Hi, My partner’s parents are not agreeing for inter caste marriage. How to convince them?

need to convince parents for intercaste marriage

Hi Ma'am, I got married few years back to my boyfriend. It was an intercaste marriage to which my parents opposed very strongly. They tried doing everything from verbal abuse, emotional abuse, guilt tripping, calling names, blaming my education to even asking me to leave my job. But with my elder brothers support I was able to still go ahead and got married to him. Today my parents love my partner a lot and are very happy with the very same person and his family which they were earlier opposing to due to fear of what others will say to this intercaste marriage. But today there is a similar situation built up at home with my brother's wedding. He is in his 30s and parents are concerned of getting him married asap. He told them about his girlfriend from other caste which was okay with the parents but they didnt like the girl purely from looks. They are concerned now that people will question them why you bought such a bride for your son and that they had so many beautiful prospects to which they said NO and now will be making this girl a bride of the house which will open them to mockery of others. They have not even met the girl but only after seeing photos they are so negative and again hurting us as well as themselves by saying lot of negative toxic things and guilt tripping for everything they have done for us. I feel they will become happy in few years but at this point they are not even agreeing to meet the family due to which the girl's family is getting apprehensive of marrying their daughter to our family. I have been trying to convince my parents but they start saying things like you also did the same so you will obviously support and we don't want to be a part of anything. If you want to get married go ahead and do it but don't expect us to be a part of it. What should I be doing?

Hello Mam/Sir I’m in relationship with my cross cousin and we both want to get married . How should I convince my parents as in Northern India it is prohibited but southern side it is accepted.

inter caste love : i belong to jatt family but my boyfriend belong to brahman family how i convince my parents for marrying in brahman family ?

I am 29 years old now, I have a boyfriend, we are dating since 3 years and we know each other since 6 years for now, we used to work together and met at the workplace itself. He is 5 years older than me, Earns good., I have a family business and joined business now leaving the job. I am a single child to my parents. Now we want to get married, but our castes and religions both are different from each other. I want to start the conversation with my family for the same, but as their thoughts and the type of response they give to other intercaste and inter religion marriages are very negative. Therefore I know what kind of response I am going to get from them. I want to know how to start the conversation with them and how to convince them for it?