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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 14, 2024Hindi
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I met with a car accident back in 2013. The car landed up on the edge of the divider at night. I was taking a turn and there was a truck coming on the other side whose headlights blinded me for a whole and the road didn't have streetlights either. After that incident, I just drive to nearby places in the suburb I stay. I fear getting into an accident again. I'm a fairly good driver. Should I start long drives again?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It's fear that we are talking about and fear stays until you allow it to stay!
Ask an expert who can guide you through the process of eliminating this fear...If you wish to work on it yourself:
- doubt the fear every time it comes into your mind
- remind yourself that you have had many more days of safe driving v/s one day with an incident
- on lobe drives, go along with company OR let someone else drives a few time before you get behind the wheel

Basically, it's about taking the fear from its roots and if you find it difficult doing the above yourself, go to an expert...they will guide you through more processes that will cut the fear from its source and enable you to feel better and liberated.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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