate the matter and take action against the company if warranted. If you see other employees are also affected by unpaid wages or mistreatment by the company, then consider organizing collectively to amplify your voices and increase pressure on the company to resolve the issue. This could involve forming a group, sharing information and resources, and coordinating efforts to seek redress through legal channels or public advocacy. Throughout this process, it's important to protect your rights and avoid taking any actions that could jeopardize your legal standing or future claims against the company. Keep records of all communications, consult with legal experts, and be prepared to assert your rights if necessary. Stay informed about any developments related to the company, including changes in ownership, financial status, or legal proceedings. This information may affect your ability to recover unpaid wages or seek other forms of recourse.

Remember that recovering unpaid wages can be a complex and challenging process, but by taking proactive steps, seeking appropriate guidance, and advocating for your rights, you can increase your chances of obtaining a favorable outcome.
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It's been a year since I completed my engineering in mechanical engineering. I am currently unemployed. I keep sending resume through LinkedIn, indeed, monster. I only get rejection replies. I have lost confidence in everything. What i specialised and has more interest is mechanical design and simulation, but majority companies prefer experienced candidates. For my other plans to work out i initially needed a job for money as well as for experience. It's very depressing and i am kind of letting go my dreams. I feel I am very incapable of even find a job after a course. What difference do I make with those who took a year off to clear remaining arrears.
Ans: It's understandable to feel frustrated and discouraged when facing challenges in your job search, especially when you're passionate about a specific field like mechanical design and simulation. However, it's essential to remember that setbacks are a natural part of the job search process, and they don't define your worth or capabilities. While gaining work experience may seem challenging at the moment, you can focus on enhancing your skills and knowledge in mechanical design and simulation. Consider enrolling in online courses, workshops, or certification programs related to CAD software, finite element analysis (FEA), computational fluid dynamics (CFD), or other relevant areas. Reach out to professionals working in mechanical design and simulation roles through LinkedIn or industry events. Request informational interviews to learn about their career paths, experiences, and insights into the industry. Building relationships with professionals in your field can lead to job opportunities, mentorship, and valuable advice for your career. Look for internships, co-op programs, or entry-level positions that offer opportunities to gain hands-on experience in mechanical design and simulation. While these roles may not always be advertised, reaching out to companies directly or through your network can help you uncover hidden opportunities and demonstrate your enthusiasm and commitment to the field.

Remember that finding a job after completing your engineering degree is a process that takes time and persistence. Stay committed to your aspirations, continue investing in your skills and knowledge, and remain open to new opportunities that come your way. With determination and perseverance, you can overcome obstacles and find success in your chosen field.
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