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Thanks. Yes, I have considered other factors too. The matrimonial person is of my caste so we have more or less similar family backgrounds and we also share some kind of hobbies too. However, the other person has different culture and backgrounds, but we still have some compatability. Due to all such pros and cons calculating both the sides, making me more in dilemma.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Like I have already suggested:
What's more important is whether value systems match! That list should give you a better idea on how to proceed further.
"It's not just what is important but how much each of you place importance on the same things that will help you step out of this dilemma."
So, rather than stick to the dilemma, find a way of coming out of it...

All the best!

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Hi Anu! So, I'm in dilemma of choosing a partner for me second time. I'm 36 yo divorcee, and met with a person 4yrs back with whom I shared great bonding and chemistry, but he never showed his love and care to me in past these years (as he was going through his divorce process too), but we both know that we both share some exceptional kind of bonding. Now, the twist comes, as we always have this on and off kind of relationship, so I started dating to a man from a matrimonial site. This matrimonial person seems in love with me and show the concern and love to me, the kind I wanted. Now, I am confused, because my previous bf is also thinking our future together as well as the matrimonial one. can you please help me in choosing the right partner for me. I can provide more information about both men in detail.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Aren't we always seeking for something that we lack within us?
Why the yearning for a particular expression of love? And how are you so sure that this person that you met on the matrimonial site already is in love with you?
Having said this, the off and on relationship is a person who will express love in a way that he is comfortable with but that is setting you off...so the matrimonial person seems exciting in a way as it aligns with your way of expressing love.
When in a dilemma, put all the cards on the table...there are other things besides expressing love that goes into making a relationship and/or a marriage. Have you factored all of that?
- List down things that are important to you in a marriage and a spouse
- How compatible are the two of you in terms of emotional bonding?
- Do your respective family values match?
- What are your thoughts on money, children, travel, passion etc?
These questions are a good start point exercise with both the men...it will give you a fair idea as to who is more aligned to your way of life. Then you can go ahead and make your decision.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 15, 2024Hindi
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Hi..I just saw your page and found this is the right page where I can get answer.. I am so confused and so my thoughts coming in my mind and noone in my life which I can tell. However, I found you hopefully you'll get my answer I want to marry with my partner but he is not earning as much and I'm also earning but we both started our career in 2023. And my parents wants I should get Marry with someone and he is searching. But I told my parents that I love someone but the issue is he is not from my caste that is not the big issue main issue is that my partner belongs from very nuclear family like his mother and sister is there and noone is there in his family and my parents also saying the boy is not earning a good salary and noone is there in his family how will you be happy and I don't think so he is good for you.. but my partner loves me so much he loves me till 6 years and he waited for me also. My question is that for getting a married is all this stuff matters ? My parents is arising so many questions somehow she denied..should I convince to my parents or they are saying right ??
Ans: The salary is not a problem, if he doesn’t have misplaced ego about his wife earning more than him; some men are broad-minded enough to even be proud of their wives earning more. Nor is caste; love has no fixed faith. But this nuclear family business is a red flag; I would strictly advice not living under the same roof with his mother and sister. There is bound to be friction. Then relations sour and your marriage gets strained. If he is willing to step out from under their shadow and live separately with you, and the money-making is not an issue for him, you’re making the right choice of partner. If either of the above is not realistic, I would suggest you stop trying to convince your parents and listen to what they have to say.

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Hello mam , we are in relationship of total 3 yrs in which long distance is for 2 years we both have their colleges in different state now question arises to our mind about future that we both no we will do job in same location where we study we we both can't compromise to go to any other states as there is less opportunity as we both are in different field this is one of the problem and other is his parents are so strict and belongs to bhramin family they don't accept intercaste marriage even he don't want to step out from his home as he want to take care of his parents .and we are very sure that we don't want to compromise our careers . So how our marriage is possible ? Should we have to leave each other prior to the day comes or is there any solution to it which we both can compromise ??
Ans: Hmmm lets simplify this, what would you tell your friend if she comes and tells you that she has met someone wonderful BUT his parents will not accept her and he will make no efforts to make it work...I am assuming you will tell her to put this relationship on hold for sometime...which means putting it on hold with no interaction, stopping all interactions - giving him space and time to think about it...do this for 6 months to 12 months, this does not mean dating someone else. Here he needs to find a solution, if he does its a win-win, if he does not then he may not be someone she may wish to be in a relationship with...and in the meantime you are likely to ask her to focus on her career. My response to your query will be on the same lines.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 20, 2024Hindi
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Hello Sir, I am 36 yrs old IT professional, earned good amount of money from my jobs at different companies but I have lost everything in the stock market while doing options trading. I have stopped the stock market options trading now, please guide how can I start saving and investing to get good returns for my kids education. Currently no savings and no investments.
Ans: I'm truly sorry to hear about your difficult experience with the stock market. It's not easy, but you've taken a positive step by seeking guidance on how to rebuild your financial future.

Firstly, I want to commend you for recognizing the need for change and halting your options trading. It takes courage to reassess and pivot, especially after setbacks.

Now, let's focus on rebuilding. Since you're starting from scratch, it's crucial to prioritize savings. Begin by setting up an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses. Aim for at least six months' worth of living expenses.

Once your emergency fund is established, it's time to think about investing for your kids' education. Given your past experience, cautious investing is key. Consider diversified mutual funds managed by professionals. These funds spread your investment across various assets, reducing risk.

Regular funds, managed through a Certified Financial Planner, offer personalized guidance and oversight, helping you navigate the complexities of the market.

While index funds may seem appealing for their low fees, they lack the active management that can help mitigate risks and seize opportunities in volatile markets.

Remember, investing is a long-term commitment. Stay patient and disciplined, and avoid the temptation of get-rich-quick schemes.

You've already demonstrated resilience by seeking advice. With careful planning and prudent investing, you can rebuild your financial stability and secure your children's future education.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 14, 2024Hindi
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Hi I am 42 currently I did SIP of 20k from last 3 years each 1. ELSS each 1k are 1.Axis long term equity 2.mirai asset 3.canara robeco 3.invesco India 4.parag parikh 2.Midcap funds - White Ock 1k 2.Invesco India multi cap fund 1k 3. Thematic fund - 1 Franklin India apportunity fund 5k 4. Multi asset allocation fund - Tata multi asset opp fund 5k 5. Flexi cap fund - 1.kotak multi asset allocator 1k 2.HDFC flexi cap fund 1k 6. Dynamic Asset allocator - Edelweiss balanced Adv 1k 7. Large & Mid cap - Axis growth apportunity fund 1k 8. Small cap fund - Nippon India 1k Suggest me I want invest another 5k
Ans: It's great to see your diversified investment approach through SIPs across various mutual fund categories. Considering your existing portfolio, here's a suggestion for investing an additional 5k:

Given your current allocation, you might want to consider adding to a category where you have relatively lower exposure. Since you already have investments in ELSS, Midcap, Thematic, Multi-Asset Allocation, Flexi Cap, Dynamic Asset Allocator, Large & Mid Cap, and Small Cap funds, you may consider adding to a fund category that complements your existing holdings.

Considering your investment style and the current market scenario, you might want to explore investing in a Balanced Advantage Fund or a Hybrid Equity-Oriented Fund. These funds dynamically allocate between equity and debt instruments based on market conditions, providing a balance of growth potential and downside protection.

Here's a suggested addition to your portfolio:

Balanced Advantage Fund: Invest the additional 5k in a reputable Balanced Advantage Fund that has a proven track record of managing market volatility and delivering consistent returns over the long term.
Ensure you research and select a fund that aligns with your risk tolerance, investment goals, and overall portfolio strategy. Additionally, regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments as necessary to stay on track with your financial objectives.

Always remember to consult with a certified financial planner or investment advisor before making any significant changes to your investment strategy.

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Asked by Anonymous - Apr 16, 2024Hindi
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I’m 31, I’ve been investing in MF SIPs for about 8-9 years now, but about a year ago I had to encash all my funds to purchase a flat. I started again and currently I do about 29k monthly, investing in Parag Parikh flexi cap, Mahindra Manu life small cap, Tata small cap, Tata digital India fund, PGIM India mid cap opportunities, Canara Robeco small cap, Mirae asset large cap, Axis mid cap and Quant small cap. The exposure to small cap is less than 30%. I have a 10% increment set on all SIPs annually. How long would it take for me to reach a crore? Would I be able to retire by 45 if I stay invested? I have a home loan as well and I pay ~70k EMI on that
Ans: It's commendable that you've been investing consistently in mutual fund SIPs despite facing financial challenges. Let's analyze your current investment scenario and address your financial goals:

Investment Portfolio: Your portfolio consists of a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and small-cap funds, providing diversification across market segments. Ensure you monitor the performance of each fund regularly and rebalance if needed to maintain your desired asset allocation.

Financial Goal: Your primary goal is to accumulate one crore rupees and potentially retire by the age of 45. Achieving this goal depends on various factors such as your current investment amount, expected rate of return, and investment horizon.

Calculating the Time Required: To estimate the time required to reach one crore rupees, we need to consider your current investment amount, expected rate of return, and the annual increment in your SIPs. With an annual SIP of 29,000 rupees and assuming an average annual return of 12%, you can use online SIP calculators to determine the time required to reach your goal.

Retirement Planning: Retiring by the age of 45 requires careful financial planning and discipline. Consider factors such as your desired retirement lifestyle, expected expenses, inflation, and other income sources. It's crucial to build a sizable retirement corpus to sustain yourself post-retirement.

Home Loan: While paying a substantial EMI towards your home loan, ensure you strike a balance between loan repayment and long-term investments. Evaluate whether prepaying the loan or investing in mutual funds yields better returns based on interest rates and tax implications.

Risk Management: While equity investments offer growth potential, they also carry market risk. Given your age and long investment horizon, you can afford to allocate a significant portion of your portfolio to equities. However, ensure you have an adequate emergency fund and appropriate insurance coverage to mitigate financial risks.

Review and Adjust: Periodically review your investment portfolio, financial goals, and progress towards achieving them. Adjust your investment strategy as needed based on changes in your personal circumstances, market conditions, and financial goals.

It's advisable to consult with a certified financial planner to create a comprehensive financial plan tailored to your specific needs and goals.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 08, 2024Hindi
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Hello Sir, first of all thanks for sharing your valuable inputs in this column. My age is 42 & i am currently investing in 4 funds through SIP of Rs.5000 each. UTI Nifty 50 index, Parag Parikh Flexi cap fund, ICICI Prudential Midcap 150 index fund & Quant flexi cap fund. Apart from this i have some small investments in FD's, shares & SGB's (30% each & 10% emergency fund). My plan is to invest for next 3 years through regular SIP & additionally by some more units on dips. After 3 years i will stop SIP ( as i might loose job by 45) & keep the accumulated funds as it is for next 8 years. Please share views on this, if funds are alright considering my age, duration etc. or you can suggest any additions/modifications. Also how much returns (per year) i may expect with this portfolio. Any other suggestion w.r.t. my portfolio. Thanks Again.
Ans: Your investment strategy appears well-thought-out, considering your age, investment horizon, and potential future job loss. Here are some insights and suggestions for your portfolio:

Fund Selection: Your choice of funds reflects a balanced approach, with exposure to both index funds and actively managed funds across different market caps. UTI Nifty 50 Index and ICICI Prudential Midcap 150 Index offer broad market exposure, while Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund and Quant Flexi Cap Fund provide flexibility and potential for alpha generation.

Duration and SIP Strategy: Your plan to continue SIPs for the next 3 years and then hold the accumulated funds for the subsequent 8 years aligns with your investment horizon and potential job uncertainty. It's wise to invest systematically and consider buying more units during market dips to benefit from cost averaging.

Portfolio Review: Periodically review your portfolio's performance and asset allocation to ensure it remains aligned with your goals and risk tolerance. Consider rebalancing if necessary to maintain the desired mix of equity, debt, and other assets.

Expected Returns: Predicting exact returns is challenging due to market volatility and various other factors. However, historically, equity investments have delivered higher returns over the long term compared to fixed-income investments. With a diversified portfolio like yours, you can aim for an average annual return of around 10-12%, though actual returns may vary.

Emergency Fund: Ensure your emergency fund is adequate to cover at least 6-12 months of living expenses. Since you anticipate a potential job loss, having a sufficient emergency fund will provide financial stability during uncertain times.

Regular Review and Monitoring: Stay informed about market developments and economic trends. Keep track of your investments' performance and make adjustments as needed to optimize your portfolio's returns and manage risks effectively.

Risk Management: While equity investments offer growth potential, they also carry higher volatility and risk. Ensure your asset allocation aligns with your risk tolerance and financial goals. Consider diversifying across asset classes to mitigate risk.

Overall, your investment approach seems reasonable, considering your circumstances. Continuously educate yourself about personal finance and investment principles to make informed decisions.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 08, 2024Hindi
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Hello Nikunj, first of all thanks for sharing your valuable inputs in this column. My age is 42 & i am currently investing in 4 funds through SIP of Rs.5000 each. UTI Nifty 50 index, Parag Parikh Flexi cap fund, ICICI Prudential Midcap 150 index fund & Quant flexi cap fund. Apart from this i have some small investments in FD's, shares & SGB's (30% each & 10% emergency fund). My plan is to invest for next 3 years through regular SIP & additionally by some more units on dips. After 3 years i will stop SIP ( as i might loose job by 45) & keep the accumulated funds as it is for next 8 years. Please share views on this, if funds are alright considering my age, duration etc. or you can suggest any additions/modifications. Also how much returns (per year) i may expect with this portfolio. Any other suggestion w.r.t. my portfolio. Thanks Again.
Ans: Your investment strategy appears well-thought-out, considering your age, investment horizon, and potential future job loss. Here are some insights and suggestions for your portfolio:

Fund Selection: Your choice of funds reflects a balanced approach, with exposure to both index funds and actively managed funds across different market caps. UTI Nifty 50 Index and ICICI Prudential Midcap 150 Index offer broad market exposure, while Parag Parikh Flexi Cap Fund and Quant Flexi Cap Fund provide flexibility and potential for alpha generation.

Duration and SIP Strategy: Your plan to continue SIPs for the next 3 years and then hold the accumulated funds for the subsequent 8 years aligns with your investment horizon and potential job uncertainty. It's wise to invest systematically and consider buying more units during market dips to benefit from cost averaging.

Portfolio Review: Periodically review your portfolio's performance and asset allocation to ensure it remains aligned with your goals and risk tolerance. Consider rebalancing if necessary to maintain the desired mix of equity, debt, and other assets.

Expected Returns: Predicting exact returns is challenging due to market volatility and various other factors. However, historically, equity investments have delivered higher returns over the long term compared to fixed-income investments. With a diversified portfolio like yours, you can aim for an average annual return of around 10-12%, though actual returns may vary.

Emergency Fund: Ensure your emergency fund is adequate to cover at least 6-12 months of living expenses. Since you anticipate a potential job loss, having a sufficient emergency fund will provide financial stability during uncertain times.

Regular Review and Monitoring: Stay informed about market developments and economic trends. Keep track of your investments' performance and make adjustments as needed to optimize your portfolio's returns and manage risks effectively.

Risk Management: While equity investments offer growth potential, they also carry higher volatility and risk. Ensure your asset allocation aligns with your risk tolerance and financial goals. Consider diversifying across asset classes to mitigate risk.

Overall, your investment approach seems reasonable, considering your circumstances. Continuously educate yourself about personal finance and investment principles to make informed decisions.

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www.holisticinvestment.in

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 29, 2024Hindi
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I have 60 lakhs in EPF (including VPF) and 45 L invested in mutual funds and some 40 L from other sources(like PPF, gratuity, NPS) and am due to retire in 2026 . My advisor is suggesting to withdraw some 30 lakhs from EPF and invest in SBI hybrid fund, from which I can withdraw every month post retirement and the fund will also grow at the same time. He shared the report that 50 L invested for 10 years ,with a monthly withdrawal of Rs. 30 thousand, the fund has grown to 1.29 crores. Is it advisable to withdraw from EPF , please suggest.
Ans: Withdrawing a significant amount from your EPF (Employee Provident Fund) and investing it in SBI hybrid fund for monthly withdrawals post-retirement is a decision that requires careful consideration.

EPF is a stable and secure investment option that provides guaranteed returns and tax benefits. Withdrawing a substantial amount from EPF may compromise your retirement savings and future financial security.

While investing in SBI hybrid fund can potentially generate higher returns, it also involves higher risks compared to EPF. Hybrid funds invest in a mix of equity and debt instruments, and their performance can be volatile, especially in the short term.

Before making any decision, consider the following factors:

Risk Tolerance: Assess your risk tolerance and investment objectives. Evaluate whether you're comfortable with the potential volatility and fluctuations in returns associated with SBI hybrid fund.

Retirement Goals: Review your retirement goals and financial needs post-retirement. Ensure that the proposed investment strategy aligns with your long-term objectives and provides sufficient income to meet your expenses during retirement.

Liquidity Needs: Consider your liquidity needs during retirement. EPF provides liquidity in the form of partial withdrawals and advances for specific purposes like medical emergencies, housing, or education. Assess whether investing in SBI hybrid fund will adequately address your liquidity requirements.

Tax Implications: Evaluate the tax implications of withdrawing from EPF and investing in SBI hybrid fund. EPF withdrawals may be subject to tax, especially if withdrawn before the completion of five years of continuous service. Consult with a tax advisor to understand the tax implications and optimize your tax strategy.

Investment Diversification: Ensure that your overall investment portfolio remains well-diversified and balanced. Avoid concentrating too much of your retirement savings in one particular investment or asset class.

Professional Advice: Seek guidance from a certified financial planner or investment advisor who can provide personalized recommendations based on your financial situation, goals, and risk profile.

Ultimately, the decision to withdraw from EPF and invest in SBI hybrid fund depends on your individual circumstances, risk tolerance, and long-term financial objectives. Consider all factors carefully before making any changes to your retirement savings strategy.

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 13, 2024Hindi
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Hi I am currently not working. I am 53 years old. My Fnf amount is going to be around 6 lacs. I have 67 lacs in MIC getting around Rs 33000 as monthly interest. I have no other income sources as of now. Have invested around 4.5 lacs in MFs and SIP of Rs 7000 pm going on curently. Insurance premium is 1.5 lacs annually and health insurance is of 15 lacs. All are active. I have my own accomodation without any loans running upon it. It is valued at 25 lacs. No PLs or Credit Card outstandings as I don't use them. Gold is valued around 30 lacs. PPF balance is 5 lacs. A shop valued around 7 lacs. Not on rent presently. Savings in bank accounts is 6 lacs presently. Job is not gauranteed nowadays. Monthly expenditure is Rs 65000 including all savings investments My current age is 53 years and am the only bread earner for my family. I have an insurance coverage of 1 crore on myself. No additional income sources presently. How to increase my present income from available resources to around Rs 65000 pm atleast ? How can I raise atleast 2.5 crores by the time my only daughter turns 18 yrs which is 8 yrs away ?
Ans: Given your current financial situation and goals, here's a plan to increase your income and work towards accumulating Rs 2.5 crores by the time your daughter turns 18:

Optimize Existing Investments: Evaluate your current investments, including fixed deposits, mutual funds, and gold. Consider reallocating some of your assets to investments with higher potential returns, such as equity mutual funds or stocks, based on your risk tolerance and investment horizon.

Maximize Returns on Fixed Deposits: Explore options to maximize returns on your fixed deposits (MIC). Consider reinvesting the maturity amount in instruments offering higher interest rates, such as corporate deposits or debt mutual funds.

Review Insurance Policies: Assess your insurance coverage to ensure it meets your family's needs adequately. Consider optimizing your insurance portfolio to reduce premiums while maintaining sufficient coverage. Evaluate the possibility of switching to term insurance for cost savings.

Monetize Unused Assets: Consider selling or renting out the shop to generate additional income. Evaluate the potential rental income compared to the current market value of the property. Utilize the proceeds from the sale or rent to further invest in income-generating assets.

Explore Part-Time Work: Given the uncertainty of your job, consider exploring part-time or freelance opportunities in your field of expertise. Utilize your skills and experience to generate additional income while allowing flexibility in your schedule.

Increase Systematic Investment Plan (SIP) Contributions: If possible, consider increasing your SIP contributions to mutual funds. Focus on funds with a track record of consistent returns and align with your risk profile. Regularly review and rebalance your portfolio to optimize returns.

Create Additional Income Streams: Explore alternative income streams such as rental income from the shop, dividend income from investments, or online business opportunities. Diversifying your income sources can provide stability and resilience against financial uncertainties.

Seek Professional Advice: Consider consulting a financial advisor to tailor a comprehensive financial plan that aligns with your goals and risk tolerance. A professional advisor can provide personalized recommendations and guidance to optimize your financial resources.

By implementing these strategies and consistently reviewing your financial plan, you can work towards increasing your current income and accumulating the desired corpus for your daughter's future needs.

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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 30, 2023Hindi
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Hi, Earlier, i had asked a question regarding a home loan i have. following is my question. "Hello Sir/Madam, I bought an apartment from a standard builder in Hyderabad. the possession of house supposed to happen after an year. So, i have taken house loan from a Bank for this house. Now, i have started the regular EMI for this with interest rate of 9%. so, my question is, monthly i have some surplus amount after the EMI and expenses, is it good idea to use that for repaying my home loan or do i need to wait till possession. My wife suggests to wait till the possession, then start repaying. Please suggest what do you think is better?" the answer i got was : yes, repay the house loan as the interest rate is high. However, as the possession of the apartment happens only after an year, is it good idea to repay the loan or not. the builder is a standard builder from Hyderabad. If we don't repay the amount any risk from builder is borne by the Bank, not me, hence i am asking this question. So, please answer. thank you Nagaraju
Ans: Unfortunately, I don't have access to your previous queries.Best Regards,

But generally, for a home loan with a high interest rate of 9%, it's usually recommended to start repaying the loan as early as possible to minimize the total interest paid over the loan term. Even though you haven't received possession of the property yet, repaying the loan can bring you benefits like:

Reduced interest burden: The sooner you start repaying, the less interest you will accrue over the loan term.
Improved credit score: Regular EMI payments can improve your credit score, making it easier to secure loans in the future and potentially at better interest rates.
However, there are also some factors to consider before making a decision:

Prepayment penalty: Some banks might have prepayment penalties for paying off the loan before the end of the term. Check your loan agreement for any such clauses.
Need for emergency funds: It's important to maintain an emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses. Ensure you have sufficient funds set aside before using your surplus for loan repayments.
If you're unsure about whether to start repaying the loan now or wait until possession, it's advisable to consult with a financial advisor. They can consider your specific financial situation and recommend the best course of action.
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I am single 25 years and working in the US with H1B VISA. My annual package is USD 90K. I am staying with my elder brother who is also working with no cost to me. My expenses are EMI of the Car USD 500 per month, average fuel and 500/600 USD EMI for a home I bought recently. I do not smoke or drink as well. Having no liabilities. My brother and sister-in-law are too caring. They both work from home with nice packages. My parents are working and live in India and visit us almost every year. They are looking for a girl for me as well. I do not have large savings. I request you to guide me on a financial plan with good savings and for a future married life.
Ans: It's great that you're thinking about your financial future at such a young age. With your current situation and goals in mind, here's a plan to help you build savings and prepare for your future married life:

Budgeting: Start by tracking your expenses to understand where your money is going. Create a budget that allocates a portion of your income towards savings and investments.

Emergency Fund: Build an emergency fund equivalent to 3-6 months of living expenses. This fund will provide a financial safety net in case of unexpected expenses or job loss.

Debt Management: Continue paying off your car loan and home EMI on time. Avoid accumulating any high-interest debt and focus on becoming debt-free as soon as possible.

Savings and Investments: Begin investing a portion of your income in retirement accounts such as a 401(k) or IRA. Take advantage of employer matching contributions if available. Consider investing in low-cost index funds or diversified mutual funds for long-term growth.

Homeownership: While owning a home is a good investment, ensure that the mortgage payments are manageable and leave room in your budget for other financial goals. Consider refinancing if it helps lower your monthly payments.

Insurance: Review your health insurance coverage to ensure it meets your needs. Consider purchasing disability insurance to protect your income in case you're unable to work due to illness or injury.

Marriage and Family Planning: Discuss your financial goals and expectations with your future spouse once you find a partner. Plan for expenses related to marriage, such as wedding costs and setting up a household together. Consider discussing prenuptial agreements to protect both parties' financial interests.

Communication and Support: Maintain open communication with your family members about your financial plans and goals. Seek their guidance and support as you navigate your financial journey.

Remember, building wealth is a gradual process that requires patience and discipline. Stay focused on your goals, continue learning about personal finance, and seek professional advice if needed.

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Hello Sir, I invest 80K per month on SIP. Below is my portfolio. Can you suggest if this is good or I need to make any changes? SBI Blue Chip Fund - Direct Plan - Growth: 10,000 SBI Nifty Smallcap 250 Index Fund - Direct Plan - Growth: 15,000 Invesco India Contra Fund - Regular Growth: 10,000 Mirae Asset Large Cap Fund - Regular Plan: 10,000 SBI Magnum Comma Fund - Direct Plan - Growth: 5,000 SBI Small Cap Fund Direct Growth: 5,000 Canara Robeco Flexi Cap Fund - Regular IDCW: 5,000 Canara Robeco Infrastructure - Regular Growth: 5,000 DSP Natural Resources and New Energy Fund - Regular Plan - Growth: 5,000 Edelweiss Small Cap Fund - Regular Plan Growth: 5,000 Mahindra Manulife Small Cap Fund - Regular - Growth: 5,000
Ans: Your investment approach is diversified, covering various segments of the market. However, it appears slightly overdiversified with multiple funds in similar categories.

Consider consolidating your portfolio to reduce complexity and streamline management. Focus on high-performing funds with strong track records and consistent management.

Ensure each fund aligns with your risk tolerance and investment goals. Review the performance of each fund regularly and make adjustments as necessary.

Be cautious of overexposure to small-cap and sector-specific funds, as they can be volatile. Balance your portfolio with a mix of large-cap, mid-cap, and diversified equity funds for stability and growth potential.
There are some advantages to consider direct funds, and the cost savings can be significant in the long run. However, there are some potential benefits to using a regular MFD:
Advantages of Investing Through a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD):
• Personalized Advice: MFDs can be helpful for beginners or those who lack investment knowledge. They can assess your risk tolerance, financial goals, and investment horizon to recommend suitable mutual funds. This personalized guidance can be valuable, especially if you're new to investing.
• Convenience: MFDs handle all the paperwork and transactions on your behalf, saving you time and effort. They can help with account setup, SIP registrations, and managing your portfolio across different funds.
• Investor Support: MFDs can be a point of contact for any questions or concerns you may have about your investments. They can provide ongoing support and guidance throughout your investment journey.

Regularly monitor your portfolio's performance and make adjustments to maintain your desired asset allocation and risk profile.

Remember, simplicity and clarity are key to effectively managing your investments. Streamlining your portfolio will make it easier to track and optimize over time.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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