I want to know ,is it okay to make girlfriend now as i am 21 year old boy great in studies but sometimes need some one to talk to me and it is true that you attract what you are ??

Ans: Girls don't care about money. You'll have to learn to talk with women. Make money but it has nothing to do with women.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

If you are finding it difficult to meet girls IRL, why don't you try out dating apps? It can be perfect for you. First of all, the chances of getting friend-zoned on a dating app are comparatively lower because it is a dating app and most users are using it to find a date. Yes, some people look for friends too but they will either mention it on their Bio or match with people who mentioned the same on their Bio.

I suggest you research a bit and find a dating app that fits your requirements. For instance, some apps cater to people looking for serious commitment and some others are solely for casual relationships. You pick a dating app based on your preference. Next step- build an interesting profile. Put a display image that helps you put your best foot forward. Something recent, clear, and impressive. Do not overedit; it's not appealing. Write a clear and concise bio that gives a glimpse of who you are, what you want in a relationship, and what you can offer. This way, you will attract the right type of matches. Make it clear that you want a romantic relationship to avoid getting friend-zoned. Finally, once you match, spend some time chatting and getting to know each other. A match is not a commitment. If it doesn't go well, you can always tell them that it's not working out and unmatch.

It's the best way to meet a potential partner without leaving room for misunderstanding and ending up being friend-zoned.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I am so sorry that you do not have friends near you. If finding friends is difficult IRL, might I suggest dating and friendship apps? They can be a perfect fit for you. All you have to do is write a bio describing who you are and what kind of people you are looking for. It will help you attract people with whom you will be compatible, so the friendship lasts.

The same goes for finding a partner. First research which dating app caters to what type of clientele. Some are focused on serious relationships while some are more suitable for people seeking casual fling. Download the app that serves your purpose. Next, put up a clear and recent picture as DP and write a Bio that gives a gist of what you bring to the table and what type of partner and relationship you are seeking. Talk to a few people first; you don’t need to settle for the first person you meet. That’s the best thing about dating apps. Since you are not meeting in person, only chatting, you do not have to rush into committing.
Give it a try.

Best Wishes.