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Asked by Anonymous - May 20, 2023Hindi
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I'm 66 yrs old retired having two sons, both married according to their choice. My wife 60 going to retire in a couple of months. My elder son who is a Bank executive married since 10 years and issueless. The younger son working as an executive in KPMG married since 4 years and having a child. Due some misunderstanding with the their wives the sons are at times not in talking terms with us. My sons are also not in talking terms with each other. In the recent days the elder son directly instigated not to keep contact with the younger one because he did not like our closeness with him. We are put into dilemma and unable to convince both the children to reconcile the situation. Please advise.

Ans: I'm sorry to hear about the strained relationships between your sons and their wives, as well as the tension between your sons themselves. Here are some suggestions that may help:

Open and honest communication: Encourage open and honest communication between all family members. Try to create a safe and non-judgmental environment where everyone can express their thoughts, concerns, and feelings. Act as a mediator, actively listening to each party and facilitating productive discussions.

Family counseling: Consider seeking the help of a family counselor or therapist who specializes in resolving family conflicts. A professional can provide guidance and help navigate the complexities of the situation, facilitating healthier communication and promoting understanding among family members.

Individual conversations: Have one-on-one conversations with each of your sons to understand their perspectives and concerns. Encourage them to share their feelings openly and without interruption. This can help you gain insight into their individual experiences and provide a foundation for finding common ground.

Encourage empathy and understanding: Emphasize the importance of empathy and understanding in resolving conflicts. Help your sons and their spouses see things from each other's perspectives, fostering compassion and promoting reconciliation.

Promote shared experiences: Find opportunities for your sons and their families to spend time together in a neutral and relaxed environment. Encourage activities that promote bonding, such as family outings, celebrations, or vacations. Creating positive shared experiences can help rebuild connections and mend relationships.

Set boundaries: While it's important to encourage reconciliation, it's equally important to set and maintain healthy boundaries. Ensure that everyone understands the need for respect and mutual consideration, both within the family and between the spouses. Reinforce the importance of maintaining healthy relationships while respecting individual autonomy.

Lead by example: Show your sons and their spouses that you value and prioritize healthy relationships. Demonstrate positive communication, respect, and understanding in your own interactions with them and with your wife. Lead by example and encourage them to do the same.

Remember, resolving family conflicts takes time, effort, and understanding from all parties involved. It may be helpful to seek professional guidance from a family therapist who can provide tailored advice based on a deeper understanding of your family dynamics.

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I am happily man and 56 with two sisters and one brother and Maa, some how my mother, brother and sisters are extremely devouted to their respective family and highly gentle and have high family values. Likewise even my wife is extremely hardworking lecturer for 25 years and devouted wife and even my son is very sensible young advocate. We care and respect one another very much. Now the problem is my younger sister's husband has taken a big loan of Rs. 60 lakh and had a big business loss due to demonitisation followed by extended lockdown, due to which he is unable to pay loan though he has many shared land assets which he is unable to sell. The loan was taken by mortgaging their three bhk flat in which they live. Now, I have around 48 lakhs to help his out of the load default but my wife opposes this because i got this Rs. 48 lakhs by selling our other unoccupied house. I understand my wife's opinion and also that of my younger sister's condition. Like wise my other siblings have also not been successful money wise in life despite having been very educated. Problem is they all got stuck in life due to high moral values and could not learn ways of the world. My dilemma is whether to help my younger sister's husband out of his problems or not and also my affection for my siblings annoys my wife though she is also very respectful to them and says, they all need to learn we can not support them in their struggles beyond a limit as we are also going to retire. How do is sort this out?
Ans: It's understandable that you are facing a difficult situation and feeling torn between helping your younger sister's husband and respecting your wife's opinion. Here are some suggestions that might help you sort this out:

Consider the impact on your own financial future: It's important to consider your own financial situation and retirement plans before deciding to help your sister's husband. You should also consider the impact of selling your property to help someone else, and whether that could affect your own financial stability.

Communicate with your wife: Have an open and honest conversation with your wife about your desire to help your sister's husband and understand her concerns. Try to find a compromise that works for both of you.

Set clear boundaries: It's important to set clear boundaries with your siblings about what kind of financial assistance you are willing and able to provide. You should also be clear about what kind of support you expect from them in return.

Explore other options: Consider whether there are other ways to help your sister's husband without putting your own financial future at risk. This could include helping him find a job, connecting him with resources for financial counseling or debt relief, or exploring other options for selling his assets.

Seek advice from a financial professional: If you're still unsure about what to do, consider seeking advice from a financial professional who can help you assess the risks and benefits of different options.

Ultimately, it's important to make a decision that feels right for you and your family, while also being mindful of the potential consequences.
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Dear Anu, My son is 17years and has a affinity towards his mother it seems. Whenever i ask any questions about his studies and plans he shouts at me and misbehaves. I have stopped talking to him because of this. I don't know whether he likes me or not. He seems very content with his computer and his friends.. How can i build a relation with him. Also same with my wife. She does not talk to my parents neither to nay of my relatives. I tried on many occasions to make her realize that this is not okay. My Father is 82 and is longing to talk to her and stay with us...I do not know what is the issue with her. I do not abject to anything she does. How can i convince her...
Ans: Dear Trilok,
Why are you so intent on making people be with you or like you? If they don't see value in you, it's their misfortune maybe. This is one line of thought.
Another line of thought could be: Are there other ways of actually connecting with them? You son perhaps may bond better with you over a sport that the two of you can play BUT may connect with his mother over a conversation. Do not expect the same kind of connection...he's your son...rather than complain about what's not happening, how about trying a different approach and make things happen. See what interests him and bond with him on that!
Now with what your wife does...you really must find out what makes her not want to talk to your father. Maybe instead, you can invite your father to stay and encourage a conversation between him and your wife. And please don't form an opinion that just because your wife refuses to talk to your father, your son refuses to talk to you. It's two very different situations...

Stopping to talk to your son or wonder what's wrong with your wife only means that you have managed to externalize the issue and you will soon find reasons to blame them for a failing relationship. Instead assume charge and do what it takes to bond with your family...it works!

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 06, 2024Hindi
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Madam, I have two sons, one aged 22 yrs (is working as a computer hardware support executive and is working hard) and another, aged 17 years (just appearing for his 12th std board exams in Commerce stream). I have obtained a divorce from my wife in sept 2023, after a legal process of 15 months. The divorce was a result of extra marital relationship by my wife for several years and she abruptly leaving the house in april 2022 without proper good byes and without "settling" my sons. My sons have been pulling on so long since they do not want me to get depressed. Particularly the younger one is apparently just going through life as a formality. Could you kindly suggest me how to keep them afloat and motivated, and retain / develop the zest which they had earlier
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
This is really sad and I can only imagine what you and the boys must be going through.
Any parent/loved one leaving without a trace does not offer closure and as much as the three of you have moved on, it can get tough making the mind understand and why it all happened.
There is NO clear answer to a WHY as it can only be derived out of one's own perceptions; hence make a story that helps you all move on...
1. Sit down with the boys and instead of reasoning out with them as to WHY it all happened, try and focus on WHAT NEXT?
This transition from WHY to WHAT NEXT brings out a series of options that guide you to transition into the next phase of life. It's not easy BUT possible only if you make that humble attempt.
2. Each of you need to heal from what's happened and the only way that is going to happen if you move into a positive space looking forward to what's in store for you.
3. The boys will slowly move on with career and other stuff BUT do make sure to tell them that 'not all women make similar choices'...this is to ensure that they go on to have healthy relationships in future. Motivate your younger one to join sports/gym; this ensures that he displaces any seething anger that he is carrying. If this does not work, take him to a professional who can help him through the struggle hat he is facing.
4. On your part, move into a space where you have a good social circle and thrive in your work as well. Seeing this, your boys will move away from taking care of you to supporting you. One step at a time...

All the best!
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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 20, 2024Hindi
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Madam, Thanks for your advice recently. I am considering the idea of setting up a meeting of my 2 sons with my ex-wife, so that they get a chance to ask their questions and relieve the burden on their mind. But it can also end up with negative effects since memories carry with them their attached emotions too. Kindly provide your advice, considering the emotional state of my sons which I have mentioned in the previous query. Besides, it remains to be seen whether my ex-wife will agree to come for the meeting and will actually come in reality
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I hope you are the same person who has asked this question:
https://gurus.rediff.com/question/qdtl/relationship/two-sons-aged-22-yrs-working-computer-hardware-support-executive/5150138

Well, a meeting between your sons and their mother might be a good idea but I would still suggest you do that by first talking/meeting her. If she is still in a place of blame-game, then perhaps the time is not right for the meeting. So, speak withe her first and assess if the meeting between her and the sons is a good idea.
If YES, be a facilitator of that meeting wherein you set the expectations of no expectations between them. This approach will allow them to be objective wherein they talk as adults and emotions will be heard but not acted upon. Emotions maybe raw still and the meeting may take a turn for the worse...so be prepared.
Also, if you still are filled with emotions that might get in the way of the meeting, then please ask someone else from the family to facilitate/mediate. Emotions must be used to build and not destroy; so your initial job will be to find out where everyone's heart and mind lie...tough one I agree, but I am sure with an objective mind, you will be able to do this!

All the best!
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? rediff.com Rediff Gurus Logo Hi Anwesha | Sign Out HealthHealth MoneyMoney RelationshipRelationship CareesCareer Ask your questions about health, money, relationship or careers here Ask Anonymously You posted: My boyfriend's ex happens to be his sister-in law's sister (first cousin). That was his first serious relationship and she had dumped him. It has been quite a few years since, but it bothers me that he is indirectly still related to her. My boyfriend's sister-in-law has a daughter (his niece) whom he loves very much. But whenever he talks to his sister in law or plays with the kid, it makes me uncomfortable. I am broadly uncomfortable with the fact that he is the uncle to the same kid his ex is aunt to. Which means they are somewhat familialy related. I have seen his ex post videos of the kid playing around in his house, which means she still gets regular updates about his household through her sister (his sister-in-law). I really don't want to get into something this complicated, but I love my boyfriend very much. He also loves the kid a lot which makes me hate myself for projecting my hate on the kid/sister-in law because they're not at fault. But it really bothers me whenever I hear the kid's voice or his sister in law's because that reminds me of his ex. I feel extremely insecure and uncomfortable and I don't know how to deal with this, but I really want things to work out between my boyfriend and me. What is the solution?
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Well, this feeling ain't going away that soon as you are bordering on obsession possibly without reason.
Jealousy leading to insecurities and constantly monitoring him is only going to make it worse on you...so either you trust him or you don't...which is it going to be?
Has he given you any reason to doubt him OR is it only your fear and hate fueling it? If it's the ex coming along and bringing with it all the fears inside of you, then work at it before you make this really ugly and now it's in your hands.
Jealousy is a normal human emotion BUT how you deal with it is a choice you are going to have to make. So, start to reassure yourself by saying that it's all okay and good. Challenge your thoughts every time they crop up so that it doesn't grow large enough for you to start projecting. Talk to your boyfriend requesting him to be more patient with you if at all you snap at him for anything. But not for long as he will run out of patience.
If there is nothing going on between him and his ex, why is it taking you so much to trust him? More than a love, a relationship needs trust and understanding. Pour these into it and not only will you feel better, your boyfriend will also be more supportive of what you are going through. Trust or not; it's your choice!

All the best!
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Hi Kirtan, I am 45 now. I am looking for a pension plan. I can invest upto Rs 5000 per month. Should I go in NPS or LIC? What are pro and cons for both?
Ans: Considering your age and investment amount, NPS (National Pension System) could be a preferable option over LIC for a pension plan. Here's a breakdown of the pros and cons of each:

NPS (National Pension System):
Pros:

Flexibility: NPS offers flexibility in choosing investment options, including equity, corporate bonds, and government securities, allowing you to tailor your portfolio based on your risk tolerance and investment goals.
Tax Benefits: Contributions to NPS are eligible for tax deductions under Section 80C, with an additional deduction of up to Rs. 50,000 under Section 80CCD(1B). Additionally, partial and lump-sum withdrawals are tax-exempt up to certain limits.
Low Cost: NPS has a relatively low-cost structure compared to traditional pension plans, with competitive fund management charges.
Cons:

Lock-in Period: NPS has a lock-in period until retirement age, with limited withdrawal options before that. Early withdrawals are subject to restrictions and penalties.
Market Risk: Since NPS invests in market-linked instruments, such as equities, there's a level of market risk involved. Returns may fluctuate based on market performance.
Limited Annuity Options: The annuity options under NPS may be limited compared to traditional pension plans offered by insurance companies like LIC.
LIC (Life Insurance Corporation):
Pros:

Guaranteed Returns: LIC pension plans typically offer guaranteed returns, providing a sense of security and predictability in retirement income.
Death Benefit: Some LIC pension plans come with a death benefit, ensuring that your nominee receives a lump sum or annuity in case of your demise.
Wide Range of Annuity Options: LIC offers a wide range of annuity options, allowing you to choose a plan that best suits your retirement needs and preferences.
Cons:

Lower Flexibility: LIC pension plans may offer limited flexibility compared to NPS in terms of investment options and withdrawal flexibility.
Higher Costs: Traditional pension plans from LIC may have higher costs compared to NPS, including administration charges and agent commissions.
Limited Tax Benefits: While premiums paid towards LIC pension plans are eligible for tax deduction under Section 80C, the overall tax benefits may be limited compared to NPS.
In conclusion, NPS tends to offer more advantages over LIC for a pension plan, given its flexibility, tax benefits, and lower costs. However, considering the potential advantages of mutual funds over NPS in terms of flexibility and potentially higher returns, you may also explore mutual fund options for your retirement planning
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I am 63 years old.Yearly pension 6.50 lacs Annual interest from bank deposits 5.50 lacs ( Bank deposits Rs.60 lacs). Monthly pension is sufficient to meet expenses since my children are settled.How to redeploy the bank deposit to maximize income
Ans: Given your stable pension income and surplus from bank deposits, optimizing your investments for higher income while maintaining liquidity and minimizing risk is crucial. Here's a strategy tailored to your needs:

Fixed Income Investments: Consider allocating a portion of your bank deposits to fixed income instruments such as Senior Citizen Savings Scheme (SCSS), Post Office Monthly Income Scheme (POMIS), or Tax-free Bonds. These instruments offer regular income with relatively lower risk compared to equities.
Debt Mutual Funds: Invest a portion of your bank deposits in debt mutual funds with a focus on short to medium-term duration funds or monthly income plans (MIPs). These funds offer the potential for higher returns compared to traditional fixed deposits while maintaining liquidity and capital preservation.
Dividend-Paying Stocks: Explore investing a small portion of your surplus in dividend-paying stocks of stable companies. Focus on sectors with a history of consistent dividend payouts, such as utilities, consumer goods, or pharmaceuticals. Dividend income can supplement your pension and bank interest income.
Systematic Withdrawal Plan (SWP): Consider setting up a systematic withdrawal plan (SWP) in debt mutual funds or balanced funds to generate regular income while preserving capital. SWPs allow you to withdraw a fixed amount periodically, providing a steady stream of income similar to an annuity.
Emergency Fund: Ensure you maintain an adequate emergency fund equivalent to 6-12 months' worth of living expenses in a liquid and easily accessible account. This fund will provide a financial cushion in case of unforeseen expenses or emergencies.
Tax Considerations: Evaluate the tax implications of your investment choices, especially considering your current income sources and tax bracket. Optimize your investments to minimize tax liability while maximizing post-tax returns.
Consultation: Seek guidance from a Certified Financial Planner or investment advisor who can assess your specific financial situation, risk tolerance, and investment goals. They can help design a customized investment strategy tailored to your needs and objectives.
By diversifying your investments across fixed income instruments, mutual funds, dividend-paying stocks, and maintaining an emergency fund, you can maximize income while ensuring capital preservation and financial security in your retirement years.
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Hi. I am currently living in India and have received a job offer from Dubai. As I plan to shift, I needed to understand some nuances about managing my SIPs, Equity Holdings and EMIs in India. I have following: 1. 80K SIP in 2 DSP Funds and 2 Quant Funds 2. 70K EMI for a home loan 3. About 1Cr equity holding in a demat account Once I move, I will let my flat out on rent. Wanted to understand following: 1. For rent collection, EMI, SIP etc what account is advisable? NRE or NRO? For EMIs, SIPs etc I will have to transfer money from overseas account to Indian account 2. For SIPs - I will have to change my existing account to an NRE/NRO account as well? 3. Demat holdings - is there a separate category of demat accounts for NRIs?
Ans: Moving to Dubai while maintaining financial commitments in India requires careful planning. Here's a breakdown of considerations for managing your SIPs, EMIs, and equity holdings:

Account Choice: For rent collection, EMI payments, and SIP investments, opening an NRE (Non-Resident External) account is advisable. NRE accounts allow you to repatriate funds freely, making them suitable for managing finances while abroad. However, for domestic transactions, you can also consider an NRO (Non-Resident Ordinary) account, which has restrictions on repatriation but facilitates local transactions.
SIP Management: You'll need to transition your existing bank account linked to SIPs to an NRE/NRO account to facilitate seamless fund transfers from your overseas account. Ensure you inform your mutual fund provider about the change in bank details to avoid any disruptions in your SIPs.
EMI Payments: Similarly, you'll need to link your home loan EMI payments to your NRE/NRO account for smooth transactions. Set up standing instructions or auto-debit mandates to ensure timely EMI payments while you're abroad.
Demat Holdings: As an NRI, you can hold equity investments in India through a designated NRI demat account. You'll need to convert your existing demat account to an NRI demat account to continue managing your equity holdings seamlessly.
Tax Implications: Be mindful of tax implications both in India and Dubai. Consult with a tax advisor to understand your tax obligations in both countries and optimize your tax planning strategies.
Legal Compliance: Ensure compliance with RBI regulations and other legal requirements concerning NRI investments and remittances to avoid any regulatory issues.
Communication: Maintain open communication with your banks, mutual fund providers, and brokerages to update them about your NRI status and ensure smooth transition and management of your financial affairs.
By proactively addressing these considerations and seeking guidance from financial advisors and legal experts, you can effectively manage your financial commitments in India while pursuing opportunities abroad.
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i want to open in mutual fund nfo.which will be better for me. canara robecco manufacturing fund or Edelweiss technology fund i already have 10k in ratia 5:3:2 in zerodha elss taxsaver nifty large midcap 250index,quant infrastructure fund,aditya birla sunlife psu equity fund
Ans: When choosing between mutual fund NFOs like Canara Robeco Manufacturing Fund and Edelweiss Technology Fund, it's essential to consider various factors such as your investment goals, risk tolerance, and portfolio diversification.

Canara Robeco Manufacturing Fund: This fund focuses on investing in companies operating in the manufacturing sector. It aims to capitalize on the growth potential of manufacturing companies and may be suitable if you're bullish on the manufacturing sector's prospects. However, it's essential to assess the fund's investment strategy, track record, and the outlook for the manufacturing sector before investing.
Edelweiss Technology Fund: This fund focuses on investing in technology-related companies, which may include IT services, software, hardware, and internet companies. It aims to benefit from the growth potential of the technology sector, which has been experiencing rapid innovation and expansion. If you believe in the long-term growth prospects of the technology sector, this fund may align well with your investment objectives.
Considering your existing investments in ELSS, index funds, and infrastructure funds, adding exposure to a specific sector like manufacturing or technology can provide additional diversification to your portfolio. However, it's essential to evaluate the concentration risk and ensure that the sectoral allocation complements your overall investment strategy.

Before investing in any NFO, thoroughly research the fund's objectives, investment strategy, fund manager's track record, and expense ratio. Additionally, consider consulting with a Certified Financial Planner to assess how the NFO fits into your overall investment portfolio and whether it aligns with your financial goals and risk profile.

Remember to stay focused on your long-term investment objectives and avoid making investment decisions solely based on short-term market trends or NFO hype. Diversification, thorough research, and disciplined investing are key to building a successful investment portfolio over time.
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I am 36 year old, I don't have any loan. I don't have any savings till now. But I want to start, I am able to save 30000 monthly. Please suggest how can I invest.
Ans: Starting to save and invest at 36 is a commendable decision, and with a monthly savings of 30,000, you have a great opportunity to build a solid financial foundation for your future. Here's a suggested approach to get started:

Emergency Fund: Begin by setting aside some of your savings into an emergency fund. Aim to accumulate at least 3 to 6 months' worth of living expenses in a liquid and easily accessible account. This fund will provide you with a financial safety net in case of unexpected expenses or emergencies.
Debt Management: Since you don't have any loans, focus on avoiding debt and maintaining a healthy credit score. If you do have any high-interest debt, such as credit card debt, prioritize paying it off as soon as possible to avoid unnecessary interest payments.
Investment Allocation: Determine your investment goals, risk tolerance, and investment horizon. Since you're starting relatively late, consider a balanced approach to investing with a mix of equity and debt investments. Given your age, you may have a longer investment horizon, allowing you to take on more risk for potentially higher returns.
Systematic Investment Plans (SIPs): Consider investing in mutual funds through SIPs. Mutual funds offer diversification and professional management, making them suitable for beginners. Allocate your investments across different categories such as large-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap funds to spread risk and maximize potential returns.
Retirement Planning: Start planning for your retirement by investing in retirement-oriented funds like Employee Provident Fund (EPF), Public Provident Fund (PPF), or Voluntary Provident Fund (VPF). Additionally, consider investing in Equity Linked Savings Schemes (ELSS) for tax-saving benefits while building a retirement corpus.
Continuous Learning: Take the time to educate yourself about personal finance and investment strategies. Attend workshops, read books, and follow reputable financial websites to enhance your knowledge and make informed investment decisions.
Regular Review and Adjustment: Regularly review your investment portfolio to ensure it remains aligned with your goals and risk tolerance. As your financial situation and goals evolve, make necessary adjustments to your investment strategy accordingly.
By following these steps and staying disciplined in your savings and investment approach, you can gradually build wealth and work towards achieving your financial goals. Remember, consistency and patience are key to long-term success in investing.
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Hi. Pls suggest a few mutual fund sectors for investing 10 lakhs in SIP for a investment holding period 20-25 years.
Ans: let's focus on other mutual fund sectors excluding index funds and sectoral funds:

Large Cap Funds: These funds invest in established, large-cap companies known for their stability and consistent performance. They offer a blend of growth potential and stability, making them suitable for investors with a moderate risk appetite and a long-term investment horizon.
Multi-Cap Funds: Multi-cap funds provide flexibility by investing across companies of various market capitalizations, including large, mid, and small-cap. This diversification allows investors to capitalize on opportunities across different segments of the market, potentially maximizing returns over the long term.
Mid Cap Funds: Mid-cap funds focus on companies with medium market capitalization, offering higher growth potential compared to large caps. While they come with higher volatility, mid-cap funds can generate significant returns over the long term for investors willing to tolerate market fluctuations.
Small Cap Funds: Small-cap funds invest in companies with small market capitalization, known for their high growth potential. They are more volatile compared to large and mid-cap funds but can offer substantial returns over the long term for investors with a higher risk appetite.
Balanced Advantage Funds: These funds dynamically allocate assets between equity and debt based on market conditions. They offer downside protection during market downturns while participating in equity market upswings, providing a balanced approach to long-term investing.
By focusing on large-cap, multi-cap, mid-cap, small-cap, and balanced advantage funds, you can build a diversified mutual fund portfolio tailored to your long-term investment goals. Remember to regularly review your portfolio's performance and make adjustments as needed to stay on track towards achieving your financial objective
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Hello Patrick, I'm planning to purchase a land in Bengaluru, there are 2 options , register at Govt Guidance value or at market price, which is better option, and what will be the capital gains implications if we register on guidance value and sell in future Thanks
Ans: When it comes to registering property, deciding between the government guidance value and the market price depends on various factors.

Registering at the government guidance value can offer advantages such as lower registration fees and potentially reduced tax implications. However, it's crucial to ensure that the guidance value aligns with the actual market value of the property to avoid any legal or tax issues in the future.

On the other hand, registering at the market price reflects the true value of the property and can provide a more accurate representation of its worth. While this may result in higher registration fees and taxes, it can offer greater transparency and legal protection.

Regarding capital gains implications, if you register the property at the government guidance value and sell it in the future at a higher market price, you may be subject to capital gains tax on the difference between the sale price and the guidance value. It's essential to consult with a Certified Financial Planner or tax advisor to understand the specific tax implications and plan accordingly.

Ultimately, the decision between government guidance value and market price registration depends on your individual circumstances, risk tolerance, and long-term goals. Consider consulting with professionals to ensure you make an informed decision that aligns with your financial objectives and legal obligations.
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Hello Sir, I have taken a home loan from HDFC. Now only 27 EMI are to be paid. My current rate of interest is 8.55%. Yesterday, I received an email from HDFC saying that I can opt for a fixed rate of interest for the remaining tenure. They have not given that fixed rate of interest in the email. My question is that should I opt for the offer? Can you please suggest if it would be beneficial for me or not? Thanks in advance for your advice. - Satish
Ans: Satish, it's great that you're considering your options carefully when it comes to your home loan. Opting for a fixed interest rate can offer stability and predictability in your monthly payments, which can be comforting, especially as you near the end of your loan tenure.

However, before making a decision, it's important to weigh the pros and cons. Consider factors such as the current interest rate environment, your financial situation, and any potential future changes in interest rates. While a fixed rate can shield you from fluctuations in interest rates, it may also mean missing out on potential savings if interest rates decrease in the future.

As a Certified Financial Planner would advise, evaluate the terms of the fixed interest rate offer from HDFC, including the rate itself and any associated fees or conditions. Compare it with your current variable interest rate to determine if the switch would be beneficial for you in the long run. Remember, every financial decision is unique, so take your time to make an informed choice that aligns with your goals and circumstances.
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