My friend's boyfriend married to another woman from last 2 years and now when he is separating , told my friend about his divorce and marriage. My friends has still soft corner for him. what advice should I give to her?
Ans: Dear kp,
This man will be on a rebound (which simply means he may look out for another relationship before healing from a previous one). In which case, your friend will just be a STOP-GAP and this will only hurt her further especially because they have a history behind them.
The best thing for her is to keep a distance for now, live her life...if at all they still want to be together, let him be the one to approach her after the divorce is done and he has moved on from that relationship. Otherwise, your friend will end up nursing his wounds and becoming his caregiver after which once he is healed, he may look for someone else. Makes sense, yeah?
All the best!
Anu Krishna
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