Anu Krishna |1355 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jun 15, 2021
My wife has a different mood, in the morning she would be fine and all of a sudden without any issue from my end then too her mood gets off and she keeps quite.
When I ask her she replies saying it is nothing. This annoys me a lot. I keep quiet and this goes for 2-3 days. If her mood is ok, she will talk.
I do understand that if I hurt her then her mood goes off; then it's ok. But if I have not done anything then also it happens. What should I do?
We fight over past events.
We are not able to close the issue and come to a solution.
Currently we are not talking to each other for the last 4 months.
I have 2 daughters --aged 14 and 10. i am very much worried about them.
Even if this is not the issue, it is imperative to understand the reason for her mood ups and downs.
Since I don't have any information on her age, if she’s in her 40s, it could hormonal also. Bringing the past can simply be a manifestation of what’s going on within her.
It is possible that she is simply exhausted from all the house-work that has surely gone up for all homemakers in the past year or so.
Give her a day off every week and offer to take care of the household chores with the help of your daughters.
They are old enough to be part of this and they maybe able to reach out to their mother faster.
Also set aside some time from your schedule as a couple to talk about the day/week and plan for some activity to do together that involves just the two of you.
Marriages after a point in time reach a plateau and needs some spice and excitement.
Taking each other or each other’s needs for granted can cause a deterioration in relationships and it helps if every individual in that relationship takes the onus of doing ‘more’, thinking ‘more’, feeling ‘more’ for the other individual.
This definitely helps recreate the relationship and you get a chance to start all over again.
Best wishes for a beautiful life.
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