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Asked by Anonymous - May 29, 2023Hindi
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While dating, when someone says 'be yourself' what do they actually mean?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Be Yourself is the best advice anyone can offer. It means to be your authentic self. We all put forward our best selves while meeting new people.

Be yourself primarily means being your core self, showcasing your authentic personality, instead of faking to make yourself more attractive. If you change the way you talk in front of your date, don't do it. Speak the way you speak. If you act dumb to tickle your date's ego, don't do it. Be the wise person you are, unapologetically. If you alter your core values to be with someone, don't. Be vulnerable. Be you; be the best version of you!

Best Wishes!

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