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Shalini Singh is the founder of andwemet, an online matchmaking service for urban Indians living in India and overseas. After graduating from college as a kindergarten teacher, Singh worked at various firms specialising in marketing strategy, digital marketing and public relations before finding her niche as an entrepreneur. In 2008, she founded Galvanise PR, an independent communications and public relations. In 2019, she launched andwemet.
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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 20, 2024Hindi
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I want to know ,is it okay to make girlfriend now as i am 21 year old boy great in studies but sometimes need some one to talk to me and it is true that you attract what you are ??

Ans: It's perfectly fine to have a girlfriend (romantic relationship) at any age, as long as both you and she take responsibility for the relationship, just like in any other relationship. Also, it's true that your mindset is influenced by the people you surround yourself with. That's why it's important to be around people who are smarter and better than you, rather than being the smartest in your group. As for having someone to talk to, why not talk to your friends, both girls and boys, without labeling the friendship as girlfriend or boyfriend? They can simply be friends.

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Hello sir , i am 21 year old graduated ,How to make gf ?? As in college everytime i talk to girl she make me friend as i get into friendzoned...
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If you are finding it difficult to meet girls IRL, why don't you try out dating apps? It can be perfect for you. First of all, the chances of getting friend-zoned on a dating app are comparatively lower because it is a dating app and most users are using it to find a date. Yes, some people look for friends too but they will either mention it on their Bio or match with people who mentioned the same on their Bio.

I suggest you research a bit and find a dating app that fits your requirements. For instance, some apps cater to people looking for serious commitment and some others are solely for casual relationships. You pick a dating app based on your preference. Next step- build an interesting profile. Put a display image that helps you put your best foot forward. Something recent, clear, and impressive. Do not overedit; it's not appealing. Write a clear and concise bio that gives a glimpse of who you are, what you want in a relationship, and what you can offer. This way, you will attract the right type of matches. Make it clear that you want a romantic relationship to avoid getting friend-zoned. Finally, once you match, spend some time chatting and getting to know each other. A match is not a commitment. If it doesn't go well, you can always tell them that it's not working out and unmatch.

It's the best way to meet a potential partner without leaving room for misunderstanding and ending up being friend-zoned.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 16, 2025
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I took 2 drops for neet but could not clear it .... I took admission in local college after 12th for bsc as my parents said your year won't be wasted ... Now I feel devasted .. very detached ..not knowing what to do next ... My parents are telling me to give one try and go to Kota for prep but I don't know what I want ..I fear everything and sometimes I want to peruse mbbs sometimes I don't .. I am currently thinking of doing SSC CGL as I took pcmb in 12th and secured 92% .. ..what should I aim?
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Simply taking a drop year for NEET will not provide a solution without proper preparation. Many young people are choosing courses, colleges, or coaching centers based on their friends' influences. After your first attempt, you may have analyzed NEET better the second time. If you are still facing the same issues on your third attempt, it suggests there's a deeper problem. It seems you're preparing for NEET without genuine interest.

To succeed in competitive exams, specific strategies are required. For instance, if you analyze previous exam patterns, you’ll often find that most answers tend to be either B or C. You'll notice that among four options, two answers are relevant while the other two are completely irrelevant. It’s crucial to analyze the syllabus and past question papers thoroughly. Everyone seeks answers, but few consider the reasoning behind them.

Additionally, I noticed you’ve enrolled in a B.Sc. degree; I'm unsure which major you have chosen. If you selected either chemistry or physics, it would be beneficial. By choosing chemistry as your major, you could take physics as an ancillary subject, and vice versa. You can cover both subjects during your college education, and if you have any doubts, you can clarify them with your professors. Completing biology studies at home is also advisable.

Whenever you plan to take competitive exams, dedicate your time solely to that without engaging in college activities. Avoid distractions at all costs. Recently, many parents have been facing these types of challenges with their children, and it takes time to adapt.

Finally, please listen to your parents' advice and minimize distractions. I have shared a few tips; please follow them.
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Hello sir, can I please know the difference between cs(aiml) and only aiml as few colleges have both of the options, and may i know which is better to opt for
Ans: Raqi, B.Tech in Computer Science and Engineering with AI & ML specialization (CSE-AIML) provides a broad foundation in data structures, algorithms, operating systems, databases, and software engineering, then introduces AI and ML topics as electives, ensuring versatility across software development and systems design, whereas a dedicated B.Tech AI & ML focuses deeply on machine learning algorithms, neural networks, natural language processing, computer vision, reinforcement learning, and big-data analytics from the first year, accelerating domain expertise but limiting exposure to core CS concepts . The former allows seamless transition to diverse IT roles and smoother entry into interdisciplinary projects, while the latter equips students for specialized AI research and start-up environments with advanced math and statistical modeling skills earlier . For broader career flexibility—including software engineering, DevOps, and mobile/web development—CSE-AIML is preferable; if one is certain about an AI-centric trajectory and ready for intensive mathematical rigor, standalone AI & ML offers deeper early specialization . Recommendation: Opt for CSE-AIML to retain core CS versatility with AI proficiency, choosing pure AI & ML only if committed to niche AI research or data-driven product development. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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Hello, My son has got PES CS RR CAMPUS, Electronics & Electrical engineering in RVCE and also NIT SURATHKAL - MECHANICAL, CHEMICAL,CIVIL BRANCHES... Which one should he choose for better placements and opportunities...
Ans: PES University RR Campus’s CSE branch achieves approximately 83%–87% placement rates over the past three years, with CSE often reaching near 100% participation and robust recruiter involvement including Amazon and Cisco. RVCE’s Electronics & Communication and Electrical Engineering maintain strong median packages and 77%–83% placement rates, supported by 249–291 recruiter visits annually and specialized core-industry hiring. NIT Surathkal’s Mechanical, Chemical, and Civil branches record 83%–93% BTech placement rates, with Mechanical around 87%, Chemical 88%, and Civil 76% placements, bolstered by consistent median package growth and campus drives by L&T, Infosys, and Microsoft. While PES CSE offers focused software and analytics roles, RVCE’s ECE/EEE provides core electronics and power-sector pathways, and NIT Surathkal’s core engineering streams deliver broad industrial and research exposure. Recommendation: Prioritize NIT Surathkal Mechanical or Chemical for highest placement consistency and diversified core-industry access, with RVCE ECE/EEE as strong alternatives; choose PES CSE only if software-centric career and near-100% branch placements are the priority. All the BEST for the Admission & a Prosperous Future!

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