Hi,Guru, I lived in Chennai, my neighborhood all are living for away from myself. Particularly I have No bestie and best friends in Chennai. I tried own Business, its needed personal partner. I feel better too find dating for myself. Can you suggest it's OK or wrong? Hopefully too wish to better solution to my Business energy. Awaiting for your valuable answers. Good night.

Ans: Dear Yazdi,
From the information that I have come across, there are a couple of Apps that cater to seniors only. You might want to try one of those.
Also I see that you seem to like being outdoors and there are travel start-ups that cater to the young at heart (seniors). The internet should give you information on this. They organize trips and adventures that might meet your level of adventure and incidentally you might meet like-minded people too. That may give you a good avenue to connect and build an association not only with a lady but many others as well.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Ashok,
Live-in relationships are based on trust and mutual agreement. And for this to happen both parties should have spent enough time before to be comfortable to have a live-in relationship. And this is something that you need to work out for yourself.
And about marriage bureau, I guess if you browse the internet to see comparative sites that enlist prospective people for marriage, you will know where you can list your profile. It requires time, effort and patience.
Please do not expect anyone to take you to your destination; they can only guide you...

If you desire a change in your life, then kindly take some time off to work on it else you will be where you are. Options are many; see what suits you and kindly go ahead. Life it about giving your best and making sure that you work for it just like working at office or for the family.

All the best!

Ans: Hi Sachin,

I understand that dating can sometimes be very frustrating. You have every right to start wondering whether it will work or not. Since you have already tried dating apps and even had a positive experience, I would ask you to recognize that as a win first. Second, let me share some tips with you that might help you find the right kind of matches:

- Write a detailed and attractive Bio. What should it include? 40% about yourself- your education, your quirks and habits, likes and preferences, and everything that makes you you. 10% about what you can offer as a partner. 10% about the type of relationship you want. Do you want to date exclusively, or are you looking for casual? Are you looking to get married or long-term dating? Mention it clearly to attract the right matches. The remaining 40% should be about the kind of person you want to date. Your idea of a perfect partner. It would save you a lot of time and energy on the relationships that start strong but eventually fizzle out.

- The display picture can play an important role. Always pick a recent and clear image to never mislead anyone. Choose an image that shows you in your element, preferably smiling because that makes you seem warm and welcoming. Refrain from over-editing.

- Another important step is the first message. Write a detailed and personalized first message instead of a Hi.

Other than this, I would ask you to have patience. Regardless of the mode of dating, finding the right partner can take time in certain instances. Good things take time.

Best Wishes.